How to communicate with a child in early love, how to communicate with a child in early love

In fact, children are very simple, although I am a child, and I am also a child of early love, but I believe that my method should be very effective.

First of all, tell your child that it is normal to have a good impression of the opposite sex at your age, and it seems that your mental development and psychological development are synchronized and healthy. In addition, if you have someone of the opposite sex who likes you, it means that you are a cute child, and you will have a good impression of other classmates, which means that you are also a person who knows how to appreciate others.

Next, tell him that your current situation has just begun, as a lovable person, you will meet a lot of people who appreciate you and like you in the future, and we must be grateful to them, and at the same time, you will also meet many people who are worthy of your liking and appreciation, each of them has different strengths, so it is a bit too early to look for that person.

Finally, tell the child that a person is worthy of the appreciation of others only if he does well, and if a classmate is not good at studying, has a mediocre temperament, and has average ability, why should others appreciate him. For students, temperament and ability are generated on the basis of learning. Only by studying hard can you become more and more endearing, get the appreciation of others, and at the same time learn to appreciate others...

Falling in love with children is natural, go with the flow. It's nothing, now nine out of ten children are in early love.

It's okay to talk openly and honestly and ask him what he thinks. Don't blindly oppose it, the child's rebellious thinking is very strong.

Summary. Good morning, dear little brother! For children's early love, you can't come up and say that early love is wrong, otherwise, it is easy to arouse his disgust.

You can say something like: Baby, you are a big child now, and your father is very understanding and happy to have a girl you like. Baby, the reason why the other party likes you is because you have many advantages, because you have excellent grades, if you put too much time and energy into falling in love, your grades may decline, at that time, the other party may not like you, after all, girls still prefer girls with excellent grades.

Good morning, dear little brother! For children's early love, you can't come up and say that early love is wrong, otherwise, it is easy to arouse his disgust. You can say something like:

Baby, you are a big child now, and with a girl you like, Dad is very understanding and happy. Baby, the reason why the other party likes you is because you have many advantages, because you have excellent grades, if you put too much time and energy into falling in love, your grades may decline, at that time, the other party may not like you, after all, girls still prefer girls with excellent grades.

What should I do if my child in the second year of junior high school is not going to school now because of early love?

Little brother, if you don't go to school today, don't force it, communicate with him according to my suggestion, it may not work once, you can do it twice, you must follow my train of thought.

What kind of thinking do you have, and can you be specific?

Hello, in the chat that started! It has already been written to you.

Don't rush it.

You can talk to him about it, understand his thoughts, respect his opinion, show understanding, but tell him that there are serious consequences of doing so, that two people are open and honest with each other, and that they respect each other like friends.

Parents should choose to speak calmly to talk to their children about early love. It can't be solved by beating and scolding, otherwise it is easy for the child to have a rebellious mentality. Not only will it not solve the problem, but it may also lead to the intensification of family conflicts, which is very detrimental to family harmony.