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Everyone will have desires, and most people will think about their own interests. Everyone wants to get what they want. So it's normal for people to be selfish.
In fact, selfishness is also a yearning for the beautiful things in one's heart, and it is also a kind of pursuit. It only depends on the degree of his pursuit, and if he focuses too much on himself and does not think about others, then he will form a very serious selfishness. So selfishness is only in the thoughts of each person.
Even a person with noble character has a selfish side, but he has more spirit and more beautiful spiritual qualities than ordinary people. If you want to find a person in the world who is not selfish, it will be difficult, or not at all.
To be tolerant of others is to be kind to yourself. There is a relationship of interest between people, because people have selfish desires, who will not love themselves, are people on earth like this, as long as you have a tolerant heart, do not worry about others, how can others get along with you, you must learn to forget, and remember, good at forgetting the bad of others, remember the good of others, so that you will have a beautiful heart, if you remember the bad of others every day, try to ask your brain memory is so big, care more about helping others a little, Have less of your own desires and others will treat you equally well ...
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Don't scold him, despise him with actions.
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I don't think there's any need to be sarcastic about such people, just try to be yourself.
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There are different people around us, but we don't care about how others live, just live a good life, just work hard to live a happy life, we can't change what kind of people others are, if you don't like it, let's deal with it less.
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A selfish person won't take it to heart no matter how sarcastic you try to be sarcastic, but if you really want to be sarcastic, you can just say it.
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If you meet a selfish person, don't split the word, he just needs to pay attention to her, and you have to distance yourself from him.
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I think it's your own people, you don't need sarcasm, you just have to stay away from them and ignore them.
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How sarcastic? Selfish people, let's not be sarcastic about selfish people, we know that we are not likable.
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There is no stable relationship, which proves that the relationship between you is not so certain, and you can't go to each other's hearts, which can only be said to be an ordinary friend relationship
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These people are already selfish and selfish, I don't think you need to deal with them, because such people are disgusting.
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The world is big, stay away from those who hurt you.
People are selfish, but selfish people also need friends, and people who don't treat you as friends don't need to be your friends.
As for swearing, it involves quality.
Keeping a distance is the right way to deal with such people. It's sad to be the same kind of people.
The villains are not the group, and the gentlemen are not the party.
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First of all, the first point, don't go head-to-head with it, how to say it, sometimes, they will do something harmful to others and self-interest behind their backs, if you find out, but don't be carried away by the sense of justice, you can't do it alone, it's best to attract the attention of others, and everyone will crusade against them together, because after all, a person's strength is very thin, and it is difficult to fight them on their own.
The second point is to keep a safe distance from him, knowing that the other party's character is problematic, then you have to draw a clear line with him, that can maintain a superficial relationship, but you must not be in the same stream, because they will not really make friends, maybe one day they will turn their faces and deny people.
The third point of conversation should be tight-lipped in front of people here, you must not mention others at will, especially complaining, counting others, you must not say it, because this will become a bargaining chip for them to provoke the relationship between you in the future, if they complain about others.
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Don't entangle with such people, staying away is the only way, if you scold the garbage, then are you yourself downgrading your status to the same level as the garbage?
Whatever he does? Strive to improve yourself and raise yourself to a height that they look up to, and those garbage people will naturally look at it with a different kind of worship.
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Everyone has a different style of doing things, and you may be a helpful person, so you may think of others as well. But nothing can be done on one's own. For selfishness, we can think like this, our life and work depend on ourselves, if you know that he is bad, you try to stay as close as possible, if you encounter scolding, you think of a way, use your wisdom and reason to persuade him, give him certain advice, otherwise contact him less, don't let his lack of quality affect your mood.
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If you become a little worse, won't you become the person you hate!
In fact, you don't have to worry about what people who don't agree with you, if you think what you're doing is right and doing it will make you comfortable, just stick to it. There's no need to pay for someone else's mistakes yourself.
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The premise of our judgment on whether to do the same as the other party is to look at the other party's current results, that is, whether he mixes well or not, whether he is very successful, whether he is rich, and whether he is liked. If the other person is a very accomplished person, we can learn from him and imitate him. If not, everyone doesn't like him, and there is no achievement in work and life, in this way, we can ignore him, or stay away from him, but we can improve our own realm, if we are as bitter and mean as him, we will be the same as him.
Having said so much, I don't know if I can understand it, I hope it can help you1
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Some people are naturally selfish and bad, and they like to scold others. There is no way to change his behavior, only when he himself is personally harmed. We just need to. Leave him alone, it's okay not to come into contact with him.
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Someone else is such a person, you don't have to worry about him. You just need to be strict with your behavior.
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Recognize the people around you, help those who are worthy of help, stay away from those who are not worthy, and learn to protect yourself.
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It is precisely because these people are selfish and bad that they will scold others, otherwise he will be sorry for her selfish title, only these selfish and bad people will feel that others are not good enough for him, and they will feel that others are bad to her and have malicious intentions towards him, so they will scold others.
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If you can't scold or beat others, then you should stay away from him and don't mess with others.
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When people come to bite you, do you still want to bite back, this is a lot of cheapness. Just live your own life, and ignore him.
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Stay away from garbage people, stay away from unreasonable people.
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When you encounter this kind of person in the future, it's okay to ignore him, can't you hide if you can't beat him? And there is no reason to talk about such people.
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If you think that if someone is selfish and likes to curse, then you should stay away from him and don't have anything to do with him.
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You can only learn to be a master, so don't think about small things, stay away from villains, and learn to be detached.
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You should stay as far away from them as possible, save yourself from being upset, and have a good attitude and don't make yourself bad.
