How do I convince my dad, how do I tell my dad?

What was said upstairs also makes sense, if this is the case, you can't leave, and it is the responsibility of a dutiful son to stop your father from making mistakes. Or your dad is testing whether you have the resolve or not.

What is called no future, if a father loses his trust in his son, what can I rely on, without confidence, I can't do anything! I'm also a person (if it's a man, say: a man can't be overcome), give me some time, and I'll prove it to you.

Bumpy and difficult, difficulties are not terrible, what is terrible is that there is no confidence to face it, and not having the confidence to face it is equivalent to announcing the death penalty in advance, if I lose confidence because of you, even if I go anywhere, I will not have a future.

Capable people, in a small county to be a tax or public security chief, bank president or the like, there is also a 3000, 4000 thousand, (small county things are very cheap, like our county, a villa is only about 50w, (including furniture does not include the garden)) If a person does not have confidence, in Shanghai to do something or something, it is only 4000 to 5000, how much worse.

I'm going to grow beyond your imagination here! I'm not your puppet, I have thoughts, and if you don't believe me, I'll prove it to you, and I'll be promising!!

I think there is some truth in the old man's words, so I am very interested, why did your father say that it was dangerous? It can't be a robbery and murder, right? Haha,

The recommendations are as follows:

First, you can enrich yourself, improve yourself, work yourself, and strive to become a capable person who can stand well in society in the future.

Second, he did not blame or comment on his father's many selfish actions, and dealt with them indifferently. In order to avoid father-son disputes and affect the development of the family.

Third, we should also care about him and help him do something to protect the relationship between father and son. In short, if you deal with it in this way, you can maintain the relationship between father and son, and your father may also converge, improve, and point out to change the spike to tease him to change himself, and at the same time, if you do this, you can also harmonize your family.

Fourth, for some situations in life and study, such as the room where the computer is placed, you can communicate with your father, tell him honestly what you feel in your heart, ask for his consent, and make adjustments to make study and life more convenient.

Precautions for dealing with rogue fathers.

The non-argument with the family should also vary from person to person. For family members with similar age, culture, and educational backgrounds, there is no problem in arguing without hurting feelings. Of course, we should also pay attention to the small argument for pleasure and the big argument for sadness.

The most careful thing to do is to treat the elderly in the family, which is the object of the most arguments to avoid. Because they come from a completely different era than we are, so to speak, from a different planet. Their ideas are not something we can understand.

Nor are our ideas understandable to them. Of course, don't dream of changing each other, such arguments are the most fruitless and meaningless. As mentioned above, there is no need to argue about anything other than family economic issues, health issues, and children's education.

Summary. Dear little brother, in order for Dad to agree to your request, you need to explain the reasonableness of your request in both positive and negative aspects, especially the serious consequences that may arise if the request is not met, so that the father is afraid of being held accountable and can agree to your request.

Dear little brother, if you want your father to agree to your request, you need to explain the reasonableness of your request in both positive and negative aspects, in particular, the serious consequences that may arise if you do not meet the requirements are slow.

I'm a boarding student and don't want to go to school tonight because my parents are out of town and rarely come back, so can you help me.

Little brother, if you don't go to school tonight, do you live in **?

At home, my dad is back today.

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Little brother, if that's the case, you can be coquettish and miserable in front of your father and the dates. Tell Dad, Dad, I haven't been with you for so long, I miss you so much every day at school, I can't sleep at night, Dad, I won't stop the stool school tonight, I'll live at home tonight, Dad, please, you just promise me! Dad, I will study hard, it doesn't matter if I don't go tonight, don't delay my study.

If you don't go tonight, will you be able to come tomorrow?

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Yes, if he doesn't agree.

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You haven't tried it yet, how do you know he doesn't agree! Personally, I am a parent of my child, and from my point of view, I will definitely agree.

Are you a daughter, or a son?

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Little brother, be bolder, Dad will definitely agree with you. Inside, he also wants to spend more time with you.

Little brother, let's just say that! Your parents only miss you more than you, not less than you.

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I'm afraid what if he doesn't agree, brother, please help me, okay?

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Little brother, don't you believe me at all? If you don't believe me, no matter how much I say, you won't believe me.

Little brother, if you don't agree, you will play tricks and resolutely refuse. Or, call your mother ** now, discuss with your mother first, after all, the reason I gave you is very reasonable (I still think he will agree to it, and your request is not too much to fight).

Mom said that she would solve her own affairs, and my brother would have any other way or anything, and I was convinced.

Little brother, if you pretend to be uncomfortable, there is really no other way. I've already said it, and he'll agree. Why don't you try it now? When you say it, squeeze a few tears, and he will be moved when he sees that you rely on him so much.

