What is it like to have a scumbag sibling?

My brother must be a scumbag of good colors. Every year during the Chinese New Year, the family smiled and asked who the award certificate in the house was, and asked him when he would get one back, and he was always a little embarrassed and pretended not to care. In fact, he has also cared about the evaluation of others for so many years, and the pressure of failing to study must also be a shade of gray.

When I now live a carefree life on campus, have the opportunity to listen to the master's lectures, have a group of lovely friends, and have leisure time to go shopping, watch movies, exercise and explore all kinds of delicious food, how I wish my brother could live like me and be a chic and unrestrained teenager.

There is a scumbag brother who failed to be admitted to the technical school he studied in high school, he is actually very smart, but he is very playful and does not like to study, and he is not able to guide him well in time, which leads to the gradual abandonment of his studies. Now I feel that I have to reflect on myself, and I often feel sorry for him, if I can be more patient, don't laugh at him, help him more, maybe I can make a difference in his life. said that he is very smart, because his endorsement is actually very fast, mathematics and physics can be mixed and passed only by reading books before the exam, that is, Chinese and English are not willing to spend effort.

If his parents and I had been tougher on his studies, maybe it would have been different.

I remember that I used to help children his age make up for the lessons, and the class was held at my house. He happened to come to my parents' house during the summer vacation, and my mother said that he would follow him to listen to the class. I give him an English book, let him read the words first, and I give a lecture to the other children.

As soon as I turned around after a while, this guy was almost asleep on a stool, holding an English book little by little. I hurried to kick him out to sleep, so as not to delay others from studying. As a result, as soon as people go out, they are not sleepy, and immediately turn on the computer to play games.

It's not a top student.,It's just a lot better than my brother.,Responsible for all his homework since he was a child.,But he never took the initiative to write his homework.,Every winter and summer vacation, I have to help him out with five questions a day and help him pay attention to the materials of the diary.,He went to elementary school once I was in a hurry to write his homework for him.,And then the teacher scolded him at a glance.,And then this thing didn't let me touch his homework anymore.。

Supervise my sister to write homework and study, she plays with her hands and pens there, but she can't anyway, and then I talk here over and over again, and the final result is that I don't talk about it, I love to learn and don't learn. I play with my phone and she reads by herself. If you don't want to make progress, you should be powerless.

My brother is really a scumbag.,Belong to the kind of math with a perfect score of 150 points can only test forty or fifty points.,The only subject that can be taken out is Chinese.,The biggest emotion is probably about: Oh, brother, you can have a snack.,No matter how bad your grades are, your sister and I can't say good things to you in front of your parents.。 Sometimes if you want to help him explain his homework, I can have a heart attack, because it's easy to get it, but I just can't get it.

Looking at the sky speechlessly, why can't you learn.

Every time she supervised her sister to write her homework, she turned the pen and shook her head without seriousness. Every time I couldn't help but lecture her. Just yesterday afternoon she wrote an essay, ah!

After several heated discussions, and finally relayed to her, she wrote. Every time I supervise her homework, I can't wait to write it for her. Sometimes I think, ah!

O my name!

It was a very painful experience.

My academic performance has always been very good, I have been receiving various awards since I was a child, and my academic performance did not regress in high school, and I was finally admitted to a very good university, and I have been receiving various scholarships during my college years, so I have always felt that studying is not a difficult thing, and I naturally think that my younger sister can also achieve good results, can make a name for herself in school, and can get various scholarships based on her academic performance.

But my sister really disappointed me. My sister has been a scumbag since elementary school, and her grades have always been at the bottom of her class, and my mom is often invited to school because the teacher has to talk to my mom about my sister's grades. I also went to school for my mother to meet the teacher, and the teacher kept telling me about my sister's various problems in her studies, and as a student with good grades, I really couldn't understand what the teacher said.

I've also been to parent-teacher conferences on behalf of my mom. When I used to go to school, I was very happy at every parent-teacher conference because I was always at the top of my grades and I was always praised in the parent-teacher conferences. But the parent-teacher conference I held for my sister was the most humiliating parent-teacher conference I've ever experienced.

Because my sister was at the bottom of the class in any of her subjects, the teacher praised a large number of people, but my sister was still not on the list of praises. I felt like I wanted to leave the parent-teacher conference right away.

I also thought about tutoring my sister well. But every time I help her with her homework, I get mad because she makes a lot of basic mistakes in her homework. I'd love to correct them all, but my sister always looks like she doesn't understand.

I was the most angry when I told her math problems. She doesn't even know a lot of basic knowledge, basic formulas. I told her three or four times about a question, but she still said she didn't understand it very well.

Sometimes she said she understood, but she still made a lot of mistakes when she did the questions. I get angry every time.

Worried, I want to guide her to understand the importance of learning, but her nature is difficult to change, she always does not learn well, and she must always supervise and discipline.

I haven't experienced it, so I think I'll be quite unhappy when I imagine it, and the neighbors will gossip behind their backs, which makes me feel ashamed.

It's a very urgent experience with no way out. I want to study for her, but I can't help her without working on her own.

I'm anxious and angry for her, but she won't listen to what I say, and I'm very worried about what she will do in the future, and now the pressure to survive is so great.

I feel really helpless, no matter how you tutor her, her parents find her a teacher to make up for her, and the whole family worries about her, but her grades are still the same.

Very tired, when teaching her to study, I always don't listen to you carefully, as if I have ADHD, I don't like to study, but I can't beat and scold.

My sister is a scumbag and will feel very angry, feeling that she didn't put her mind on studying and didn't study hard. So she needs to be urged to study.

will feel that my sister is too playful, and there is a feeling of hating iron and steel, so I can only spend more energy to teach her and urge her to complete her studies.

I feel a little unbearable, and I really want to help her study, hoping that she can be self-disciplined.