What does it feel like to be disappointed in someone you trust?

The whole person is very decadent, after all, he is a person he trusts, and he doesn't want to be disappointed in him, but he is really hopeless, and I have given him too many opportunities.

It's desperate, every time I'm sad, I always dig out my heart and lungs for him, I feel that he is the person I trust the most, and now I can't even trust the person I trust the most, and I'm very lost in my heart.

The boy who was once ambiguous and was being ambiguous suddenly posted a girl's ** in the circle of friends, and the text was love. The whole person was petrified in the bathroom, and the future I had been looking forward to was like a movie playing back in my mind, and I saw it fall apart, so I silently turned off my phone.

I like a girl who asks her out during the winter break, and the relationship is very good, but it hasn't developed to that kind of relationship yet. A few days after the start of school after the winter vacation, she suddenly ignored me, so I went to ask her what was wrong, but I didn't expect someone to make up nonsense that I claimed that she was with me, she believed these words, fortunately after explaining that she felt that my usual character was trustworthy and willing to believe me. I don't know what the motives of these people are, but I'm starting to get disappointed in the people around me who I've always trusted.

What you think is really what you think, you were slapped by life, and your heart hurts, as if you have lost something extremely important, it is this person you trust very much who threw you to the ground.

You think you're disappointed in him, and you can scream at him, but when it really gets to that point, you can't even say "why", you can only admit it willingly.

My husband asked me loudly: Why can people with cancer have children, but you can't? I'm 31 years old, and he said he cares about my body and must force me to give birth as soon as possible. Obviously, I was the closest person to me, but I began to fear him, resisted him, and subconsciously didn't want him to hurt me again.

I saw the screenshot of his circle of friends sent by my girlfriend to know what disappointment is, the screenshot is that he is holding another girl, and the caption is the doting tone that used to talk to me, yes, he split his legs. I used to give him a lot of freedom and a lot of trust, but now that I look at it, it's really nothing in his eyes.

He went from slapping me and promising never to hit me again, and now he's getting worse and worse. My family conditions are not good, he is not bad, but he always says that I only deserve to be with the people in my village. I obviously have a higher education than him, and I have something to be proud of, but in his eyes, because of the bad conditions, I don't know what to do and what to be grateful for.

I've decided to break up with him.

Most of the people you trust are people who care, since you are disappointed, you must also be very uncomfortable, if you still believe in the love between you, don't be too entangled, let him understand that every day with you is worth it.

It's sad, isn't it? When I first came out of campus, the leader I knew, who could also be called a master, helped me a lot, and I have always followed her to trust her, and our project work, in my heart, is that we have worked together to go through a lot of revolutionary struggles, and only then have laid a solid foundation and fruitful results, but in the end, it may be each other's distrust, mutual incomprehension, or it can be said that individual selfishness has caused disappointment in each other, complete loss of trust, and finally decided to forget each other.

At the same time, I added him and the girl he liked, and I was happiest every day to write about it to get his attention, and the truth was that he wouldn't make an expression on my talk, but talk about it under the girl's talk. I know that there are a lot of incompatibility between me and him, but I try hard just because I like it, but as a girl's intuition, I can see from the content of the chat that they have a good impression of each other, and it may be a matter of time before they are together. I don't want to make myself too sad, so forget it, at least for now, it's just disappointed and sad.

As follows:

1. The most frustrating thing is that you send a bunch of sincere words to tell yourself how much you love him, but it is considered to be hypocritical. That feeling of not being trusted, helpless and lonely. The words were typed, and tears followed. After all, it was one person who carried it all.

2. When I lose trust and really don't know how to get along, sometimes I look at my child, there are joys and sorrows, I should be responsible for his life, who is responsible for me. For the rest of your life, how to go.

3. Meditation and thinking have passed. I still can't figure out a lot of things, and not being trusted really makes people feel unpleasant. I can't deal with the chaos that happened, and it's hard to be atmospheric.

4. It's really hard to continue if you don't be trusted, it's like blowing a balloon that has been pricked by a needle, maybe you blow desperately, the balloon will inflate a little, but in the end that little hole will still make everything go back to the way it was. All the efforts were meaningless in that moment, goodbye.

5. Not being trusted, being suspected of character, feeling really cold. Escape from this environment on your own.

I always lack a sense of trust in others, because I have been deceived or have been deceived by others. It is an act that makes you think about everything you do, and you are suspicious of anyone's opinions, and you don't fully trust anyone.

Nowadays, there are a lot of deceptive behaviors in society, and it is normal to have to make people be careful everywhere. But magnifying this vigilance is a kind of heart disease.

The society is very large, and there are still the majority of people with good intentions, and when there is no direct conflict of interest, we should still listen to and accept the opinions of others. After all, everyone's thinking is limited, there will always be omissions, and accepting the other party's opinions can make things more perfect.

In life and work, we must believe that we are capable of doing everything well, and be full of self-confidence, and our sense of trust in others will inevitably manifest itself.

I also feel that it's not our fault, it's just that this society is too complex and it's hard to truly trust each other.

I used to trust my colleague, but he stabbed me in the back.

I used to trust my friend to lend him money, but he disappeared.

I used to trust a beggar and give alms with kindness, but he was a **.

I once lent my mobile phone to a passer-by who asked for help, but he ran away without paying attention.

After being hurt so many times, how can you make me trust again!

