What should I do, is it suitable for marriage?

Updated on society 2024-05-29
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't think your run-in period has yet ... It is recommended to get to know each other for a while! If he's always been so maverick and so easy to ignore your thoughts, I think you'll have a hard time living after marriage...

    Let's get to know each other better. Tell him that in addition to being good to you, you also need him to respect you. Only a marriage that respects each other and understands each other can last!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is normal for individuals to have different living habits. If you feel that you will live together in the future, you have the confidence to change him, or tolerate him, this is the most important thing, there is no one in the world who lives exactly the way you think. It's normal for two people to be together, have differences, quarrels and frictions, these are negotiable and improving, and I don't think it's serious enough to give up this relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Do you love him? For the bed that Mao bought in order to buy, hang a picture in that place and other hairy things to deny marriage? I don't really understand what you're thinking.

    But I don't care what the bed is, where the picture hangs, or whatever. My husband doesn't care, even though he listens to me for everything.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are many factors that affect people's decision to get married, but as long as you love, really love, you must have no hesitation, you must know that the happiness of the family comes from compromise, your own compromise, his compromise. If you can't stand his shortcomings, it means that you haven't found true love yet. True love will not even care for your life, do you believe it?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There will always be this or that friction between two people, and the specific question of whether it should be knotted or not, these people are just giving you a reference opinion, you must respect your heart, and if you can't let go, let's be together......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After getting married, you will suffer a lot of grievances, but if he is sincere to you, you should find a time to have a serious and in-depth conversation with him, and you must make three chapters of the law to show your attitude, you are not his appendage, you have your own thoughts, I support you. If you don't say it before you get married, you will be very passive after you get married, and it will be difficult to reverse the passive situation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you should communicate seriously before getting married, you naturally need an assertive person to live, but his assertiveness is obviously self-centered, completely ignoring your feelings, it is useless to be good to you, not understanding you enough, can not accommodate you, after marriage will only increase troubles.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Marriage is not child's play, if there is no result in communicating more before marriage, then don't blindly get married for the sake of getting married.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's time to get older! Ability to live independently! Able to take on family responsibilities.

    Generally speaking, they will get married!

    Grown-ups! Don't be pretentious!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Specifically, getting married for the sake of getting married, I advise you to think twice.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1.First of all, you have to meet the legal age of marriage, which is 22 for men and 20 for women. If you have not reached this age, you will not be able to get a marriage license.

    2.Furthermore, you are not close relatives to marry, and the law does not allow close relatives to marry. or other diseases that do not allow marriage, etc.

    3.Also, the two of you know each other better, the three views are basically the same, and the economic conditions reach a certain level (to meet the life after marriage, and children), then you can consider getting married.

    4.It is not so simple to find a suitable person to marry, so you should think about it carefully, combine your own requirements, combine the advantages and disadvantages of the other party, and make the best judgment.

    5.There must also be a certain material foundation, forming a family is never as easy as imagined, whether it is given by both parents or two people through labor to accumulate, there must be a certain material foundation.

    People with different material bases have different definitions, some people think that paying a down payment in first-tier cities determines whether to get married or not, and some people think that buying a house in a small county town with full payment is considered to have a material basis, anyway, different people have different definitions. Marriages built on no material basis are like a plate of sand.

    5.It is to look at the plans and intentions of the two people, and they must be in step with each other, taking into account the work, future development and planning, the requirements of both families, etc., and they can get married when they feel that it is time to get married.

    7.Finally, think about whether you have decided to stay with this person for the rest of your life, if you hesitate, or haven't thought about it, you can first imagine and then decide whether to get married.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. Sufficient economic foundation as support.

    In this era, if you want to start a family, the condition that you must consider is undoubtedly money, which is not to say vanity and power, this is just one of the conditions for surviving in this society.

    2. The character of both parties.

    Marriage is a matter of two people, the most important thing for two people together is to be able to run in, if they can tolerate and understand each other, then it is possible to live, the man must have enough sense of responsibility to take on the whole family, and the woman must be tolerant and understanding, two people to manage the marriage together, in order to harvest a happy life.

