Career, Success Leadership

I was born in the 80s, with a high school education, although I have never suffered from the fields in the countryside.

But I also suffered a lot of social experience, and after graduation, I had fun when I went to school. Abandoned studies. I couldn't find a good job after graduation.

During this period, I changed many jobs in a row.

I've worked as a porter, I've worked in a factory, I've worked as a waiter in a restaurant.

When I was working as a porter, the days of that life were simply unbearable, I got out of work at ten o'clock at dawn every day, and it was still a problem to fill my stomach with only my salary, let alone to support my family, and I went out early and returned late every day, and I still had a pungent smell of sweat on my body.

Being bullied by people's eyes in the city will always belong to the lower ranks of society.

After being introduced by a friend, I quit my job as a porter and went to work in a factory. 12 hours a day in the factory. Although the salary is a little higher than that of transportation, I feel a little more comfortable, but I still feel very tired every day, and the food in the factory is relatively poor, but every day when I come to eat, I eat with relish.

After doing a certain amount of world, I feel as if my whole person has changed, and I have become numb, and I have no other contact with the outside world except for commuting to and from work every day. The language is basically the atmosphere of the factory, and then I came to the city of panic (Zhuhai) and entered a relatively good restaurant, and became a waiter.

Always whisper to the guests, I am a person full of ideals and burdens, I can't always be rugged under people, why can't I be the boss, I can't do what I want?

When I had this idea, I was full of thoughts about how I could make more money faster and more, and I accumulated a certain amount of savings in the restaurant for almost four years. When I returned to my hometown, I planned to do a small business, but I didn't know anything about business, and I came into contact with the Internet by chance. A county town is so big, there are only three Internet cafes.

What if I also opened one?

After thinking about it, I don't know anything about computers, how can I turn it on? For the management of Internet cafes, the things in the Internet are basically a rookie.

I heard from a friend that there is a computer training base in a county next door, and you can train there, and I think I have already made a plan anyway, so I can't live at my address no matter what. After that, I trained there for nearly a year, and after I came out, I opened a relatively small Internet café. 30 PCs.

It was a bit chaotic to manage before, but slowly it got better, and now my Internet café has expanded to 120 computers, and it is now the largest in the county

Sometimes I often think about the experience of working in the past, and it is really sad. Especially in this real society now. Whatever you do, basically.

It's so realistic to talk about money!

The influence of a leader mainly depends on the leader's own moral cultivation and knowledge, the level of ability, his qualifications, position, level, etc., and the way in which he exercises his authority.

Ways to increase leadership impact:

1. It is necessary to constantly strengthen study, strive to grasp the theoretical system and spiritual essence, and arm one's mind in order to guide the work, so that we can "stand tall and see far". Learn professional knowledge according to the needs of the job. Extensive learning can broaden horizons, broaden thinking, innovate thinking, and enhance the ability to make scientific decisions and guide practice.

Leaders should dare to learn from others' good ideas, good styles, and good methods, and learn from others' strengths and make up for their shortcomings.

2. Pay attention to improving personal quality. As a leader in the new era, you should have a high level of leadership charisma. Because leadership charisma affects the performance of leadership ability.

It helps to unite and influence subordinates, and enhances the effectiveness of leadership. In order to improve the charisma of leadership, it is necessary to have cultural quality, moral quality, and personality charm. Only by effectively combining these three qualities can we effectively improve the overall quality and leadership charisma of leaders.

Therefore, an aspiring leader should constantly strengthen the cultivation of cultural quality, moral quality, and personality charm.

3. Establish a good image. As the old saying goes: "His body is upright, and he does not obey orders; His body is not right, although he does not obey orders.

It can be seen that the ancients have long noticed the important influence of the leader's own image on the members of the organization. A successful leader should not be on top, but should go deep into the members of the organization, always put the interests of the members of the organization in mind, respect the personal dignity of the members of the organization, care for and care for the members of the organization, and give the members of the organization the opportunity to learn, work and develop. In the minds of the members of the organization, the leader should be a mentor at work, a friend in life, and a person who can always be trusted and relied on.

In short, if a leader wants to enhance his influence, he or she must cultivate both internally and externally, be strict with himself, lead by example, and use his leadership charisma to drive, influence, and promote the improvement of the work of the majority of organizational members.