I was deceived by my friend, how can I get along with him again?

We often say that we need to find a sincere friend, friends feel like an indispensable element in our lives, but what to do if you are deceived by a friend is something that needs to be understood.

If we already know that he has deceived us, we will naturally feel uncomfortable in our hearts, because we will have a doubt, and we will feel that we have clearly taken him as a friend. Why can't we treat it sincerely, and even deceive ourselves, we will naturally feel very uncomfortable, so what we can do at this time is not to think nonsense, and we can choose to ask him directly what the reason is.

Later, we need to think calmly about what our relationship with him is really like. Because the relationship between people and people is not completely flat in everyone's mind, there will be a situation that is. I treat him as a good friend, but he just treats you as a normal friend, not even a friend.

Sort out your own communication route with him, if this is the case, then it will be a lesson, and naturally you will not need him in your future interactions, and it will also tell us how to discern what a sincere friend is in the future.

I've started to see a saying that a person matures when he or she continues to like something, but he doesn't have it. What you are afraid of can continue to be afraid, but you can face it. So don't be afraid that this kind of thing will happen again in the future or will develop into a more serious situation, if it is your own reason, then we will change it.

If it's the friend's reason, then we need to be careful in our choice in the future. We can't look at it in a negative way, but look at it from an optimistic point of view, it gives us a lesson that helps us learn how to see a person clearly.

Deception also depends on the purpose and nature, especially the deception of friends.

If one thing is that you know the truth will do you a lot of harm, then your friend may tell you some white lies for the purpose of protecting you. Perhaps this lie is very unsophisticated and will soon be exposed. Maybe everyone knows this lie, but I don't want you to know, because I'm afraid that you won't be able to stand it if you know it.

Then if one day we find out about this deception, we should not blame our friends too much, because they are the ones who really care about us. Such friends are worth making deeply.

On the other hand, it is our friends who deceive us out of some ulterior secret or because of some interest. Then this also loses the meaning of being a friend.

The friendship between two people must be based on honesty and mutual trust. When deception occurs because of interest, then that trust is gone. Building trust can be a long process that needs to be increased over time to reach a certain level.

And the collapse of trust is indeed very easy, as long as it is a small thing can make the trust accumulated for a long time collapse in an instant and disappear.

Therefore, the deception of a friend out of interest is unacceptable in any way. Even if you think this friend is usually good, this time you may be dizzy for a while to lie to me, you can still continue to date. But in subsequent contacts, this shadow of deception will never be able to dissipate, and it will follow you like a shadow.

Be an invisible wall in your relationship. It's hard to get back to the intimacy you once had in your relationship. If that happens, make a decision.

This score two cases, if your friend's deception of you is a white lie, he is just for your own good, not trying to hurt you, then you can't blame him, for example, you will have a very important game, your relatives should have come to watch you play, but three hours before you want to play, one of your relatives fell ill, and several relatives also went to the hospital to take care of her and accompany her, and then they also told your friend that they can't tell you about it, I'm afraid you can't concentrate on the game, At this time, you notice something different, you wonder that they didn't come, you start to be a little worried, a little anxious, you ask your friend, but he doesn't tell you the truth, but lies, at this time, this deception of your friend is not really trying to hurt you, just hoping that you are good, such a friend is worth associating.

If there is someone you have always regarded as a good friend, but he has deceived you again and again, at this time, don't be angry and angry, because this will not solve the problem, then you can directly ask him to understand, ask him why he deceived you, whether you did something wrong, you must understand the reason why you were deceived, don't think nonsense, and blame yourself. At the same time, you should also re-examine yourself, recall your communication process, think about whether you treat each other as friends too much, whether you are too wishful thinking, have always been good to others, but others do not take themselves seriously, and there is no need to blame each other all the time, just think that you did not see him clearly, and when you bought a lesson. At the same time, we must be strong to face this fact, don't be troubled all day long, there is nothing that can't figure it out, our friends around us have always come and gone, no one can be friends with themselves forever, being betrayed also has its benefits, it teaches us how to get along with friends, how to see a person clearly, from now on it is best to keep a distance from him, such a friend should not be, but also to warn friends around him, he is a **, must not believe him.

