Does anyone think you resented you for not lending him money?

Try to stay away from such people.

Borrowing money is a favor, not borrowing is a duty.

If you don't lend him money, he will be resentful, which means that this person is very small-minded, and if you borrow money, you don't necessarily have to give him money, and people have their own arrangements, right, it's right to understand.

There is an old saying that "to promote Mien, to fight Mi enmity".

The reason is very simple, suppose there is a beggar on the side of the road, when he is about to starve to death, you give him a liter of rice, this liter of rice is enough to save his life, you are his great benefactor; But if you look at the poor beggar on the roadside and give him a liter of rice every day, after a long time, the beggar will get used to it and take it for granted that you save him and help him. He would even wonder: Why does this person only know how to deliver rice, I still need clothes, I still need a house, I still need money, ......Once you stop giving him rice, he will become resentful and even turn against you.

From ancient times to the present, there are many such people: if you help him a hundred times without remembering your gratitude, and if you don't help him once, you will remember your grudge. That's human nature.

Possibly, because some people are more narrow-minded and think that if you don't borrow money, you look down on him or don't help him, and then they resent. This kind of person is generally a villain, and it is usually recommended to stay away from them, as the so-called would rather offend the gentleman than the villain.

In fact, others resent people like you because you didn't borrow money, and they may not get along well, even if you lend him money and you want money later, you may become an enemy, since he hates you now, you just let him, it should be said that his heart is relatively small, narrow-minded, everyone has their own things, and it is impossible for the family to have money for him. Sooner or later, you have to face it, maybe it's a good thing not to borrow money, and when you ask for money after borrowing money, you may also become an enemy.

When the time comes, not only will it be difficult to recover the money, but also friends will not have to do it, so such people may be difficult to get along with.

This will definitely happen, because sometimes a friend lends you money, and you don't borrow him, it will be yin and yang, and you can usually solve it like this, when a friend borrows money from you, you can tell him that you don't have money, and you say that you use the money elsewhere, so that you won't offend some people.

If someone resents him just because you didn't lend him money, then it's best to stay away from such a person as much as possible, because such a person is more selfish, thinking that everyone around him should help him unconditionally, and will only blindly ask for others without knowing how to be grateful, and get along with such a person for a long time, he will be unhappy and unhappy.

There is such a situation. But not borrowing money is not my problem. When encountering this kind of problem, I just explain the situation and don't care a lot.

There should be no such person, but when you lend him money and then ask for it, he will resent you, so no one wants to lend money to others at the moment. If someone borrows money from you, it's best to just refuse to avoid trouble later.

This kind of person's words, in fact, is very much, because you didn't lend him money, he has a lot of bad thoughts in his heart, in fact, others lend you money is love, not to lend you is the penny lent out, it is difficult to get it back.

This is a common occurrence. Didn't lend him the money, and then he hated you with a grudge. Actually, it's right not to borrow it, because he doesn't know the world. So this situation can only be viewed correctly, as long as you do your best.

It's better not to associate with this kind of person, after all, it's love to give you, and it's duty not to give you, so people who are resentful of each other, how can they expect to be able to socialize.

Does anyone think you resented you for not lending him money? In fact, I personally think that if such a person is spoken, it is best for you to keep a certain distance from him, because there is no need to have a deep friendship, since he did not lend him money, he will be resentful, I think such a person is not reliable, and complaining.

There are such people, often this kind of narrow-minded, cautious, always think that helping him is a matter of course, not to help him is unfriendly, and resentment arises in the heart.

This person doesn't trust you, defends against you, tempts you, and even stays away from you because of money. This person doesn't love you and is selfish.

There is indeed such a person, but there is no need for this kind of person to have too much contact with him, a person will resent you because you did not do good things, then this kind of person is not to be friends.

When you meet this kind of person, don't pay attention to him, after all, some people have been good to him many times, but once they don't meet his requirements, he will be resentful and forget all the good things he used to be to him. This kind of friend advises against socializing, after all, this kind of person is ungrateful.

