I m not an optimistic person, and I admit that I m not a naturally optimistic person

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    People don't have to live in this world vigorously, but they must have a responsibility (to society, to their families, but also to themselves, etc.); To evade is to be irresponsible for responsibility, as for criticism, there is nothing, if it makes sense, keep it in mind silently, accumulate experience (there will be no next pull); Criticism that is made out of nothing or maliciously, and you don't have to care: the more you think, the more pain you have, not him... Calmly face everything, it's nothing, it's useful to be alive, I'm sorry, I'm not a psychologist who seems to be talking nonsense, but I really hope you're happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's go for a relationship! Oh, don't be like this, don't blindly think about how you are, everyone's life is not easy, you only see your own misfortune now, and you have nothing unfortunate about, just look away, you should be very satisfied if you have a family who really loves you, such a young life, why haven't you asked other people's opinions and lightly deny yourself, to be a strong person is more important than anything else, if this time things are not perfect, then next time it will be done, because life is only once, life is wonderful. It's all up to you. Come on!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Be kind to pessimism. Be kind to escape.

    Be kind to the cowardly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone has their own differences, don't look down on yourself so much, since you have been born, you have to live well! Have faith!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is a mild depression

    Everything will be fine.

    If you have a chance, add me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm probably the same as you...I haven't left home until now...But....People have to grow up, right? Do you want to stay at home and be a turtle all the time?Huh....To live in this world, you have to face reality....Mom and Dad will be gone...Who else do you have to rely on? Society is realistic....I want to open it...The boat is naturally straight to the bridge....If it's not straight, we'll knock it straight....I'm sure you have what it takes...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm not optimistic, but I choose to be an optimistic person, I thought that I would be sad to find that I was not an optimistic person, but in fact, I would be more calm and more able to accept the time of even depravity, because I am indeed a person who is Putong liquid.

    In the two years that I have been doing pre-vocational education for college students, I have been pseudo-optimistic for two years, what is pseudo-optimism, as the name suggests, pretending to be positive. Because of my identity, I have to be positive, positive in reality, and I should also be positive in my circle of friends, I dare not show my emotions, I am afraid that because of an emotion, an imbecile, your positive label will be taken off.

    Later, I slowly understood that people have emotions, no one can be positive 24 hours a day, and no one can be positive every day, if you want to show your positive side, you are fake, the more afraid you are, the more depraved you will be.

    Gradually, I no longer feel like I was beaten every day, I accept it, show my truest self at present, and find that the influence is more than before, and the whole person is in a better state than before.

    Although I will have negative moments, most of them choose to be positive, and this choice is not a last resort, but I want to be an optimistic person, and I want to continue to shine.

    I admit that I am not an inherently optimistic person, even if I am pessimistic in everything I do, thinking about the worst outcome, I will still be optimistic to do it and carry it out.

    Why do you have pessimistic assumptions, this need varies from person to person, what I can think of at the moment is that because I am not confident enough in my own ability, no matter what I do, I will think about the worst outcome, so that when it really happens, I can be happy.

    I don't think this method is bad, I think this method can make me bold to start doing, rather than when it is perfect.

    Kazuo Inamori mentioned in the "Dry Law" that the company needs two types of people, one is the person who will raise all kinds of difficulties no matter what project is done, and the other is the person who does it quietly. Isn't this a pessimistic assumption, a positive implementation?

    I'm lucky enough to have both of these qualities and hopefully keep them up.

    This is what I often hear from my younger students, in fact, I like to mention "positive" rather than "optimistic", because I am not optimistic, but I always keep myself positive.

    I am about to graduate, it is impossible not to be anxious, not to be confused, I began to lose sleep, began to think cranky, began to think that my future life may be miserable, so am I still optimistic?

    I know I'm not optimistic at the moment, but I still choose to do something positive, such as reading every day, exercising, waking up early, and thinking.

    I told myself that you can not be optimistic, but you must not be positive.

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