Your attitude towards the weak reflects your character

A country's attitude towards the weak actually reflects the degree of civilization of the country, and in the same way, a person's attitude towards the weak is actually your upbringing and pattern.

Living in the world, due to the influence of innate environment, class and other factors, it is impossible for everyone to be equal in society, but everyone is equal in personality, and everyone should be respected.

This kind of respect is not just a social etiquette, but comes from the deep understanding, love, consideration and respect for another life in the human heart.

A truly cultured person will not elevate himself by "bullying" the weak.

Confucius once said: "If you look at the danger of the wall, you will not be able to support it, but you will not be able to push it to be good." ”

Seeing that someone's wall is about to fall, if you can't support it, then not pushing it is also a kind of kindness; Seeing people crying sadly, if you don't want to comfort them, then unhappiness is also a kind of kindness.

Respecting the weak is an important manifestation of your character.

In the face of people who are weaker than themselves, people with a small pattern are bullied everywhere, looking for trouble, and often because of excessive self-esteem and pride, they make bullying behaviors;

The person with a cultivated figure is different, he knows how to respect others, will not use his status to oppress others, and at the same time clearly knows the limitations of being a weak person, and is more tolerant and generous.

You will find that people with a small pattern are mercenary, thinking that they don't need to be reasonable in the face of the weak, they should not get any benefits, and they only start from their own interests.

However, people with a big pattern always treat anyone with an equal and respectful attitude, even if they are inconspicuous and weak, they are also based on integrity, respect their rights and interests, and will not break their promises in front of the weak.

Friends of interest. It is difficult to make sincere friends, the number of friends is not as good as the quality of friends, a hundred friends who send umbrellas after the rain are not worth one who sends charcoal in the snow, stay away from those friends who are icing on the cake.

Charcoal in the snow. It is enough to look at a person's true character and see his attitude towards the weak. People who are cultivated, have high moral character, and respect others have the same attitude towards everyone, and there is no disguise of tending to be inflammatory.

Treat everyone with respect.

A person who can respect the weak, is willing to help the weak, and regards the weak as a confidant has a noble character and sincere behavior, and what he shows must be his truest self.

Treat people equally. There are often such scenes in TV dramas, where people at the same table are eating, and someone is respectful, humble and polite to the leader, those who are stronger than themselves, and those who ask for others; Attitudes towards other unimportant people are secondary; turned around and scolded the waiter, betraying his true character in an instant.

Duplicity. Not discriminating against the weak, not ignoring the weak, and not oppressing the weak are the basic attitudes of life and the moral standards and behavioral requirements of non-discrimination. It's reassuring to make friends with such people, without more worldly rules and a potential mask of hypocrisy.

Summary. Generally speaking, a person's character mainly depends on how he has his own status, how he has the influence of his career, and what kind of life he has various attractions.

And how his personal reputation is formed, so it doesn't really matter what he is like to the weak, because people like them are busy.

For example, these influential people are entrepreneurs, and the way they give others is that you can apply, as long as you have this education, as long as you have this talent, so he will always give the weak a successful career.

Look at a person's character, and the market will see whether he has empathy and respect for the weak.

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Generally speaking, a person's character mainly depends on how he has his own status, how he has the influence of his own business, and what kind of life he has to live a variety of attractions to tremble friends and how his personal reputation is formed, so what he is like to the weak, in fact, it doesn't matter, because they are busy, so the help that can be formed for the weak is to create the direction of Rome, for example, these influential people are entrepreneurs, and the way they give others is that you can come and apply, As long as you have this education, as long as you have this talent, so Liang Kai who he gives to the weak will always be successful in his career.

Many people always believe in a survival rule in their daily lives, believing that the weak should be bullied, and I personally disagree with this theory. First of all, the theory that the weak should be bullied is itself an extremely selfish and narrow-minded view. Everyone should be equal, in the process of getting along with each other should do mutual respect, in daily life, in the face of the weak we should try to help, only in this way can we really feel the heart of the steady, even if they are not willing to help these weak, then we should not bully those weak, because a person's strength is not based on the oppression of the weak and reflected, for the weak bullying, can only reflect their own incompetence and ignorance.

And those who believe in the theory that the weak should be bullied, they should also realize one point, that is, in life, they cannot always be a strong person, it is very likely that on a certain occasion, under certain conditions, they themselves are also a weak person, when they become a weak person, they are bullied by others, and they will naturally be very disappointed in their hearts, and they are very sad. We must not bully these weak people, even if we are not willing to help these weak people, then we should try our best to have a minimum of respect for these weak people, so that our hearts can be truly down-to-earth and calm.

Strictly speaking, you can see some of your character in your attitude towards the weak.

Attitude is something that can be pretended, let alone to the weak.

Some people seem to be very kind and casual to the weak, but in their hearts they may be contemptuous, contemptuous and even ridiculed, but in order to pretend to be affinity, there is no sense of distance from the weak on the surface.

Some people keep their distance from the weak and look cold, maybe he just feels that it is not a circle and does not mix together, so that everyone is more comfortable. There is a gap between the strong and the weak, not only between the strong and the weak, but also between the weak and the strong. For example, no matter how hard the scumbag works, the grades can't get up, if the scumbag plays with the scumbag, maybe the scumbag will inadvertently discuss the topic and talk about the score, and if you are not careful, you will hurt the scumbag.

For Xueba, he doesn't care about good or bad grades, he thinks that grades are only one aspect of people, but for the scumbags who can't get up after working hard, this is his failure.

If the attitude of the strong towards the weak is merciful and not pretended, it can only be said that his heart is not bad, and it cannot represent his character, because he regards himself as the strong and the other party as the weak, and he himself uses his own superiority to put the other party in an unequal position.

Being born a human being, what is strong and what is weak, the criterion itself is a subjective thing.

That's true, but not quite. Character is very accurate from the perspective of interests. But everyone has shortcomings, it just depends on whether they can tolerate it.

That's right, the attitude towards the weak can show whether he has compassion or not, and you can see whether he is kind or not by nature! Therefore, to see how a person is, not how he treats you, but how he treats the people and things around him.

Yes, this is definitely one of the things to look at character.