Some people think that you didn't lend him money, and he is resentful, such a person, I don't think you need to get along with him anymore, because such a person is more selfish and doesn't think about you, so such a person tries not to have anything to do with him anymore.

Even if you lend money to these people, you may not pay them back. Because it's normal to borrow money to see a person clearly. He just thinks that everybody has to lend him money. As for when he sees it, it's up to him to decide.

It's good to get used to it, and now some people are indeed like this, and they take it for granted that they are good things to him, and they are not casually talking.

He takes your kindness to him for granted, and if you don't borrow him, he will feel that you don't treat him as a friend, and this kind of person is actually very selfish.

Depending on the situation, sometimes it is the kind of friend who wants to borrow a lot of money, and it is not that the borrowing is urgent, but the friend is relatively poor and needs to spend money to buy luxury. Either that, he thinks you're on good enough to borrow money, but he's wrong... Person-to-person communication.

Such people stay away as soon as possible.

When he was introduced, he was a grandson, and he became an uncle when he repaid the money.

If you don't lend money to the other party, the other party will be resentful.

What is the scene when you lend money to the other party and ask the other party to repay the money when the time comes?

Then don't you lose your wife and lose your soldiers?

The result is the same, so why lose your money?

If this person is resentful because you didn't lend to him, then you don't have to have any contact with him in the future.

I don't think it's that anyone is obligated to lend you money, but everyone can help us when they are in trouble, and if they can't, they will explain.

Yes, there are such people in society, it seems that the whole world owes him, and it is a matter of course for people to lend him money, and if you meet such a person, stay away, and don't pay attention to him in the future.

You don't need to associate with such a person, because he is resentful if you don't have this money, and if you borrow money and you ask him for money, he will still hate you just as much.

More or less I feel a little unhappy in my heart, people, it's all like this, it's normal to have emotions. As for what others think, let them go.

If the tease is the kind of annoying to the extreme, I don't think I should be, if it is forgivable, I think I can help and can help, if I can't help, I will give up, but if he has hurt you a lot of things and made you so annoying, you still don't want to help. It depends: if he can do something easily on his own, and asks me to help him, I won't help, because he is clearly bullying honest people.

If he is really in difficulty, and it has little to do with money (look at the person's integrity, I think he will repay the loan, but he can't borrow too much, he must still have someone to borrow), if there is no risk, then help.

As for the second question, it is the main theme: it is because people nowadays are becoming more and more selfish, or selfish, or more and less disadvantaged, and the bigger they are, the more shrewd they are, so this situation will happen. The reality is cruel, and in the fierce competition, we will find that we are not at an advantage in many aspects.

Why don't I grow taller and prettier, why I don't have a sense of humor and likability, why am I not smarter, and why am I so lazy because of my genes?

But we can't be blindly confident, on the one hand, we must learn to accept reality and accept ourselves; On the other hand, we must learn to develop our strengths and avoid weaknesses, and find those things that are suitable for us and can give full play to our strengths. People are more popular than dead people, there are no two identical leaves in the world, everyone is unique in the world, I believe you should understand these truths.

Why did I borrow money from someone else! If people don't pay it back for a day, they feel uncomfortable, how can they overcome this kind of thinking?

Hello dear. A person who borrows money and does not repay it is a person who takes advantage of a small advantage, and it is better for such a person to have less dealings with him. If you borrow it, you should lose it, and don't forget it.

Otherwise, it will affect your mental health. Open your mind and live well. 1. If a friend borrows money and doesn't pay it back (a friend's problem), you are embarrassed to open your mouth (your question).

Prove that you still see him as a friend, and you don't want to ruin your friend's feelings. It's human nature. Then continue to maintain this relationship, be a good person and wait slowly.

Second, if you are embarrassed to speak, you can find a middle friend to help you inquire and remind you to see if there is any feedback, which is very important.

