My child has a boyfriend, and I don t agree with how to deal with conflicts

Updated on society 2024-05-09
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If there is anything you can't accept, it's best to communicate with your daughter first, after all, it's all for your daughter's good, and see what your daughter's attitude is.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Analyze your point of view with your child and discuss the boy's behavior in a consultative tone. If you are a good student, you can encourage your child to fall in love now, and you can study hard together and put the two children under your nose.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let's find her someone to marry.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First of all, what do you think is the reason? If you just disagree, then you can really only say that you are stubborn.

    If it is because he has some bad things, you can see it at a glance, but this has a great impact, but your child does not see it, then you have to find a way to guide him.

    Don't go and say this and that, but just start agreeing all the time.

    Of course, you have to make sure that she is safe and not to be taken away the first time.

    In that case, alas, you'll know what it's like to know that she's been hacked.

    It depends on the situation, if it is really that the return to the fight has met a good brother, then it can only be said that if he doesn't find out, it is really sleeping, then you just need to find the right time and give him this to wake up.

    If he knows that this is still the case, it can only be said that you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, including the old stubborn, including a series of people who pretend to be asleep when they are in love, etc., it is impossible to wake up in this life, right, only he pretends to be enough.

    If you don't pretend to be asleep, but you really didn't find out that this man is bad, or that this man is not good, it may be really bad for you, and it is actually harmless, so think about it yourself!

    The deadline is hopeful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. This is a very tricky problem, it will be like this at the beginning, and suddenly you can't accept a stranger in your life, and children will have a rebellious mentality.

    This is a very tricky problem, it will be like this at the beginning, all of a sudden, Zhizen can't stand a stranger appearing in his life, and children will have a reverse and anti-violent mentality.

    So what to do.

    Take your time, people, they are all emotional animals, especially Suiju children are also very coaxing, delicious, fun, as long as they are sincere to her, the time traveler will accept it when they grow up. At this time, it is up to your boyfriend to work hard, and he has to deal with the relationship between the two of you. How old is the child?

    His son is 15 years old.

    15 years old is in the period of cheating and rebellion, he has his own ideas, and it is normal not to accept it, and it is understandable for him to change the perspective of the hall code. You can't be in a hurry about this matter, you have to be prepared for a protracted battle. After all, you're going to take the place of his mom when you're together.

    My boyfriend said his son didn't agree, so he broke up with me.

    If your boyfriend really said such a thing, then it will be a matter of time before you break up, because in his heart his son is the most important, and if his son disagrees, he may not have made any effort, but just asked him if his son agrees, and a 15-year-old teenager understands everything, and he will definitely say no. If that's the case, I think you might as well take advantage of each other's decency and retreat yourself, you may not be the first person his son disagrees with.

    He said that his son was too young to understand, and he could not ignore his son's feelings.

    Do you think you believe what he says? What he means is to tell you that the heavens and the earth are great, and his son is the greatest.

    Then we're destined to be separated, aren't we? But I didn't want to be separated from him.

    Dear, this is not a matter of what you want, you are bothered by this matter, which proves that you love him very much, but dear, you can't do his son!

    Yes, I love him very much, and I can't live without him, I don't know what I'll be like without him, and I don't know what to do.

    It's hard for you to satisfy your son alone, and he has to mediate it, but he's already said that. Even if you love him very much, you have to think about the future, don't make a fuss without even a little love, it will hurt people more, no one can do without anyone, all the sails are handed over to time, and time will tell you what to do. As a woman, I can understand your situation and the mood of this town, but many times, the adult world is more just helpless, trade-offs and giving up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    mm, to be honest, I really feel bad for you, but what I want to tell you is, make up your mind to break up, really, you must make this determination, first of all, you are a bad man Zheng talks about friends to listen to the words of the family, maybe, we can't use cowardice to describe him, because his parents raised him so big, if he collides with his parents for you, then it can be summed up in another word, that is, "disobedience, in this way, even if you are together in the future, his parents will not like you." Family conflicts can be great.

    Secondly, let's assume that under your pleading, he has a change of heart, if his parents love his son, but his son agrees, but they are still very uncomfortable, your next day will be very difficult, you have to look at their faces to act, if your boyfriend is hungry and filial to a person, you are afraid that you will have to quarrel for three days. I won't be able to live this day in the future. The consequences are so severe that you can't even imagine it now.

    In the end, they said that you were short, I am afraid that it was an excuse, and I think that if it was just your height, I am afraid that it was not the real reason why his parents decided to break up the two of you, I wonder if you did something that made them unhappy when you went to live with him, or if they learned about the situation that made them feel that they had to break you up, so they did it.

    I think you'd better not be with him, even if you love him again, marriage is very different from love, after all, love is only a moment in marriage, more parents and firewood, rice, oil and salt are waiting for you, you must choose this level.

    That baby, I think you may have flowed out, this is nothing, as long as you don't get married, you are still a pure girl, but once you get married, you don't have a good life, and if you leave, it will not be easy to find a partner in the future. Don't worry too much about pregnancy, this is a must on your emotional road, in the end, women suffer a little more, their families don't take this matter seriously, it proves their cold-bloodedness, if their daughter suffers from this situation, will they still be like this? Don't marry in such a family!!

    It's not that you want to be so short, I believe that you have a better side, you will find a better one, this is a unique thing to think twice.

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