Physics students love physics and math, but they are isolated by their classmates, what should I do?

Actually, I think you just need to keep the status quo. You can't just dislike something you like because others say it. And I think as a physics student, it's normal to like physics and mathematics.

It's not that your classmates isolate you, and it is not that they say that they envy you. And you have to know that this is often the case in some schools. No one else learns, and as soon as you learn, they will say mean things.

They don't learn and don't want others to learn.

Such things are common. There is nothing wrong with studying, and a lot of what you learn now may be the foundation of whether you can hold your golden job bowl in the future. They isolate you, and maybe they don't want you to learn well.

If you don't learn yourself, you can't see others learn. So you don't need to worry about it. There are a lot of people like this, so you just have to stick to your own thing.

As long as he is right, there is no need to care what others say and do.

Being isolated by your classmates is often a personality reason and has nothing to do with what kind of subjects you like. You should still look for problems in terms of your personality.

Physics students should like physics, and if they don't, they won't apply for this major. In addition, as a physics student, it is necessary to have a solid foundation in mathematics. Mathematics, physics and chemistry, mathematics itself is the basis for learning physics and chemistry.

When it comes to being isolated by your classmates, it is likely that you, as a science student, are not sociable enough, which is commonly known as low emotional intelligence. You have to look at how you usually behave in the world, and there is no problem in dealing with people. What kind of problems do you have in the process of getting along with your roommates or classmates?

Finding this question is key.

Science students generally have a higher IQ, but lower emotional intelligence, and are prone to problems in the process of contact with others. Therefore, while you learn your professional knowledge, you should also strengthen your emotional intelligence. You can read more books on this subject and pay attention to some *** in this regard.

Start by talking, change your habits, put yourself in the shoes of others, and avoid saying things that are difficult for others to accept.

It's the same when it comes to doing things. To think more about the other person, you must first think about how this matter will affect others. How to deal with it can not affect others, but also achieve your own goals.

Don't talk about people behind your back, if someone talks about someone else in front of you, just listen to it, don't follow the trend or express your opinion.

There are many ways to improve emotional intelligence, and it is also a long process that requires continuous learning, continuous practice, and continuous accumulation. It grows slowly.

How can you be isolated by others because you like a subject, is you the only one in the class who likes this subject? Or you like to learn physics and mathematics in the whole department, and the subject of physics and mathematics is not a crooked way, how can you be isolated because of this, I really can't figure it out.

Maybe you can reflect on yourself, whether there are other unsociable factors, such as whether you usually feel uncomfortable in words and deeds when you get along with everyone, where you don't want to come into contact with you, or whether you usually look cold and unapproachable.

When I was in college, I was isolated by everyone for a while, the reason is that I am more than 300 degrees myopia, but I usually don't like to wear glasses, and I can't see my classmates on campus, so I don't say hello every time, so many students think I'm rude and cold, so I don't like to be close to me.

Later, when I heard about this reason, I went out and put on my glasses and took the initiative to greet others, and when I got acquainted with it, I explained it to my classmates, and they naturally understood.

Therefore, when encountering this situation, you must first reflect on yourself, and if the problem occurs to you, then it is good to actively correct it.

I'm also a student in the Department of Physics, so I wonder if the physics and mathematics you are talking about are the branches of "mathematical physics"?

If that's the case, I really can't understand what your classmates are doing. Partial differential equations, symmetry, field theory, etc., studied in mathematical physics, are essential tools for the whole study of physics, and to be precise, it is not even appropriate to despise this branch, let alone isolate someone because of this.

If your classmates are not motivated, then it is not a problem of the subject. They will only despise a person who loves to learn. If that's the case, then you can leave them alone. Be serious and self-motivated, and they will regret it.

Isolation is isolation, you need your strong heart to support, and the heroes are all lonely minions.

Is there a relationship between the two? Isn't it really a problem with your personality? Was it because you liked the class that you were isolated? That's amazing.

If you are isolated by your classmates, you have to find the reason and change the situation. Let's talk about what to do if you are isolated by your classmates.

How it works: Most of the time, I know what it is for, but sometimes, I don't know it very well, which requires courage to boldly ask my classmates why, and there will always be classmates who will tell you.

Work something out. If it is really your mistake, you must sincerely apologize to your classmates, get the understanding of your classmates, and if it is a misunderstanding, you should also make it clear to your classmates face to face, solve the problem as soon as possible, and don't let the conflict get bigger and bigger.

Take the initiative to show goodwill. Since we have corrected our mistakes, we must change the way we get along with our classmates, and we can take the initiative to show favor to our classmates, so that everyone can see your sincerity and become friends again.

Ask for help.

In order not to be isolated by your classmates, you have no choice but to pretend to be very cheerful. As a result, I always felt tired, but I comforted myself and said that I would cry when I was sad. In doing so, your ego is hidden, paralyzed, discarded.

Find her out first and respect yourself.

If you want to eat chocolate, buy yourself a chocolate and tell yourself that it is your right and that you deserve to have what you want;

It is also your own right to want to study quietly, you have the right to say, 'You speak quietly, I want to study quietly!' ’。

You yourself are part of the relationship, if you don't respect yourself, to fulfill the relationship, and desire others to respect you, in fact, you are unconsciously putting others in a high position, putting yourself in a low position, in order to hope that others will like you. If you don't get it, you start to feel self-pity, and people who pity themselves will not have power.

If I deliberately call you a garbage wreck, living for so many years, you have to scold me, 'You're a trash!' Rubbish! When you stand up for your rights, you naturally have power. It will be a little smoother to have a counselor to help with the process.

