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1.The elderly are old, and it will be difficult to take care of children.

2.The elderly and the young have different parenting philosophies, and there may be more differences.

3.When the elderly help take care of the children, it is easy to bring some of the bad habits of the elderly themselves to the children.

4.The elderly are not as energetic and energetic as young people in educating their children, and they will have more difficulty in disciplining their children.

First of all, these children have not received the attention of their parents for a long time, so they have a lot of estrangement from their parents. In addition, children need correct guidance and education the most at this time, and the love of the elderly just hurts them.

There is no way to tutor the child's homework, so it is difficult for the child's grades to maintain better, and the child may develop very bad living habits, which is also very bad for the child's growth.

The advantage of handing over children to parents in rural areas is that migrant workers only have adults outside, and because they do not need to take care of their children, they choose to work more widely and save economic expenditure. And the child can be a companion with the elderly in front of the grandmother, so that the grandmother can enjoy the joy of family. However, children are brought by the elderly in rural areas or have many deficiencies, and the baby who has been separated from his parents for a long time will lack a sense of security, resulting in an inferiority complex.

There will be a child like that in our class, every time after school, the other students are as fast as the birds out of the cage out of the classroom, and these students slowly swallow the last one to leave the classroom every time, and then I asked him why he was not in a hurry to leave, asked a few times the child did not squeak, and then asked more he lowered his head and his eyes were red, I thought she had no parents, and then she cried and told me that he didn't want other students to see that he didn't have parents to pick him up, and in the child's heart, parents can't pick it up, He felt inferior to others.

Parents are their children's first teachers, and the harm of parents to children is lifelong. Leaving the child in the rural hometown, and the parents going out to work, for the child, is to replace the legal guardian, this kind of replacement, in terms of psychological state, is extremely harmful. Many children will have the experience of being abandoned by their parents at this moment, and there is a huge lack of sense of belonging.

It is definitely not possible for children to follow their grandmother's daily life, and the writers and elders understand this truth.

But in fact, no one can choose, life is compelling, and there is no way to hand over the child to grandparents. It's really normal to not be able to follow grandma, some grandparents cultural education children will also be very good, just feel that the child does not have the confidence of the child with the parents is slightly worse, the baby's feelings are long and the parents are estranged, the good child may be able to experience his parents in order to be able to them, the students who can't experience it will gradually rebel.

Doing so will develop some bad habits, and the advantage is that the child can have a stable environment where he can live and learn.

The advantage is that you can take good care of your children, and you can also let your children get the care of their parents, but the disadvantage is that they may lack money and may live very poor.

The advantage is that you can take good care of your children, so that your children can grow up healthily and will not become left-behind children. The disadvantage is that it may affect the economic conditions, and the child may not be able to have a good living environment.

Nowadays, young people are busy, and most of them choose to give their children to the older generation, but not all old people are suitable for taking care of children. The elderly who are not suitable for children have the following characteristics:

Elderly people who are not in good physical condition. It is an inevitable trend for people to decline in various physical functions when they get old, and some elderly people are in poor health and suffer from diseases. Taking care of children is a tiring job, not only can you not take good care of your children, but also may overwork yourself and aggravate your condition.

Elderly people who are in poor financial condition. The income of the elderly is meager, most of them rely on pensions or subsidies to maintain their lives, and if young people do not give financial support, the income of the elderly alone is not enough to raise children. Older people may be overly frugal with themselves or their children, reducing their quality of life.

An old man with a relatively fixed mind. Some elderly people are weak in the speed and acceptance of new things, and they are accustomed to using past life experience to take care of their children, and it is inevitable that there will be many misunderstandings, such as: children are sick and use some superstitious methods for children**.

Older people who are overly thoughtful may have difficulty communicating and may be more decisive and stubborn, which can easily bring bad influence to children.

Elderly people in poor mental state. Some elderly people are more lonely, lack of companionship, mental state, mentality is more pessimistic, such old people are easy to bring their negative emotions to their children, easy to bring childhood shadows to children.

I feel that honoring parents is also right, parents need money, can give their own salary to their parents part, and parents to help take care of children is also a very hard thing, today's social pressure is quite large, many young parents after giving birth, although very happy, but helpless, can only be forced to go to work, give the children to the older generation.