I'm a very chic person, if I'm deceived, if it's a joke, I can tolerate it, but malicious deception, then there's no need to be friends.

Pretend not to know, respect her, and stay away from her.

1. I will calm down and don't get angry blindly or make impulsive decisions. Then, I try to communicate with my friends to express my dissatisfaction and disappointment with their actions. I would try to understand their motivations and see if I could solve the problem through communication.

2. If my friends ignore my dissatisfaction and disappointment, or continue to treat me in a deceitful way, then I will reassess the value of this friendship. Sometimes, as painful as it is, it may be a better option to keep your distance from those you don't trust. I would consider cutting ties with them to avoid being hurt earlier.

3. I will also seek support and advice from my relatives and friends around me. Their advice may help me deal with this issue better while also providing me with emotional support.

In short, in the face of being killed by a friend, I will try to deal with it calmly, protect my rights and interests, and re-examine the authenticity and value of this friendship. Friendship is built on mutual trust and support, and if you lose that foundation, then the friendship may no longer be worth holding onto.

If you are deceived by a friend, you can see if you can recover the loss, and on the other hand, you can communicate with your friend to solve the omission, and this friend can not be pretended to be in the future, after all, this kind of friend is definitely not worth it for you.

If I were a silver wood party, I might take the following steps:

1.Communicate with a friend: First of all, I will communicate with this friend to understand the specific situation of the incident and see if I can reach a consensus and compromise.

If a friend unconsciously takes me to a restaurant that pits people, I will raise my grievances and demands to see if a solution can be reached. If a friend is old or wants to make a fool of me, I may consider changing my relationship with this friend.

2.Defend your rights: If my friend is unwilling or unable to solve the problem, I may take some measures to protect my rights, such as asking for a refund, calling the police, etc.

If my consumption has caused some damage, I may consider taking legal action to protect my rights.

3.Attitude towards friends: Regardless of the outcome of the incident, I will think carefully about my friendship and see if this friend is worth my continued relationship.

If this friend is deliberately cheating me on consumption, I may consider breaking off the relationship with him and her, as this behavior is immoral and unacceptable. But if Hu Oak is unconsciously negligent and causing the problem, I might consider giving this friend a chance to see if he or she is able to correct her mistakes.

In short, in the face of this situation, we should remain calm and rational, take appropriate measures to protect our rights and interests, and at the same time take into account the relationship between ourselves and our friends, and try to avoid unnecessary harm and bad influence.

Friends are important supporters and partners in our lives and should be built on mutual trust and respect. However, it is indeed a disappointing and distressing situation if a friend deliberately uses our trust to deceive us.

When faced with this situation, I advise you to take the following steps:

1.Calm down: It is very important to remain calm when faced with this problem. Outbursts of anger and emotions can lead to further conflict and undesirable consequences. So, take a deep breath and calm down.

2.Have an open conversation with a friend: Find a time and place to have an honest conversation with a friend.

Express that you are disappointed and hurt by their behavior and explain how it affects you. Ask them why they do this and listen to their explanations.

3.Evaluate the value of a friendship: Consider what the friendship means to you and whether it's worth keeping.

If the friend has been nice to you in other ways, and this incident is an example, you may consider forgiving them and looking for ways to repair the friendship. However, if the friend has not shown sincerity and respect in other ways, you may need to re-evaluate whether the friendship is worth continuing.

4.Learn to set boundaries: Whatever you decide to do with this friendship, learn to set clear boundaries.

If you decide to forgive and continue to keep in touch with this friend, make sure that your interactions are based on mutual respect and trust. If this friend behaves dishonestly or hurts you again, consider taking more serious steps to protect yourself.

In short, when dealing with a situation where you are killed by a friend, the way you deal with it depends on your personal values and the importance of friendship.