    3. Freshness will maintain the quality of the marriage.

    Freshness is the most important thing in any situation, keep a proper distance, and give the other half a new experience every day, such as giving each other a little surprise every day, a flower, and a beautiful dinner.

    4. The parents of the other half will not interfere too much.

    The most breaking thing for a woman after getting married is to face the problem of her in-laws, for fear that her in-laws will not like it and make things difficult everywhere, which is the problem that women are most worried about. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact, and two people cannot understand each other, which is prone to many problems.

    5. Whether a man has true love for you.

    Whether a man has true love for you, whether he has a heart to play or really wants to live with you for a lifetime, you can see from the man's usual details and attitude towards you, whether he can tolerate you and tolerate you, if he is not sincere, don't get married.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Each other can tolerate each other, and everyone will make mistakes and have shortcomings. As husband and wife, they have a tolerant and generous heart, and can correctly and rationally look at each other's shortcomings and mistakes, neither magnifying nor shrinking, and seeking truth from facts. Turn a blind eye to small mistakes and shortcomings, and do not give up principles and positions for big mistakes and shortcomings!

    Each other can firmly support each other in life and work, will encounter some uncontrollable problems and difficulties, which is not terrible, the key is to be able to get each other's firm support and understanding! As the saying goes: "Husband and wife are of the same heart, and their profits are broken.""That's it!

    Marriage with a basic material economy as the foundation is not "platonic love", it is the real life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, without a certain material economy as the foundation, it is impossible to carry on married life! It is best for couples with common hobbies to have two or three common hobbies, because if there are common hobbies, there will be common topics, and two people will have a lot of communication, and there will be exchanges that will enhance the relationship between husband and wife! When the relationship between husband and wife is stable, your married life will be happy, right?

    It is easy to communicate with each other in case of trouble, if you don't say it, he doesn't ask, it is easy to have misunderstandings, and there will be contradictions and frictions when there is a misunderstanding! But this is not the most terrible, the most terrible thing is that no matter how hard one party talks, and the other party responds with silence, such a marriage will not last long! Each other is friends and common valuesCouples should first of all be friends, and they should be good friends or confidants, and the relationship between men and women who are not even friends cannot reach the level of husband and wife!

    The other two have the same life and life goals they pursue, and there are no major differences in their views on things!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. What is the best age to get married? Divorce rates are highest among young couples who marry during their teenage years. The older you get, the happier your marriage will be, and when you reach your 30s, you know who you are and what you want, and then the economic conditions will keep up, and the marriage will be stronger at this time.

    But it's not absolute, it's just true to some extent. One piece of data found that the divorce rate does decline with the age of marriage, but the divorce rate of people who are over 30 and nearly 40 years old is actually higher than that of people who marry in their early 20s.

    2. What is the age difference between men and women in marriage, and some analysis of the comprehensive population theory: it is best for a girl to marry a man between the ages of 32 and 45 at the age of 24-25, and why? First, from the analysis of appearance and posture, girls generally age very quickly after the age of 25, because girls menstruate once a month, and adults lose the essence of the girl's body.

    Boys are different, boys will develop more slowly than women, and they will not age until after the age of 30, and the rate of aging is slower than that of girls. Second, from the perspective of giving birth to offspring, the health of the babies mainly depends on the health of the mother, the baby is grown up in the mother's body, and whether the baby is smart depends on the father, which is genetics. Young mothers are more likely to ensure the healthy growth of their babies.

    There are two stages of the appropriate age for a man to get married, the first time period is between 25 and 30 years old, and the best time is around 26 years old. If you get married during this time, it is normal for boys to be 2 to 6 years older than girls under normal circumstances, and you should consider getting married first before starting a business later. If a man remarries after a successful career, the divorce rate is very high, and he will always worry that the girl marrying him is greedy for his money.

    The second time period is between 35 and 40 years old, and the best time is around 35 years old. Boys in this age group should find a girl who is 10-16 years younger than themselves to marry. This kind of marriage of old husbands and young wives will be relatively stable.

    At this time, men's temperament is relatively stable, and if they have a certain economic foundation, they will not worry about money.

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