Although parents going to work can create better material conditions for their children, there will be various problems when children grow up without the company of their parents.

1.Bao Dad "experimented" with the baby, and the results were thought-provoking.

This netizen also handed over the baby to the elderly at home to take care of, from the birth of the child to the fact that he is now almost three years old, and the most contact is with grandparents every day. On this day, the family took the baby out shopping, and when they arrived at the mall, Bao Dad had a whim to see what his status was in the baby's mind. So it was filmed by Bao Ma**, Bao Dad and Grandpa opened their arms together to call the baby, but they didn't expect the baby to go straight to Grandpa after setting off.

Bao Dad looked at the baby smiling at the same time in his heart is inevitably bitter and lost, the happiness is that the baby is smiling so happily, and it is worth it to work hard outside, and the loss is that the baby and the grandfather are closer than their own father.

2.Po prefers to accompany people.

After reading the ** shared by this father, many netizens empathized and sighed that the life of adults is really incompatible, and if you put down your job, you can't give your children good living conditions, and if you work hard, you will have less company for your children. In fact, children's hearts are very simple, who is the person who accompanies them the longest day and night, the baby is naturally more willing to be close. Nowadays, the elderly are generally in the family to help take care of the children, so the children will be more emotionally close to and like the elderly, which is even more important than the blood relationship between the parents.

3.How to enhance the parent-child relationship.

Young parents who want to enhance the parent-child relationship with their babies can first start by sleeping with their babies. After the baby is born, it is sensitive to the smell and sound of the mother's body, so the familiar feeling can give the baby a strong sense of security. Its code orange is to give the child an "early morning morning kiss", and after the child wakes up, the first time to send sweet kisses and hugs to say goodbye to the child.

At the same time, we need to pay great attention to the nutrition of children. I will choose a good brand, the raw milk content is more than 70%, which can better care for the health of the child, and at the same time has more vitamins and minerals, which can better help the healthy growth of the child and meet the needs of the child at this stage.

The advantage of the elderly helping their children with children is that they can enjoy the joy of familyYou can be with your grandchildren or grandchildren every day, although it is hard to take care of children, but the fun of raising children is also self-evident. Many elderly people are also willing to help take care of children, even if they don't need to take children, they also hope to see children every time, children can really ** a lot of things, especially for the elderly, the kind of love between generations is stronger. Then the disadvantage of the elderly with children is that they need to sacrifice their time.

Raising children is a matter that requires a lot of time and physical strengthIt may bring too much fatigue to the elderly, and at the same time, they are unable to do some things that they wanted to do before retirement but did not do due to time problems, and may sacrifice some of the dreams of the elderly.

First, the elderly can enjoy the joy of family from the process of taking care of children

It is said that when people are old, they want to be able to be with their children and grandchildren every day, and in their opinion, one day together is one less day, and they hope to enjoy the joy of family in a limited time. For this reason, the elderly are very willing to take their children to play, and everyone must like it very much when they see their grandson or grandson, because they are small ones, which are extremely lovely. Then basically no old man can resist the cuteness of children, and every day with children will be more comfortable for them.

Second, taking care of children will consume a lot of time for the elderly

As we all know, it is not easy to take care of children, especially when children are very young, and they need to be supervised at all times. Basically, it is a year-round job, which may be unbearable for the body of the elderly, and some things that you want to do before retirement but have not been done due to time problems may also be temporarily put on hold because of children.

Therefore, the elderly and children can not only enjoy the feeling of family fun, but also need to spend a lot of time and energy, and consume physical fitness.

The advantage of helping children with children may be to reduce the burden on children, and children have more space and time to improve the quality of life in the future.

Helping your children take care of them can reduce the burden on them and make them feel more at ease. However, there will be a clear sense of backwardness in education or child management.

The old people help their children take care of their children, so that their children can reduce a certain burden in life, and they can let them go out to work, but the bad thing is that they can't dress up their children, they will dress their children very dirty, and they won't teach their children Mandarin.

The advantage of the elderly helping to take care of children is that they can let their parents work to earn money and maintain the daily expenses of the family, but the disadvantage is that it is easy to affect the body of the elderly, after all, it is a very hard thing to take care of children.