Like all people, I have a father who loves me. He always smiled and quietly cared for me, guarding me with his broad shoulders. I can't see his love, but I always know that he knows me the best in the world.

I won't forget that gloomy winter day. It was very bad, and I was woken up by a chaotic sound. I hurriedly put on my coat and pushed open the door to see what was going on.

In a daze, I saw a hazy light, bright yellow, like a touch of warmth in the biting cold wind. I shuddered and walked over there.

Kitchen. The glass door was shrouded in a layer of damp heat, and it approached....In that pale white mist, there was a busy back, it was my familiar father. He hunched over as if studying something.

I just wanted to call him, and swallowed it back. It was still dark outside the window, and the lamp that Dad turned on was the brightest thing in this chaotic world. It carries Daddy's love:

He carefully made breakfast for me with his clumsy big hands, and the delicious dishes were integrated into his repeated attempts and adjustments, like a scale, and only Dad could balance it.

Dad was about to turn around with two golden poached eggs, but I sly wanted to keep the secret, and ran back to the bed with a smoke, pretending to be asleep, waiting for a shout. "Pig, get up! "Dad poked in his head.

Tacitly, I popped up, and I should have laughed and scolded him for saying that you are a pig, but my nose was sour because I saw the wrinkles between my father's eyebrows.

I was coquettish and clamoring for dinner, but my father made a grimace: "If I don't get up again, I will have long legs for breakfast!" So, as if I had finished a performance, I was very active in responding to the "old urchin".

When I came to the restaurant, the poached eggs fried just right exuded an attractive aroma, but I couldn't suppress my tears, three hundred and sixty-five days a year, how many beautiful days and nights I missed, plays, I will always get tired of watching, but I and my father's little by little, but no matter how you look at it, you will never get tired of it......

Time slows down, don't let you get old anymore, I am willing to exchange my life for your long ......"I have enjoyed one-eighth of my life's love and tolerance, and the rest of my life may be spent paying off my debts. I used to think that the songs about my father were really sensational, but now I realize that my father's debt is something that I can't pay off with all my might.

Today, let's go for a group photo of the team. At the meeting point, I saw that many of my classmates had bought toy guns, so you and I said to my father, "I want to buy a toy gun too."

Dad refused, "No, it's a boy's play." I retorted confidently: "This toy is written on ** to prohibit girls from playing?

Dad was speechless when he heard this, so he had to buy me one.

I am very sympathetic to your situation, and I hope you can show courage and face the problem bravely. In fact, I have been thinking and learning about the problem of communicating with my parents and elders. Now I will say what I think about it as I understand it now.

I often hear people say that there is a generation gap between me and my parents. I felt a little funny when I heard it. The generation gap, what is the generation gap, the generation gap is just a barrier set up between people without intending to communicate.

I agree that there are no parents in the world who do not want their children to be happy. No matter how bad and strong the parents are, the starting point should be for the future of their children.

So, your problem is actually a communication barrier with your father. Father's question is right, although the other half he is looking for for you has all kinds of problems, but it will bring you happiness after all. If your father really thinks that the man you want to marry is a villain, your father will certainly not push his own girl into the fire pit.

The main thing for you to do now is to have a calm conversation with your father and see what he thinks. Then tell him what you think. Tell him what you're worried about and what kind of partner you want.

Finally you say to him, "Dad, thank you for your selfless help in my marriage. But marriage is the matter for me to decide the fate of my life, please follow my advice.

Even if you choose the right one, but you force me like this, my marriage will not be happy. Aren't you doing this so that your daughter and I can be happy? Father, believe me, I will find my own happiness, and then I will see your daughter happily dressed in a white wedding dress and enter the palace of marriage with your blessing.

I think you've said this, and even the unreasonable father will be a little loose. After that, if you communicate with your father diligently, even if it is a stone, it is bound to cover it up. Of course, during this period, it is best to find your satisfied other half as soon as possible, let it be in front of your parents, and let the second elder take a look, this is your daughter's lifelong partner!

Every parent will hope that their son will become a dragon and their daughter will become a phoenix. Your dad is no exception! You have a good heart-to-heart talk with your father, tell your father that the child is also a friend of the parents, and let the father listen to your heart.

Then let Dad recall his mindset as a child. Try it! The effect will be there!

Deserved it, knowing (he doesn't have a very good temper) and still engaged? The sins of heaven can be forgiven, and the sins of oneself cannot be lived. The wretched will have something to hate.

After listening to your parents, you regret it for the rest of your life.

If you don't marry him, you will only regret admitting the wrong person.