What are the consequences of a white lie?

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

There are happy and painful. It depends.

Disadvantages of white lies: 1. From the perspective of psychology, it will make the person who tells the white lie cognitive dissonance, and in order to adjust the cognitive dissonance, he will further make some outrageous behaviors to maintain the lie. 2. Once a white lie is exposed, if you meet someone who does not understand, it will cause you to be greatly wronged, cause contradictions, and even irreconcilable.

Whether it is to one's own relatives, friends, or people who do not know each other, there are many kinds of purposes, but when people add a good intention to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness. When you can't get an idea, tell the truth, it will be embarrassing for your opponent and relieved for your friends. Therefore, the view of psychologists is:

Don't lie easily, even if it's a white lie.

If the other party finds out, they may lose confidence (people with poor psychological quality).

A lie is a lie.

Sooner or later, there will be a time when it will be recognized.

It was himself who was injured before he was recognized.

I'm always worried about being recognized.

The person who was injured after the recognition was still injured.

But he was already injured first.

There is no need.

Do whatever you want.

Self-deception is not a good word.

There is no need to find adjectives to embellish lies.

Kiss! White lies are bad for deception. As a lie itself will inevitably hinder integrity, whether we are in school, at home or in society, we must pay attention to integrity, integrity is the most basic morality of communication between people.

There may be some people who think that white lies are all good and not malicious, but when we get along together, why can't we be honest with each other? Even if you add good intentions to the word lie, the negative effects abound. Usually there are a lot of white lies in some TV series we watch, but in order not to worry his family and friends, he doesn't tell anyone, and he doesn't go **, maybe this kind of story looks very touching, he thinks about his family and friends, and doesn't cause trouble for them.

But when he finally left this world, he left so much damage to the living that they couldn't live normally for a long time.

Many people believe that in order to avoid hurting the feelings of others, we sometimes need some white lies in our lives. White lies have a magic that brings hope and warmth. For example, if you tell a patient the truth about an incurable disease, he will feel hopeless.

Conversely, if you tell him a white lie, he may enjoy the rest of his life with more hope and peace. Others, however, believe that no one should lie about it, no matter what kind of lie it is. They also advocate that everyone should know the truth about their situation in any situation.

A white lie is essentially a lie. When people finally know the truth, they may feel betrayed. More seriously, it can ruin a cherished relationship.

It seems to me that whether we should lie or not really depends on the results it may cause. When we tell white lies, we better think about what the situation was at the time and what the consequences might be.

Summary. A white lie is motivated by good intentions, with the purpose and starting point of defending the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions are divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in and special and is distinguished from universality.

According to the nature of its white lie, it is not a bad benefit, but is based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, while a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, using others as a means with a strong desire for profit and weak reason, and not hesitating to harm others. The lies that a person who is good in itself is "forced" to tell in a certain state are benevolent, and this lie is a kind of kindness, a kind of concern for the subject. And people with bad intentions, no matter how disguised, how flattering, and how they rack their brains to put a white hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell are all malicious and purposeful.

Obviously, a white lie does not hinder integrity.

What are the consequences if you don't tell a white lie?

A white lie is motivated by good intentions, with the purpose and starting point of defending the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions are divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in and special and is distinguished from universality. According to the nature of his Tongmu brother's well-intentioned lies, it is not a bad benefit, but is based on the sincerity and goodness of the heart, and the malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, with a strong desire for profit and weak reason, and only using the attack on others as a means, and not hesitating to harm others.

The lies that people who are good in themselves are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned, and this kind of lies are a kind of kindness, a kind of concern to the Lord's body. And people with bad intentions, no matter how disguised, how flattering, and how they rack their brains to put a white hat on their malicious lies, the lies they tell are all malicious and purposeful. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder integrity.

Second: White lies are a way of dealing with the world, a grand embodiment of the quality of thinking about others. The relatives and friends of a terminally ill patient always use white lies to tell him that his illness is very light, and encourage him to cooperate with the doctor**, I believe that everyone here will not accuse them of dishonesty because of this, right?!

On the contrary, it is malicious and true, a captive is lured by the enemy to tell his own troop deployment, does anyone think he is honest? Sincere appreciation for the enemy is a betrayal of the country!

1.If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. 2.

A lie is dark in itself, and a white lie is a lie in itself. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, and thus hindered integrity. The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper.

3.In my opinion, distrusting others is not only irresponsible to oneself, but also disrespectful to others, and even to others, causing losses to the interests of the collective. The most important thing is to lose the trust of others.

4.Zi said: "People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do."

It is believed that if people do not be trustworthy, they will have no place in society and will not be able to accomplish anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word. If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.

5.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may be used many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying becomes a habit, lying, it's like a snowball, it will get bigger and bigger.

Opposite: 1White lies are beautiful, and when we tell small lies in moderation for the sake of the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect, and tolerance.

Who doesn't want to be understood, respected, and tolerated? So, I think it's still necessary to tell a few white lies in my humble life. 2.

White lies, all kinds of white lies from the starting point and result, are all to protect the other party's emotions, maintain the other party's mental health and pleasure, and are a kind of humanistic spirit. Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become better, warmer and more harmonious, and the world will be full of sunshine. 3.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by doctors, his parents, children, and all his relatives will not directly tell him: "Life cannot be saved" or "At most, how long can I live in this world?" They all use white lies to encourage patients and let him cooperate with doctors**, and the opposing party can't blame these people for being dishonest, right?

Although these are all truths, who would be so cruel as a judge to sentence a prisoner to death, telling the truth to his relatives who are already sick? Is this an undermine to integrity?

Since it is well-intentioned, there should be no harm, but a risk!

Risk: After knowing the truth, the person you lie to may turn your face without appreciating it, affecting your relationship!

The person you lie to may lose trust in you after knowing the truth, and some things may have to be considered before deciding whether to tell you or not!

The person you lie to is very likely to feel deceived and fooled after knowing the truth, and is extremely angry, even if he is well-intentioned, when he knows the truth, the pain of being deceived will be more painful by the truth!!

It's possible that you need to expand n lies because of this white lie to cooperate with this white lie!

Personal opinion: Since it is a lie, it will not be good, whether it is good or malicious, it is always a lie, what is better than knowing the truth, clearer and more clear? The reason why white lies exist is because they question the other party's courage to face reality (for fear that the other party will not accept it) and their ability to persuade themselves (for fear that they will not be able to comfort the other party), so they ......

Use ...... sparingly