First of all, we have to find the reason from ourselves, why the classmates isolate themselves, whether they are not doing well enough, or other reasons, the first thing to do is to calm down and go to the reasons in their bodies, and correct them, if we really don't know, we need to ask our classmates why they isolate themselves. 2/6

After finding the reason, the first thing to do is to apologize to some of your classmates, let them know that you recognize your mistakes and are willing to correct them, and at this time they will also help you to correct them. 3/6

If we are isolated because of our personality, such as withdrawn, stubborn, some are formed from childhood, these things are difficult to change, but we must learn to recognize our mistakes, and then carefully change ourselves, we can tell the teacher, let the teacher also help to change. 4/6

When interacting with them, don't always think for your own interests and not consider the feelings of others. When we communicate with our classmates, we should take care of other people's feelings, so that when we communicate with them, they will think that you are a person who takes care of the overall situation and can be friends, and no one wants to find a selfish person to be a friend. 5/6

We are in school, sometimes there will be problems when you can't do it, if you can, you have to take the initiative to help them, don't be afraid that others will also learn to give you the first place, remember a sentence, sharing will be happier. Although we have paid, we will reap the truth. In the same way, if we don't want to be isolated, we have to learn to share what we have.

6 6 Finally, when we find ourselves isolated, if we don't want to change, and it has no impact on our lives, there is no need to change, maybe the change will make you less and less aware of what kind of person you are, just be yourself, but this premise is that you are a different person from other people.

I've lived in an isolated world since I was a child, and now I really want to beat up those people I want to say that if you are isolated by your classmates, you must first reflect on yourself If you are really not wrong, then there must be someone who wants to harm you, so please report to your bosom friends and parents at this time I really didn't have anyone to help me at that time, including my parents also scolded me in turn, but I was cowardly, and there were few bosom friends, and they were all blinded, so I was really helpless at that time, and I already wanted to try suicide in elementary school So I want to say, if you have my shadow at this moment, don't be afraid! Be strong! Don't think it's just a moment I say something bad Innocence and kindness will only be trampled on Of course, it is not to persuade everyone to abandon kindness You can't have the heart of harming people and you can't have the heart of guarding against people So when you encounter a problem, you must tell your dearest people Tell them your pain Let them pay attention I'm a Libra who is not good at expressing Me won't express it at that time, I will only cry Cry all the time It's useless!

Many people are isolated, which is the result of a long period of accumulation. It's not like something happens and then you're isolated.

Rather than being isolated, you think about something that will make more sense for your future.

Reflect on yourself first, are you not doing well enough in what area? Isn't the speech too impulsive? Is it not taking into account the feelings of others? What do you usually do wrong? Who did you offend? What are some things that aren't doing well enough?

If not, first seek help from teachers and parents, and secondly, sit upright, ignore it, and insist on yourself.

Also, if you are bullied or otherwise behaved, do what you can and decide whether to resist head-on or ask for help.

Don't cause trouble, and don't be afraid of things. Elevate yourself, stay kind, and be brave enough to resist injustice.

I have encountered this kind of school bullying incident, this kind of thing, in fact, there is no good solution, the most fundamental reason is that the students are still young, not serious, reckless, but the more they explain themselves, the more they are ridiculed and abused, in fact, no one listens to your explanation.

I didn't have a good solution, so I didn't get a good solution back then, it was the school that my parents made trouble, and the school punished them so they didn't dare to do anything, but they were still unconvinced, and they would still humiliate you in private, and other classmates would still remain indifferent and couldn't solve the problem fundamentally.

If I change to me, I think, like the kind of short-tempered people in the class, people don't dare to provoke, and there is a very good study, directly take the grades and despise them, and then there is a strong heart, if according to the analysis of the landlord's situation, it is estimated that it will not be the kind of temper, whether the study is good or not, it is estimated that it is also medium, otherwise I will not put my mind on this, and the study is very good and will not be involved in this kind of thing, generally beautiful girls and good temper, The last one is the most important one I think, maybe you are still young, it is not easy to do this, for example, if you are a girl, others say you J, you are justified in scolding them, I am J, about your hanging, I probably mean this, that is, don't doubt yourself, have self-confidence, and know that no matter what the reason, it is unfair for them to be more than one.

However, being in this environment every day is actually very bad for your physical and mental development, the most direct impact is that you are unhappy, unwilling to walk around the classroom after class because you have no friends, and feel that your classmates who walk by everywhere are whispering that you are not, and secondly, it will affect your learning, and even make you have a psychological shadow or physical injury.

All in all, this kind of thing is treated coldly, not only will they not find it boring, but it will become worse, or that sentence, people are good at being bullied, persimmons are also soft pinch, you must have confidence, and do it with them with confidence, your parents, your hair is small, your brothers and sisters, and the majority of netizens with similar experiences will support you, you must know that you are living in an Internet era, and you can also see the vast and wonderful world outside the campus, I didn't have a smartphone when I was in school.

Finally, a wordy sentence, because they have no seriousness, you must not run away from them, pay attention to their conversations, once any gangs and scumbags from other schools come to the school to beat you or bully you, you must tell your parents as soon as possible, you can not study, life is the most important, it is useless to tell the teacher because there are too many irresponsible teachers now, when necessary, you don't need to ask anyone for leave, go to the principal's office to need protection, hit ** or go home immediately.

For the time being, I can only think of so much, oh yes, if the situation is serious, I will transfer to another school, because when they were students, they didn't realize how vicious their behavior was, and they didn't think it was an escape, and they should go when they endangered their own safety.