What is it like to be single for four years?

Single dog, alone, lonely, no romance, are the words I have often heard and felt in the past four years, yes, I have spent four years alone as a single dog, lonely for four years without romance.

Looking at others in pairs, I am certainly a little envious and jealous, I can't get used to other people's kissing me, I can't get used to other people's hushing and warmth, and I can't get used to other people's show of affection, but as a single dog, I am still not so eager to sell myself.

There is someone around you, what have you experienced, more people are not quarrels, sadness, restraints, and even complaints, more experience summary, the pain of two people together is greater than happiness, and you prefer to be together because you want to enjoy that little bit of happiness, and I am a rational person.

I don't understand why they are so inseparable from the object, I never think that I am happy with the object, it will be more than my own happiness, and it is true, but if there is I don't mind, I spend time, energy, money, if I use it on myself, I will live better, will be happier, it seems that I have become accustomed to a person's life, suddenly there is more person around, there is a wood you feel that he is redundant, not only can not help you, but will not make you worry and make trouble for you.

So as a veteran single, I'm still a little content with my current life, not fast, not slow, don't have to think too much, I have enough resources to take care of myself, and even better, so I never expect the man who hasn't come to my world to come soon.

But during these four years, I also adhered to the principle that people who are destined to see me will see me, not looking for it, just waiting for fate, waiting for him to end my single life.

People who have been single for many years don't care which four years, today I will talk about the four years when I was single in college.

In fact, it is said that college is a paradise for love, and many people have also found their other half, partly because their studies were light, they had extra experiences, and they happened to meet someone they liked, so they got together. There are also some people who want to find another person because someone else has a partner, so they have another person. There are also some people who find someone because they can't bear loneliness to make their college life fulfilling.

In either case, they did not waste their youth and the romantic atmosphere of the university.

The original reason why I chose to be single was that I was in college in the field, worried about work and family problems after graduation, afraid that I would not be able to take care of my parents as they got older, maybe because my ideological baggage was too heavy, and I didn't let go of myself, so I would be constrained, otherwise I wouldn't care so much, the most important thing is that I am happy, but I only want to understand what is the most important thing after graduation, and I understand that my parents' requirements are also my happiness.

But at present, I don't think about regretting it, after all, it is my choice, and I firmly believe that everything is the best arrangement, and my life is very comfortable now, so I am still grateful for my hard work.

And my four years of being single have not been idle, and I feel quite busy.

I joined the student union in my freshman year, joined the school newspaper in my sophomore year, majored in professional courses in my junior year, and prepared to find a job after graduation in my senior year.

Seeing others in pairs doesn't feel anything about me, it seems that I am still too young to fall in love, and this kind of comfort still works very well for me.

Being single is also a pleasure. Many people think that during college, they can start to let go of themselves, like some parents encourage their children in high school and say that it is good to go to college, and there is no need to study hard. Is it really good?

Actually, as a person who has come from the past, I think that the most important thing is to study harder in college than in high school, and not to waste time and time. Love is an elective course during college, not a compulsory course, it is the icing on the cake, love is unexpected, you can look forward to it, you can aspire to it, but you can't control when it appears, sometimes please cherish it, no and fearless. No one has to be in love at university, but we can make ourselves better by working hard.

Four years of college is the best time to study, because after this, there may not be a chance to have a large period of time to study continuously, after working, we will find that our learning ability is slowly declining, and sometimes we don't even want to pick up books. At this time, learning a language or practicing a skill can improve one's competitiveness after graduating out of society. Of course, what you learn in college is not only some skills, but also the way of thinking, thinking and thinking.

Four years of college, in the process of learning in this not a short time, you can first plan your own life. Or graduate school entrance examination, or civil service examination, or entrepreneurship, or enter the society to accumulate experience. If you set a good goal, you must work hard in this direction, and the results may be biased, but in the process, you may learn some new knowledge.

Please cherish the hard-won university, fight from the single-plank bridge of thousands of troops, in order to learn more knowledge, please don't be disappointed because you are single in college. I'm Liruo Chunmei Blossoming Snow.

