How to resolve all kinds of grievances? How to untie the knot and resolve resentment?

1. Always be grateful.

We can't choose our parents, but we can choose our own attitude towards life. The world is so big, without parents, there will be no grandson to burn us, and the grace of birth and nurturing is greater than the sky.

Compared to the life given by the parents, ideologically"Imperfections"It seems insignificant. Even if our parents don't do well, we must always be grateful, because often remembering the warmth given by our parents can help us resolve some of our dissatisfaction and resentment.

Second, you still need to rely on yourself on the road of life.

In the TV series "It's All Good", Su's mother can smash pots and sell iron for her son's schooling, and even sell the house, but Mingyu just wanted to spend money to enroll in a tutoring class, but was ordered to stop by Su's mother, and finally Mingyu ran away from home with grief and anger.

Many years later, Mingyu is already a gold collar in the workplace, and she has walked out of it on her own"Sunshine Boulevard"When material abundance and spiritual prosperity are achieved, the past grievances and hatreds will be alleviated.

Third, the bell must be tied to the bell.

As the saying goes, the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are full of meat, even if the parents have the idea of preferring sons over daughters, I believe that they also love their daughters.

Since you have a problem in your heart, it is better to sit down with your parents, talk openly and honestly, tell your parents your thoughts, and at the moment when you "release your suspicions" and hug your parents, all the complaints and hatred will be resolved.

4. Seek professional help.

When you have a long-standing bad mood in your heart, when you can't solve it independently, it is better to seek professional help.

You can find a psychologist or psychological counselor, and under professional guidance and resolution, complaints and hatred will also be well resolved.

Mu Guiying is in command, and Hua Mulan is in the army for her father, this series of allusions all tell: Who said that women are not as good as men.

Personally, I think that no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, since they are fathers and mothers, they should give the same love to their children, so that a qualified parent should do.

Understand. It's not that enemies don't get together. This is a big creditor.

I'll tell you a story, if you don't believe in cause and effect, if you don't believe in past lives, then listen to it as a story.

A person starts to work hard since he can earn money, but his family, brothers and sisters, parents, relatives and friends all come to calculate him, and even make friends to calculate him.

worked hard until he was 40 years old, and he finally had a little success, but his wife and children began to find trouble again. The wife is divorced, and the children are self-harming.

He used alcohol to numb himself every day, but he could not be liberated.

Later, I got the guidance of a master.

Reason: In his previous life, in the Tang Dynasty, he had indirectly wronged a large family, and more than 40 people were killed. These people are asking for accounts, because they are not directly killing, so they are just asking for money.

Method: 1. Admit the account, admit the past mistakes, indirectly harm the lives of others, have an opportunity in this life, and seize the time to repay the debt.

2. Treat all those who ask for accounts equally, as long as they come to ask for it, do their best to pay it back.

I don't know if you can be inspired by this story, if not, you can read the mystery of discovering the marriage road.

I wish you a speedy escape from the sea of suffering.

It is not easy to resolve the hatred of the enemy, and it depends on what kind of hatred it is, and who is right or wrong. If you want to resolve it, then you have to have an open-minded and relaxed mentality, of course, you have to take the initiative to take this step, and don't expect too much that the other party can be like you, and the hatred has to take time to fade.

It is better to settle the grievances than to settle them, you can reconcile, sit down and have a good exchange.

Answer: If you encounter a situation where you owe money and do not pay it back, I recommend that you repay it as soon as possible (if you can still contact the other party), if you can't contact or the other party has been delaying, then I suggest that you still go through litigation as soon as possible to claim your money.

In addition, you should remember to keep the evidence of the other party's owe money as much as possible, if not, you can write an IOU or IOU, indicating that the purpose of the loan is legal; Wait until you get the evidence before asking for money, if the other party has no money, you can negotiate to pay the debt in kind.

If the amount is large, or as I said above, the other party has no intention of repaying the money at all, or wants to repay the debt, I suggest that you really do not hesitate to go directly to sue for repayment.

If you owe money to someone and can't afford to pay it back now, I suggest you find a creditor as soon as possible to negotiate.

Your best words are to take the initiative and contact the creditor as soon as possible to inform them that it is not that you do not want to pay back, but that it is indeed because you are short of money and cannot afford it. Then discuss with the other party to see if you can agree on a compromise installment amount or period.

The brothers settle the accounts, and those who should repay the money still need to be repaid, dear.

Because according to the law, for those who have the ability to repay but refuse to repay the arrears, the people's court will make a judgment to compel repayment, and if you are judged not to repay the debt, the court will enforce it when the time comes, and you will also have to repay. If it is enforced, it will not be returned, and your side will be on the credit report.

If you are sued and the court has now ruled that you are required to repay the money, and then you are temporarily unable to repay, you can apply to the court for instalments.

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When the wrongful creditor is resolved; First of all, you need to correct your mindset and behavior: don't think about old evils, don't hate people.

Secondly, you can worship the Buddha by burning incense and praying for blessings and repentance; You can ask for a natural incense to offer to the Buddhas and unjust creditors; One is to pray for the Buddha's blessings and protection; the second is to influence the unjust creditors to resolve the grievances between the two as soon as possible; However, this incense must be natural to convey your sincerity; It is recommended that you may wish to go to the official website of the phaseless copper furnace to customize a good phaseless natural fragrance one-on-one.

Also, if possible, you can wear a mascot at the same time; It is recommended that you can also customize it one-on-one on the official website of the phaseless copper furnace at the same time.

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