This kind of person is the most disgusting, and he keeps saying that he is particularly refreshing and deliberately dragging and lying, and finally keeps saying that he will definitely do it, this kind of most rubbish, either directly say not to borrow, or agree to borrow, and run the train all day long, mainly because he saw through his lies and showed mercy without piercing.

Friends who can lend you money must pay it. But those who don't lend you money can also be friends, after all, there are not many people who can borrow money.

I want to open a point. No one else owes you!

In our daily life, we often encounter the situation of urgent need for money, and some people are afraid of trouble, so they will ask relatives and friends around them for help. In fact, I suggest that even if you are short of money, you should not easily have some financial dealings with good friends.

According to relevant data, many money disputes occur between relatives and friends. I once had two good friends, one of them was in an urgent need of money, and the other friend lent him the money, but who knew that this friend didn't pay back the money later, and every time a friend went to ask for money, he found various reasons to shirk it, and finally the two good friends broke up completely, so there really shouldn't be a monetary relationship between good friends.

Since you are so dishonest and touch your bottom line, you don't want to dating.

This kind of thing, you look at it comprehensively, let me tell you what I think:

1. That person has money and doesn't want to lend you, that is because he doesn't trust you, between two people, you are full of expectations for him, and he has failed you, it is obvious that the relationship between you is not enough for him to trust you, and it is not enough to lend you money, so don't dating.

2. He didn't have any money, and he promised you because he was embarrassed, but when you really borrowed money, he didn't have money, so he couldn't borrow your money! If that's the case, your friend is the kind of person who can brag, there is no credibility, and if you don't contact, you won't contact!

Borrowing money between friends is the best way to see a person, this kind of friend doesn't have it, you can't send charcoal in the snow, you will just fall into the well, give it up.

If the other party borrows our money and never pays it back, then there is really no need for such friends to continue dating. A person who does not keep his word may also do things that hurt us in the future. Most of these people value their interests, and as long as they give them a little money, they can buy them at any time, and they are not worth our careful interactions.

Hello, if you or your friends are in need of money, you can consider taking out a loan to relieve stress, and at the same time, you should do what you can and work hard to make money. Now there are many ways to apply for a loan, you can apply for a bank loan through a mortgage, and a more convenient way is to apply for a personal credit loan.

What is the psychology of those who owe money and do not pay it back?

Playing tricks, I don't think it's necessary to pay it back so quickly, even if you ask, the other party will say that there is no money, money is tight, etc., and, if you really want to chase it back, you have to take the initiative to say, if you don't pay it back for a long time, this kind of person stays away, don't contact you in the future, these people don't have this thing at all.

Or maybe she really forgot.

Can't remember owing you money.

Or they just deliberately don't want to pay you back.

Pretend not to know.

I had a roommate before.

I just don't remember to borrow money from others.

Every time, he has to be reminded and asked for by others.

It's really embarrassing.

It's also very helpless.

Even Pingsheng despises the three kinds of people the most: borrowing wine to pretend to be crazy

He who; a murderer with a sword; Those who borrow money and do not pay it back. For most DAO students, the time to borrow money is usually obligatory and generous, but then it is like sitting on pins and needles all day long and it is difficult to speak; It is strange that the borrower borrows money in a low voice, pretends to be dead and cries poor, and then usually calmly, talks and laughs freely, and lives quite chicly. Even if someone else pays back, we always have to be polite when we accept it:

Oops, you use it first, what's the hurry? In fact, he had already scolded in his heart: "Damn, I only pay it back now, I have no money to spend it for a long time."

Alas, admit it, who made us so kind?

People who borrow money and don't pay it back are generally 1I don't have the money to pay it back, so I can't help it.

2.I don't want to pay it back, it's not easy to borrow money, keep it for myself.

3.The person who has the money to borrow me is not short of money, and he will give it when he is short of money.

4.It's my brother who doesn't bother with me.

5.I owe money, my lord, I don't owe you any money and you are not so polite to me.

6.Look at you upset, play you to death. (Some are cheaper).

7.Really forgot.