Whether there is a lack of trust and personal experience is closely related, if you have been deceived or distrusted in life, it is inevitable that you will be suspicious of others, which is also a natural thing. In today's society, the existence of a crisis of trust may be commonplace, but in any case, it is necessary to be confident in the world and confident in yourself.

I think it's probably because you're not confident enough.

There was a time when I was very depressed and unconfident because of work and family. At that time, I was full of doubts about everything, and even when I was walking on the road, I was worried about whether passers-by would pose a threat to me, and it was a really unforgettable time. Later, with the help of myself and my friends, I was able to stabilize my job and become very confident.

I suddenly realized that when you become confident yourself, it is very easy for you to trust others.

So if you don't have a sense of trust in others, get your confidence back first!

Because I have been hurt by people in this society, I always think about things before and after, but what I want to tell you is that there are still more good people and fewer bad people, you don't need to be too afraid, you can usually keep an eye on it, there is no need to have no sense of trust, stay with some people with a sense of justice, and regain trust in the outside world.

This is determined by this society, in fact, I think you should not think too much and be too rigid, maybe this is the reason for you to avoid facing it independently. You should first learn to believe in your own abilities and solve problems that you can solve independently. For example, I consciously take the initiative to do laundry, take a bath, and buy things.

In the process of completing things on your own, you will naturally think less and figure out more. You'll develop the idea of learning from others, and you'll actually do it. In this way, you will be strong in continuous learning and practice.

Find the starting point and direction of being a person and being yourself, and slowly you will look at people, and when you look at the specific things you encounter, you will see how that person's character is, whether it is credible. Another is that you have to have the ability to judge, and the credibility of this matter is clear at a glance.

This may be because your heart is insecure, or it is possible that you were deceived by someone you trusted, so now you will have a wary heart towards people, which is a normal feeling, but it needs to be rectified, such a feeling is too strong and not good, you need to increase your own experience, accurately analyze this person from the incident, you can make accurate judgments.

This is also normal, sometimes a person with low self-esteem and conceit will lack a sense of trust in others, because their hearts are not strong, and they can't break through themselves, and they feel that others are not in the same world as themselves, in fact, this is in line with the laws of life, because the joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, so there is no empathy to say, just worry about looking down, and strive to make yourself your own background, self-esteem is independent and strong, and you will also find that the world is very gentle with you.

I also have this kind of thought, usually in the work of others to do things, always let me distrust, not that I don't want to trust others, the most important thing is that some people do things that do not make people worry, take one of my colleagues for example, every time he does a little for me, nothing can be done well, and even sometimes I feel more messy when I do things for me. And the other one did a very good job. For a person who can't be trusted, he must not be at ease to let him do things.

Since I was deceived by a friend once, I have become more and more distrustful of the people around me, and I always feel that it is better to rely on others than on myself. Only by making your heart stronger and mastering more life tips and skills. Try to do everything without asking for help.

Sometimes I want to believe in someone slowly, but I am afraid of being hurt, so I dare not fully communicate and try. Let yourself become more and more isolated and helpless, and get used to being alone.

Lack of trust is a pain point in today's society, and everyone will not easily trust others, because there are so many similar news and events that no one dares to have too much contact with a stranger. It may also be that you have experienced some crisis of trust that has left you a shadow, and understanding and discovering the sincerity of others may bring you some changes.

Being trusted is the highest honor of being a man, you will get 10 million horses to survive, your heart is full of passionate emotion and gratitude, it is a sense of fulfillment that your efforts have been confirmed to be not in vain, you have to pay a lot for the world, and suffer a lot to have this feeling, I am an ordinary worker, and I have this feeling of being trusted when I am promoted to management.

It is very satisfying, and it will be very confident, and I feel that my burden has become heavier, because I am trusted enough by others, then my pressure will become very great, because I don't want to live up to the trust of others, so I will do my best to complete everything.

I will be very satisfied and happy in my heart, because I feel that I am a person worthy of being trusted, and then I may work harder to show myself in some things, so that I can live up to the trust of others, and let others see my more perfect side.

My personal feelings are as follows;

1. I feel very satisfied, because I am a trustworthy person in the eyes of others.

2. I feel very happy because I have been recognized by others, I will feel that I am very useful, and sometimes I will be needed by others.

There will be a great sense of satisfaction in my heart, making people feel that it is very worthwhile to do this, to be able to be trusted by others, this is the best feeling in the world, and there will be a kind of courage that makes you continue to do this kind of thing, and I am proud and proud for these two days.

I'm very happy, but at the same time I'm under a lot of pressure, if it's my friends and relatives who trust me, then I'll work harder, trust me not to disappoint them, if it's someone else, maybe I'll be less stressed, in short, I feel quite happy.

The feeling of being trusted is really very heartwarming, if you can win a person's trust in you, it is also a person's biggest evaluation of you, this evaluation is silent, but it must come from the heart, so when you meet such a person, you must cherish it.

It's a very happy feeling to be completely trusted! Each can care about each other all the time and can get the same response. Isn't that a very happy thing?

Once, I also had such a happy time, the relationship between mother and child was originally very good, but I still feel that the relationship between me and my mother is much better than the ordinary mother-child relationship, and I have reached complete trust.

That is, if you go to talk to someone about something, but others don't believe you, but what you tell them, they will believe you unconditionally, and when they are misunderstood, they will not go with the flow, they will feel very secure, as if they have a shoulder to rely on.