How do three colleagues get along when they live together?

What should I do if three colleagues live together, I think I still have more say in this, because I am experiencing this, in fact, it is beneficial for three people to live together as colleagues, of course, there are some unsatisfactory things. It depends on how the individual handles it, but in fact, my overall feeling is fine.

If we talk about it separately, I think the first thing is the issue of money, because compared to living together, there must be a lot of this kind of money entanglement, like we just have dinner together. Anyway, rice, oil, spices, and kitchen supplies are all AA, and then the necessities of life are all AA.

The personalities of the three of them are also relatively good, so there is no chaos in their daily lives. And there is a strict division of labor in cleaning, and we advocate brothers.

Clearing accounts can avoid a lot of trouble. And it doesn't say who will do more. Who is always not doing things. So our life is relatively harmonious.

And then the most interesting thing is the division of labor when we cook. Usually it is a colleague who buys the groceries and washes the dishes, and then I do the cooking, and a colleague is responsible for cleaning the table and washing the dishes. Their jobs have been changed from one to the other, and mine has always been uncoveted.

It wasn't until the summer that I realized that I thought I was going to be easy, but it was actually the best way to go. Every time I stir-fry, I sweat profusely, like taking a bath. Every time I see them coming in like a leader while I'm stir-frying.

I just want to poison the dish (joke).

Others, such as some material purchases, we all go together, and every time I see three men picking and selling in the supermarket, I feel weird. Then I found that one of the three men had a big bag of things in his hand, and I always felt that the painting style was a little "tender and sweet".

I usually go to work because I am only in a company, not in an office location. So the time to go home is very distinctive, and the colleague closest to home comes back every day to buy groceries and wash them, and I start making them when I get home. After that, the dishwasher came back and we ate together, and then the two of us had nothing to do, so we spread out on the sofa and waited for him to finish, and went out together, either for a walk or a jog for a few kilometers.

In fact, this kind of life is very good, as long as you don't run into roommates who are too extreme. For example, those who don't say a word, or care a lot about their own interests, then there is no way to communicate. I used to have a guy in my dormitory who should be quiet when he slept and the whole world should not sleep when he was awake.

The dorm experience was simply sour.

Personally, I think sharing a house with friends is the most challenging thing, and after getting along for a long time, I can't hide a lot of things. So no matter what time of day or time. We should all maintain a good image, not an image in front of others, and an image in ordinary times.

Personally, I think it's good for a few colleagues to live together. Although I don't live with my colleagues now, I do live with two other friends. Now the three of us are renting a three-bedroom apartment of about 90 square meters.

Everyone's life is still quite friendly and harmonious, and they get along happily.

A year or two ago, I lived with colleagues from my own company. It wasn't just three people, it was six people. But even so, we got along quite well and were very friendly.

1.Everyone is equal. First of all, it is necessary to clearly understand that no matter who a person is, no matter how high his status, position, or how powerful he is, in the process of life and interaction between people, everyone's status and personality are all equal.

There is no such thing as you being superior or inferior.

Before, in the large collective dormitory we shared, I slept in the lower bunk with a senior leader of the company, who was the director in charge of running the marketing business, and he was also favored and valued by the boss. However, in our dormitory, he did not put on any shelf, did not put on a leadership model, lived peacefully and friendly with us, joked and joked, ate supper and drank together, talked about life, women, ideals, money, dreams, etc. In the more than a month that we have lived with him, we have been very happy and have lived in harmony.

After that, everyone went their separate ways, and they contacted from time to time, came out to drink, talk about life, and meet some beautiful women.

2.It's also very important to respect each other, to understand each other, to tolerate each other. I believe that respect is an essential element of human interaction.

Only when everyone respects each other can we get along harmoniously and amicably. Otherwise, it will be difficult for everyone to get along.

Also, when encountering problems, be tolerant and tolerant, after all, everyone is different, from different places, living habits, and habits are different. We need to treat it with a tolerant and understanding heart, so that life will become very beautiful!

For the first time after graduation, I rented a house, and there were three of us, so we could be considered colleagues from different departments.

Because we are from the same place but we didn't know each other before, we may need to get acquainted again.

The first contact was also to talk about work, after all, the previous life trajectory and study trajectory were different, so there are not many common topics, we can only start from the latest contact with the work, we are all novices in the workplace, we are more able to understand each other's problems, and we can better understand each other's feelings.

From this point of view, our relationship has gradually become closer, and since then, we have lived together, and naturally there have been some intersections.

After the expiration of the rented house, we went to find a new house together, and wanted to find a three-room house suitable for three people, so we often went to the housing center to see the house after work, and we were working hard to find a suitable **.

After work in the afternoon, if the three of us are fine, we will have a small gathering, find all the food in this strange city, watch trendy movies, and this strange city finally has our imprint.

In fact, the process of getting along is the process of understanding, at first everyone is unfamiliar, so there will not be much intersection, but once you live together, there will be the intersection of life, there will be the same life trajectory, so far, your relationship will gradually get closer over time.

Promoting the relationship with roommates is the reaction after the incident, relying on friends when going out, when friends are in difficulty, just do your best to help your friends, don't have to cater too much and don't fit too much, when you have problems, you also ask for the help of your roommates, and you will naturally be familiar with it.

I have encountered the same thing in the dormitory, and the people in the dormitory are not very good, so I especially understand your feelings, first of all, you have to tell yourself that you must be strong, not blindly depressed, in a bad mood, to calm down and think about the problem**? First of all, review whether you have done anything wrong, pay attention to and correct it later, and if you are wrong, you can bow your head and admit your mistake. If it's their fault, you can talk to them and talk about it, if they are not so unreasonable and reasonable, I think the problem will be solved, if you feel that you can't get along with them, then change places, you can't see you all day long, you are in a bad mood every day, why bother?

If you have super endurance, you can act as if nothing happened, do what you should do every day, eat, drink, sleep, go to work, they talk to you and you will naturally say, they don't talk to you and you don't have to pay attention to them, I often do this in the dormitory, although I suffer a little, but if I am not wrong, why bow to the unworthy person, you say?

Things will always pass, all the unhappiness is temporary, life will always get better, as long as we have a kind and beautiful heart, a positive and optimistic life, do what we should do, in line with the principle that people do not offend me, I do not offend others, what others think, how to say that we can not control, only do ourselves well, make yourself stronger, learn to protect yourself.

Remember that in this world except for our parents, we can still live very well, if you are really not wrong, then you don't have to care about how others are, the most important thing is to make yourself happy, try to contact with other colleagues more, good relationships, don't take it as an ordeal, don't complain, some things always have to be borne by themselves, experience more, we will be stronger, more mature, in order to know more about how to deal with people. Hope you get better soon, I wish you a happy day.