Forced to break up by my girlfriend s dad, do we still have hope?

There is no hope, because the love that is not blessed by the parents will not last long, and it will not be happy, so the long pain is better than the short pain, and it is better to break up completely now.

First of all, you should know the reason why your girlfriend's father rejected you, you just need to know the reason, and then try to change it. Then you have to be patient enough to convince her father, and in the end he will definitely accept you.

As long as you really want to be good to her and want to take care of her for the rest of your life. Then there is hope between you. You have to prove that your girlfriend's dad thinks wrong about you with your actions.

It's impossible for your girlfriend's dad to oppose you for no reason. He is the person who loves your girlfriend the most in the world, and he is more desperate than anyone else for his daughter to find her own happiness. The reason why he opposes you and asks you to break up may be because he thinks that you are not responsible and cannot bring happiness to his daughter.

Then you need to make your own efforts, prove it with actions, and make a difference. Prove to him that you are capable of bringing happiness to her daughter. Over time, as long as you do well, he will agree.

No matter how much your girlfriend's dad objects, you need to understand your heart. As long as the two of you truly love each other and have strong willpower, then everyone's opposition is actually a different kind of booster in your eyes, which will only make your relationship better and better. Because everyone has a rebellious mentality, since your girlfriend's father actually thinks that you can't give her happiness, the relationship between the two of you will not last long.

Then you will prove with your actions that they are wrong, and you can bring her happiness.

Don't think that your girlfriend's dad is deliberately embarrassing himself, just just don't want his daughter to be with you. You should look for a proper time to have a good chat with your girlfriend's dad. Find out what his father's concerns are and why he doesn't keep them together.

Then you prescribe the right medicine, change yourself, and promise him that you will correct and do better than before. And what reason does he use against the two of you?

As long as you truly love each other, no matter how opposed your girlfriend's father, there is still hope between you.

I like someone who wants to be with her, even if there is opposition from both parents and many unsuitable objective factors, but only two points need to be met, either the material is strong enough, or the spirit is strong enough, and the rest is not a problem.

Material power, simply put, is rich and willing to spend money for his girlfriend, not that you have to use money to smash anyone, or use money to buy out someone's life, but money correspondingly proves that you can give her a rich life, and you can meet her many requirements materially.

In view of the fact that this kind of parental disagreement is generally due to the man's material reasons, if the material requirements cannot be met, then it is necessary to be mentally strong.

The so-called spiritual strength means that you love your girlfriend enough, and the manifestation of this love in real life is to put her first in everything and care more about her feelings than she cares about her own feelings.

In fact, in love, if the woman believes that this man is the person she wants to stay with for the rest of her life, then the woman's family will not be a problem. I have seen so many stories on TV in books, because the woman's family does not agree, but in the end the girl eloped with the boy.

This example is not to encourage your girlfriend to elope with you, but to make your girlfriend feel that you are a man who deserves to be trusted for life, even regardless of the family.

If you can't do either of these two things, then I advise you to give up, you don't need to start from the woman's father, and you don't need to do what you like, your goal is only your girlfriend.

Maybe you will think that since you are already in love and together, then she must agree with you, but identify with you to become her boyfriend, and identify with you to be his lifelong companion, and agree that you have to be with you even if you abandon your parents, these are three things, which level can make your girlfriend identify with it, it all depends on your own dedication to this relationship and your girlfriend.

Tell your parents that your object's birth date is different from the one in the household registration book, say that when she was born, her family wrote it wrong when she reported her ID card, don't think that this situation is not, I am like this, the date of birth on my ID card is different from my actual date of birth, and then you will say that you reported to your parents is your girlfriend's birthday on the solar calendar, and then test a very consistent with your eight characters to report to your parents and say that this is your girlfriend's eight characters, so that the problem is solved, But the premise is that your girlfriend is willing to cooperate with you, but this is a lie to the old man after all, so you may have to face the reality when you get married in the end.

I don't think your parents think that your girlfriend's birthday is not compatible with you, but they don't like your girlfriend, so they will force you to break up, if you can, I think you still have to let your parents feel your determination, let them feel that you are identified with this girlfriend, if you break up you will definitely not find a partner again, the kind that may become a monk, I believe that parents will listen to their children in the end.

Let me give you an example, do you see that in real life, there are many girls' parents who do not support her being with her boyfriend, but why do many girls marry their boyfriends in the end, isn't it because girls force their parents to agree, if your parents do not agree, you just listen to them, listen to them everything, then is it the next girlfriend, your parents think she is not worthy of your worth, and then you can't marry her home.

If a boy wants to find a partner and listen to his parents, then I can only say that you may not love your girlfriend so much at all, so you will feel embarrassed, if you really love your girlfriend, there will be no such situation, and at that time your attitude your parents can feel it, just like a girl must marry you, her parents can also feel it.

I think the most important thing you should do is to make yourself better, and only when you have the ability can you give your girlfriend a better life, so I think you should adjust your mentality.

If you think you love her very much, fall in love with your girlfriend in private, and then work hard to make a career and prove it to your girlfriend's dad.

If I were you, I would definitely work hard and then work hard to make the woman's father realize that although I don't have much ability at the moment, I am self-motivated enough to give my girlfriend a good future.

Love is complicated, and it's not just a matter of two people! If you don't get the blessing of your parents, you should reflect on whether you really deserve to stay together! Talk openly and honestly to your parents and make decisions early! Men's.

I really love it so much, I'll forget it when I go out for a while

I had the same experience as you! It can even be said that it is exactly the same! The only difference is that I didn't buy the medicine I regretted.

Love! It takes the courage of the man and the persistence of the woman! If she is already on your side, why can't you be brave enough to carry everything for her?

My ex-girlfriend has been with me for 2 years, and I don't know how many things we have experienced together, but on the day of the marriage, because of my cowardice, my family made some requests that day, and I knew that she would not agree to that request, and I also promised her, I would be there for anything, but at that time I was quietly doing it next to me, and I didn't say anything! When the family left, I even felt her heart break.

A girl who has given everything to you. If you can, please protect her! Because you don't understand, once a girl really breaks up with you, no matter how brave you are, you can't find her heart back!

If you don't want someone else to take your place in the future! Please stand up to the difficulties in front of you, and you will find how wonderful you are!

Don't think that if you break up, you can still use your feelings to sleep with her! And then marry another woman! The original intention is the best.

Parents always respect their children's decisions!

You have to know why the other parent's parents don't agree, and then correct it.

Build a baby first! Everyone agreed!