Love makes people look forward to it, but many people have been single for four years, why.

Before going to college, students' minds are full of beautiful visions of college life, what to participate in the student union, get scholarships, fight for graduate school, etc., and the most planned list should be to talk about a sweet campus love.

High school does not allow early love, mainly because of the fear of delaying students' learning, and also for fear that they will be immature and guided by bad emotions, but there are still some high school students who are secretly in early love, and they are usually criticized and educated when they are discovered, and even more so they are punished with demerits, and the price is not small, even so it can't stop the throbbing of some adolescent students.

In college, love can be above board, and there are many students who have this plan in college, but in today's college campuses, single people abound, and many students have never been in love in four years of college, and there are many students who have good looks and conditions in all aspects.

In the matter of falling in love, usually boys take the initiative more, there are many beautiful girls on the college campus, and even if you don't fall in love, you can become friends, but many college boys would rather play games in the dormitory, and they don't go far out of the dormitory to make friends, and they regret it after being single for four years, why didn't they fall in love.

College students would rather live in dormitories than make friends, why are they so "rebellious"?

Not only boys, but many girls would rather stay in the dormitory than go out to meet new friends, naturally there is no way to fall in love in the dormitory, high school does not allow non-early love, college let and single, can't help but wonder why college students are so rebellious?

One of the reasons for the analysis is "involution", it is said that today's college students are really easy to mix, and they will graduate after playing for four years, but you don't see everything.

Today's college students take college as a high school a lot, not only to take care of their studies, to ensure the results of each subject, but also to continue to enrich, improve the overall quality, but also to participate in various organizational activities, enrich personal resume, a week down there is no free time at all, finally can have a relaxing time, boys play games, girls are chasing dramas, but not just don't want to go out.

Of course, part of the reason is that many college students are unwilling to reduce their quality of life, falling in love is more expensive, college students' living expenses are limited, if they are in love, their daily expenses will also increase, then their quality of life will decline, many college students want to understand this, and they are more willing to make themselves comfortable than in love.

There is also the development of the Internet and technology so that many college students prefer online love, that is, online love, online dating does not have to spend time and cost to accompany, nor does it cost money to operate, and under the beauty of college students can see a relatively perfect appearance, this fast way to make friends with a hazy sense of making friends, so that many college students know that it is unreliable, but they are still immersed in it.

Many people who are single say that they don't talk about what kind of college is when they go to college, it's true, they have left the shackles of their parents, and the school is no longer in control of love, and everyone is the same age, and it is inevitable to have a relationship, and it is not uncommon for couples to haunt in college, but if you have been single for four years in college, you will also be ridiculed by your roommates or something, but this is also a person's own choice, with different personalities and naturally different ideas. Second, although you have relaxed a lot when you get to college, this is not a reason for you to be willing to fall, although the school is loose about the learning management of learning to shoot withering, but we are already adults, many things do not need to be disciplined by others to do, not thinking about progress is the best thing to ruin a person, you can tolerate poor learning, but you can't get ahead but you can't get a trace of goodwill from others. College students want to effectively develop good self-discipline habits, which is inseparable from the guidance and learning practice of professional teachers, so we usually need to ask teachers for advice and communicate with them more modestly and politely.

Learn more from the teacher and ask questions if you don't understand, this is the best way to learn knowledge.

The most important point in learning is to ask more questions, so students who can often seek the teacher's support and ask the teacher more questions are characterized by the fact that they often like to ask questions, so their learning effect is also obvious. Because professional teachers are close to us, there are teachers who are proficient in various subjects in the daily learning classes of students, which is also the most beneficial condition and must be fully used.

It's all spent studying hard and playing games.

You feel like you're happy to be single, and you're jealous of people at times. Of course not, this cancer is unlikely to appear at all, it's just your personal imagination.

I want to fall in love, but I don't want to take practical action, and I envy my classmates around me very much; I think yes, people who have been single for a long time have no interest in some people, they like to stay alone and are unwilling to contact new friends.