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Some people are selfish and bad, and what if they want to scold others? Then stay away from this kind of person. It's better not to talk to him, don't have anything to do with him.
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What should some people do if they are selfish and bad and want to scold others? Stay away from such a person, do not associate with him, and do not be friends with such a person. If it's a relative, you can help him to make corrections gradually.
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Some people are selfish and bad, what if they want to scold others? Then you have to stay away from such people, don't deal with such people, or work with them, so that you can be happy every day.
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In a situation like this, you'd better not associate with him, who is selfish and treats others badly, and often scolds others, do you think it's necessary for such people to play together?
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This kind of person just ignores him, and a selfish and bad person can't be reasonable, and reasoning with him is incurring sin.
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Some people are selfish and bad, and such people should stay away from them and not get along with them.
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is not afraid of the shadow slanting, whatever he says, when the other people see the truth of the matter, they will naturally understand.
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There are many, many people like you said, and if you meet someone like that, you'd better stay away from her and ignore him, because there are too many people like this, too much sweat.
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In the situation you are talking about, do you not get praise for doing good deeds, but let people help people instead?
There will definitely be such a situation, there are all kinds of people in society, it is a very complicated thing, but you must believe that there must be many good people, and you can't deny life when you encounter a little thing.
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In fact, human kindness should be applied reasonably. It is right to have good thoughts. Don't change your mental state because of some people. But kindness cannot be kind to everyone, it must be applied reasonably.
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The sentence of the senior sarcasm of selfishness is as follows:
1. People are contradictions, and you should also learn to love yourself selfishly.
2. Let go of the mind and feel at ease. Let go of those selfish desires and evil thoughts in your heart, let go of those senseless attachments and stubborn paranoia.
3. I don't know if I'm too selfish and hate you being crooked with other girls.
4. We are always the most selfish choice to hurt the people closest to us.
5. Maybe it's not that we've changed, but that we're getting closer and closer to our true selves.
6. Love is a noble, beautiful and innocent feeling, which should replace hypocrisy and blackmail with loyalty and sincerity, selfishness with mutual respect and mutual respect, and hasty action with moral civilization.
7. We always regard our words as the truth and infinitely magnify our grievances, so people are always selfish, but the amount of selfishness is different.
8. Love is a sincere and sincere embrace, a sincere and sincere exchange, and there is no room for hypocrisy and selfishness.
9. We are all too selfish, I want you to be single-minded, and you want me to be tolerant.
10. Human nature is inherently selfish, who doesn't think for themselves? Don't think of people as kind.
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There's a saying that can change everything, no matter what people say about you, you say that you have a vegetable leaf on your teeth. That person will naturally be embarrassed, if he says that I didn't eat vegetables, you say, is it because what I ate before is still on my teeth? If he says you have greens on your teeth, you say, "Do you want to eat it?"
I can pick it out for you.
But I advise you to try not to be hostile to others and to be tolerant, as this is a last resort.
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To refute, confidence and momentum are the most important, don't think that the other party is very fierce and you will be cowardly, and scolding does not have to be swearing. Before you scold, think about the whole process before and after, think about the ins and outs clearly, and you have a reason, you have a strong reason to fight with the other party. Take advantage of the powerful environment around him, use the group to back him up, and make him the object of public accusations.
Keep a balanced mindset and speak quickly so that he doesn't have a chance to refute.
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I have a trick that is: you ask it (the meaning of the beast!) You race against a bear, will you win, will the bear win, or will it be as fast? If the answer is not right ... Hmph, you're selfish!How about it, don't answer back?
Answer: I will win You are more than a beast.
Answer: Bears will win, you are not as good as beasts.
Answer: As fast as you are, you are a beast.
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Such. You say I'm selfish, why don't you think about yourself? Do you empathize? Where am I in your heart? Am I selfish? Are you selfish again? Or do you just don't like me?
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Selfless people generally don't scold others for being selfish.
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If you are a magnanimous person and want to make a good impression in the eyes of others, then you don't refute him, he scolds you for being selfish, and scolding others is the most hateful, so you don't need to pay attention to it at all, silence is the best rebuttal!
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Day his mouth... Confucius said that if people are not for themselves, the dzi will be destroyed. If you are selfless, just wait, and your family will be ruined.
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Keep your distance.
When you get along with a selfish person, only the other person takes advantage of you, and it is very difficult for you to get benefits from the other person. These people usually only talk about interests, not the truth, so we really don't need to be friends with such people, just keep our distance.
Treat each other with courtesy. If we sometimes have to deal with such selfish people, we must try to treat each other with interests, try not to let the other party take advantage of us, but we can't let the other party hold a grudge against us, so the only thing we can do at the moment is to do our duty and etiquette well.
Don't expect. We don't need to have expectations for selfish people, because the higher the hopes, the more disappointed we will end up with. You know, many times selfish people tend to only think about themselves first, and never consider whether the interests of others are also damaged.
Hold the bottom line. When getting along with selfish people, we must keep our bottom line, and don't hand over the right cheek just because the other party hit us on the left cheek. On the contrary, on the basis of guarding the bottom line, we must learn to fight back. Only by counterattacking can the opponent not gain an inch.
Precautionary heart. When dealing with selfish people, we should always be on the lookout for whether they will do something bad for us. After all, although we must not harm people's minds, we must have information to guard against others, and we should be more vigilant against selfish people to avoid being betrayed.
Come straight to the point. When you have something to talk to a selfish person, you must make it clear to your face, get straight to the point, and don't let the other party have the opportunity to dig a hole for you, and then coax you to serve him in the days to come. When we talk to each other about things, we must speak openly and leave no trouble.
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