Do you follow your heart or submit to reality? Why?

Updated on society 2024-05-21
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, it is to give in to reality, because there are too many uncertainties in this society now, and if you follow your heart, then you will take many detours, and you will be treated unfairly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I will follow my heart, because I am a very stubborn person, not easy to succumb to reality, always trying to complete my inner thoughts, even if the reality is cruel, I will not bow my head to the reality.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Of course, it's to give in to reality, the world is cruel, and if you follow your heart, it's hard to grow in real life, and it's hard to get what we want, so I will choose to give in.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Surrender to reality, because in the face of reality, we are all vulnerable, no matter how strong your heart is, you will still be defeated by reality in the end, and it is often more chic to surrender to reality than to follow your heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, it is to follow reality, because you have no ability to change the status quo, why let your life be so miserable every day, of course, you still have to follow reality, so that you can make your life more comfortable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Depending on what stage you are in, if you are financially free now, of course, follow your heart, financially not free, see how you define your own future, and don't value material people, then follow your heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I usually depend on the situation, if the reality can't change, then I will choose to give in to the reality, because if I can't change it, it's useless to follow my heart, if the reality is not so cruel, then I will follow my heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I will live in reality, because if we just blindly follow our hearts, you will find that you can't adapt to this world at all, and only if you accept reality, you can go further.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Under normal circumstances, I will succumb to reality, because no matter how firm my heart is, I am vulnerable in the face of reality, I don't want to study hard, but if I don't study, I can only go out to work, so only studying can I have a comfortable life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think I'm a person who believes in fate very much, because I haven't been particularly strict since I was a child, so I tend to follow my mood when I do things, and if I can't convince myself, I will definitely do it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If I had been strong enough at the time, I would have followed the reality. If I had nothing, I would have followed my heart! When you have an "identity", many things are helpless, and only with nothing can you follow your heart.

    I've always relied on avoidance to satisfy my willfulness, but when you go through more things, you will find that escaping is the stupidest thing to do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I want to follow my heart. Doing things according to your heart makes you feel happy, giving in to reality will only make you suffer, I don't want to live in pain, even if it's hard to follow my heart, but I will persevere for that happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I am a person who respects inner thoughts, people have thoughts, have their own opinions and choices, the reality is cruel, but if you follow your heart, you will have the motivation to work hard, even if you fail, you will not regret it, after all, this is the truest thought in your heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You need to find a balance between obeying your heart and surrendering to reality, you can't obey your heart too much, you can't submit too much to reality, if you follow your heart, you will get satisfaction from your heart, but you will not live your life well enough.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Follow your heart. The reality is too cruel, and it is often extremely important to protect the pure land in your heart, and you will not lie to yourself, your heart will tell you what is right and what is wrong, follow what you think in your heart, at least you will not be too wronged yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, if you give in to reality and follow your heart in everything, then it will be difficult to survive in this society, because this society is very realistic, and you have to give in, and you have to be at peace with what you encounter.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I might go back and give in to reality, because reality is very cruel and skinny, and the status quo often pushes you to not follow your heart and make you do what you want to do.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I feel like I'm following my heart, because reality is my own, and I don't feel like I'm at the age where I have to obey reality, and I'm in control of my future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I myself should give in to reality, because as the saying goes, ideals are beautiful, but reality is cruel, no matter how good I think in my heart, if the reality is cruel, it is nonsense.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is good that they do not listen or look at what they say, and they do not see it, they do not hear it, and their hearts are not troubled.

    After all, they are the ones who have no quality, as long as they do their best.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can participate in more clubs, participate in more activities, and then if there are competitions in school, you can also participate in more competitions, and I think if you are busy with all kinds of activities throughout the day, then you will grow very quickly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Whether to follow the heart or surrender to reality depends on the specific situation and the specific problem analysis. I still give in to some problems that cannot be solved in reality, but there are some problems that can be followed in my heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Choose love. I believe that there are ghosts and gods in this world, and I believe in reincarnation and destiny. Some people, some things, don't want to force, but this doesn't mean that I don't have ideas, I'm content with the status quo, because I believe that what belongs to me, people who belong to me, he will take the initiative to come to my world, it's just a matter of time.

    I'm not good at compromise, I'm not good at expression, I'm not good at tending to the flames, I'm more inclined to Tao Yuanming's life, even if it's ordinary, but I won't bend my waist to five buckets of rice.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is no choice between love and reality! Let me put it this way, this society is very realistic now, love exists, but life has to go on, if your family's economic conditions are okay, you can try to accept her. After all, she is a good girl, if your family's economy is more difficult, why give up, otherwise it will hurt you and her in the future!.

    There is also a possibility, if you really can't give up on her, why don't you work hard to prove it to your family, marry her, you don't regret it, and life won't be sad. If it's just a momentary novelty, forget it!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As a person who has come over, choose love. I think it is very important to have the same three views, and the second is to have common interests and hobbies, if the other party is a person who is not good at words, at least talk about the principle of getting along well before marriage or formulate"House rules"It's a good idea. Personally, I think that as long as the appearance says that in the past, he is considerate enough to love you and love you, and he does not change his heart, he is already a good man.

