How did a guy go from being deeply in love to wanting to break up?

A friend of mine broke up with his partner of five years, and I remember asking him at the time, "Don't you love it?" That's it.

He said, "I can't afford to love. "In any relationship, the pay is mutual, and the girl will not pay, so she will naturally break up in the end.

The boy must have gone through a very heart-wrenching process from deep love to wanting to break up, and he found that the girl he liked was not what he was at the beginning, so he couldn't hold on anymore.

Generally, when there is a breakup, it is actually done by the girl herself, and part of it is because the boy is distracted, so he wants to break up.

It hurt his heart, and what the girl did made the boy unforgivable, and it really hurt him, only in this case the boy would be very decisive, and break up when he said he would break up.

When the man is disappointed that you have saved enough, or loses faith in you.

Boys cherish that feeling, girls may not cherish it! For example, boys follow girls in everything, but girls will say that boys can't do this and that's not good because of some trivial things, and over time, boys will have the idea of giving up this relationship. Personal experience to talk about, spurted.

My ex, I loved her so much, and at the end of the day, I wanted to break up.

Not because I didn't love her anymore, but because I couldn't accept her change, she said something that made me feel chilling when I thought about it: If you can't give it to me, can't I take it from someone else?

Boys are actually very persistent and dedicated to a girl, and they are not willing to give up easily.

Everyone is unwilling to choose to come out of the process of deep love, and it takes courage to face it.

It's definitely the special freedom of this life.,Although it's fulfilling.,I liked it very much at first.,But slowly I can't accept that this girl is doing it very well.,So I want to break up.。

Breaking up is actually a choice that is forced to be, probably because the relationship between the two people is slowly fading.

It may be that the two people feel very inappropriate, and by getting along with each other, they gradually find that the other party is not what they love, and they sincerely pay for her, but in exchange for the other party's incomprehension, the relationship gradually fades, and finally they can't bear it, so they want to break up.

Personally, I feel that it is very likely that the boy has been hurt a lot, but he slowly wants to break up.

There is a saying that if you can make a man fall in love with you once, he may fall in love with you a second time. The essence of love is attraction, and each other is attracted by their respective shining points and walk together. But after getting along for a long time, if two people in the run-in period do not learn to communicate effectively, it is easy to have an emotional crisis because of misunderstanding each other.

If you want to repair your relationship, what can you do to make your partner fall in love with you again? In fact, the attraction you had to your partner at the beginning is still there, but because the conflict between the two makes the other party repulsive, you can't see your shining point for the time being. Regaining the other person's heart is actually a process of re-establishing a sense of comfort.

When listening, put aside your emotions and enter the other person's world without judgment. But often we have more self-expression in our hearts, and we can't help but interrupt each other during the communication process, because we can't forget ourselves. So when someone else is talking, they try to turn the focus of the conversation back to themselves.

For example, when the other person expresses his frustration to us, "I feel very tired today, and my work is not going well. Instead of listening to his needs, we started talking about problems in our work, or "your colleagues are too unkind, or I'm better at work," and started boasting about our work. In this kind of communication, it will make the other party feel that he is not respected, and he may not be able to express it to us later, and slowly the lack of communication between the two will lead to a crisis in the relationship.

When communicating, you can try to use the first suppression and then the promotion, first talk about the other party's shortcomings, and then praise and understand from the opposite direction, the other party will be more receptive. The most direct and primitive thing in human nature is the concern for the self. As long as you find a way to let the other person express themselves, he will be more willing to communicate with you deeply.

Cold reading can't actually completely guess the other party's mind, but in this way, you can gain the trust of the other party, let the other party open their hearts, take the initiative to communicate with you, and thus establish emotional resonance with the other party. Two people can communicate well to develop a relationship that leads to a deep connection. In a relationship, if you don't learn to listen to each other, the relationship between two people can't be too close, because neither can get into each other's hearts, and when two people's emotions can't flow, there will be a relationship crisis.

I think you can take each other on a trip, you can take each other shopping, you can take each other to the movies, you can also take each other to dinner, and if you have free time, you can also invite each other to come and rest at home.