    Wishing you happiness

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The economic foundation is the foundation, the emotional foundation is also the foundation, and now even holding hands is resistant, indicating that your heart has not accepted this person's ideas. You can think about it, are you happy when you are with him, are you happy when you don't have him, small problems after marriage will also be magnified, and you can tolerate all this if you have feelings, so I will choose love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I chose love, the reality depends on how a person is defined, in my opinion, there is a house and a car, the car can be used for transportation, the home is warm, and the rest can work hard by themselves, the two of them live their own small lives, even if they can't give me LV, live a dull life for ordinary people.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Everyone has their own way and ability to love others, and they are affectionate, righteous and responsible, and they can't do it if they want to. Ordinary people may not be as brave as me in facing life and strong in accepting suffering, nor may they have my ability to solve problems and my vision of making money. Different people can't afford the same thing.

    I just suggest that you first understand yourself, understand your love, how you love people, what you can do for love, only then can you know who you can love and what you can do, otherwise you will never know what to do if something happens, after all, the only person who can really solve your own problems is yourself.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I have always believed that when two people love each other and are together, the first thing to consider is feelings, followed by whether the three views of personality are suitable for getting along and whether they can talk about it, and finally they will think of physical diseases. Maybe I'm too idealistic, I think love is to tolerate everything about the other person, everything here, is all the flaws and advantages of the physical and psychological, when you do this, you are qualified to talk about marriage. It doesn't matter if you don't, it's normal, it means that it's just appreciation, liking, liking is also a very pure character, nothing.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Most of the time, I care more about my other half, if I love him very much, even if he has no money, or even nothing, as long as we are happy, I will still choose him after all. I am willing to work hard with him and go from bitter to sweet together. No matter how hard and tired I am, I don't think I will regret it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In love, I will succumb to reality, love is not a bubble, it needs to stand the test of tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Succumb to reality. Love is a matter of two people, and sometimes in real life, it will affect the lives of two people because of economic, physical and other things, and it will also affect the marriage relationship.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I will succumb to reality, because love is not a romantic endorsement of flowers, but a promise of real life. So will succumb to reality.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In love, I choose to follow my heart, after all, feelings are a matter of two people for a long time, and only when you like it can you imagine the future and reality. If there are no feelings, everything is in vain.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I am more subservient to my heart, because if I can't even follow my own inner thoughts, then this love must be imperfect and not long-lasting.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No more eagerly sharing over a little thing, it seems like you're tired of my noise too. No longer bothering me about my pain, it seems that you are disgusted with my weakness. No longer warmed by the sound of goodnight, it seems that it has long lost its true meaning.

    It has always been shallow, but the love is deep. I don't want to give you up easily, I like you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The reason why you insist on getting married before the age of 26 is that if you are afraid of the collapse of the relationship, it means that you are not confident enough in the relationship.

    And getting married later is really more conducive to the life planning of both parties, and it must also be recognized by both parties. If the common choice only satisfies the planning and needs of one party, and the other party needs to be sacrificed, voluntary sacrifice can be regarded as the overall situation, if it is not voluntary, such sacrifice contains the reluctance of one party, then the beneficiary still insists, it seems selfish.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I will bow to my heart, because only by following my inner hope can I express my true self and live freely and naturally, rather than being subject to various constraints.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Surrender to your heart. I don't let the other person's financial situation or appearance affect my own perception and feeling of our relationship.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    In love, I will succumb to my heart, I will express my true thoughts, and I will not be subjugated by reality, because I feel wronged by that.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Of course, it's to follow your heart, and a lot of times we say the phrase "go with your feelings" and this sentence is obviously asking you to follow your heart.

    We who follow the crowd are like walking corpses, without the idea of self, which is not conducive to our self-formation, and there is no way for us to truly be ourselves. That's why it's important to follow your heart.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It depends on whether you follow your heart or follow the crowd. If a friend gets married with a gift, this must be a few good friends following the crowd, all the same, so it is not easy to offend people; And when faced with some choices, our inner thoughts, or the lifestyle and attitude we really want, must follow our hearts.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I feel that the choices in life must follow the heart rather than follow the crowd. In fact, I am particularly unoptimistic that China is following the crowd, and you have to do what others do.

    Each of us is an independent and special individual in this society, and no one can copy or copy it. If we are so unique, why do we keep repeating the same thing, can't we have our own characteristics?

    There were two paths in the yellow woods, and I chose the one with fewer people. "Every time I mention following the crowd, I think of this verse.

    Walking the path that others have walked must go back to avoid a lot of bumps, but chewing gum that others have chewed must not be as sweet as when the first person eats it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    People live a lifetime to be chic, to go with their hearts, can not be at the mercy of others, when we encounter things are also to follow the heart, we only do what we think is right, let others say go, follow the crowd in my opinion is a derogatory term, people who follow the crowd are not self-conscious, their thoughts have been imprisoned, assimilated, but we are a unique individual, we have to be ourselves.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you have a clear and precise goal in mind, then please work hard for your goal, no matter what the world is like or what others are doing, and stick to your dreams. If you feel very lost in life and don't know what to do, you might as well follow the crowd once in a while, it may not be useful, but at least it won't be so wrong!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think the way you do things depends on the situation, if you set a feasible and good plan for yourself, you should follow your inner thoughts no matter what others think, but if your own ideas are a little rebellious and not in line with common sense, you should still go with the flow.

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