As a parent, how should you feel about your deaf child?

No matter how severe your baby's hearing loss is, he is still a child and follows the same developmental patterns as a normal child. Not only do they have the need to eat and drink, but they also have the need to play, play and learn. This need manifests itself not only in the development of language, but also in physical, intellectual, emotional and social aspects. It is a mistake to focus your attention and energy on your child's auditory language training and ignore your baby's developmental needs in other areas.

It is indeed a sad thing for a baby to be deaf. What your poor baby needs is more cuddling, touching, smiling, understanding and communication. But what you need to make up your mind is that you must not give in to your child's demands just because he is deaf, even if it is unreasonable. Obeying everything is bound to make a big mistake. In fact, your baby will do a lot of things, just lack the opportunity to perform. Therefore, in the process of raising and educating the baby, do not think only of the baby everywhere.

What not to do", and think more about him"What can be done"

Next, there is only one thing you have to do: create conditions that encourage your baby to explore, play, learn new knowledge, and boldly enjoy the joy of normal social life. Don't expect too much, the effect is often financially costly, unsatisfactory, and deafness for many reasons is impossible.

The most important thing is to take the right intervention early and go to a good ** center in time to participate in listening and language training.

Beijing Sounds of Heaven Listening and Language ** Center.

You have to adjust your mindset to teach children who are physically and mentally healthy.

Treat him like a healthy child. Early intervention, early language training. Equip your child with hearing aids in a timely manner, and teach your child to learn language with systematic and scientific language training methods.

For example: If your child is nearsighted and wears glasses, you won't ask such a question.

Ordinary state of mind. Don't feel inferior because your child is not good, and don't spoil your child excessively because of this defect.

Set a good example for your children, each child has their own shining point. Cultivate well.

Face up to your child's hearing problems and adjust to their best. Intensive emotional support. Establish a good parent-child relationship. Seek professional service.

Create a caring and understanding environment for children, don't lose your temper with your children at every turn, be good at observation in daily life, explore their inner world in an easy-to-accept way and by means of world macrojournalism, communicate and communicate with them in a way that they like to hear, and understand their thoughts and needs. Encourage children to go out of the house and socialize with normal children to cultivate their sense of social identity.

1.Seek medical attention as soon as possible: When a child is diagnosed with deafness and thus has a speech disorder, it is a huge blow for many parents.

At this time, you should confide your grief to your relatives, friends and medical staff, relieve your sorrow and anxiety, listen to the advice of medical staff calmly, choose the right hearing aid for your child as soon as possible, and carry out hearing and speech training as soon as possible, so that your child can integrate into the mainstream society as much as possible.

2.Interview successful parents: see how other deaf children learn to speak after wearing hearing aids, how they enter normal primary school, middle school or even university study, communicate with these parents, learn from their successful experience, learn to face their children with the right attitude and methods, you will build confidence and see the hope of success.

3.Pay attention to personality cultivation: We should cultivate and educate our deaf children as sound children, don't think about what they "can't do" at the cavity nucleus, always be vigilant, afraid of this and that, and take care of the child excessively.

It is necessary to think more about what children "can do", create conditions for them to explore, to play, let them go out of the family, socialize with other children, vestibular vertigo, develop various abilities in communication, and gradually develop good personality qualities.

4.Encouragement: After choosing hearing aids, be patient and loving to your child, observe every subtle change in your child's hearing, and give timely encouragement when your child has made a little progress.

Timely encouragement can reinforce your child's progress and increase their confidence in learning the language. Parents should avoid excessive tears and sadness in front of their children, let alone quarrel in front of their children, because deaf children are very observant, and changes in parents' emotions can easily cause psychological changes in deaf children.

With the development of science and the progress of society, more and more deaf children have become **. This fact shows that as long as parents make unremitting efforts, with the understanding, cooperation and support of medical personnel, teachers and society, the vast majority of deaf children can become deaf but not dumb, integrate into mainstream society, and grow into self-reliant people who are useful to their families and society.

Psychological and behavioral development disorders in deaf children are mainly manifested in the following aspects: 1. Emotions The manifestations of emotional development disorders in deaf children are: Many parents of deaf children have a kind of respect for their children.

Every young parent wants to have a healthy, intelligent child. One day, when a child is diagnosed with deafness, it is undoubtedly a huge blow to the parents, and it will have a significant impact on their psychological behavior and behavior. Whether the parents' psychological, rational reactions and behaviors are positive or negative, rational or irrational, and whether they are rational or irrational, are good for the development and future of deaf children.

Parents should create a harmonious and understanding family environment for them, avoid smiling, doting and unconditional accommodation, and communicate more with their children to make them feel warm and loved. Judge.

If this kind of situation happens to the child, you must love him more psychologically, and don't let him suffer more serious blows.

With the continuous improvement of social civilization, every pair of young parents hopes to have a healthy, intelligent child. One day, when a child is diagnosed with deafness, it is undoubtedly a huge blow to the parents, with a significant impact on their psychology and behavior. Whether parents' psychological, rational reactions and behavior are positive or negative, rational or irrational, are crucial to the development and future of deaf children.

Rational type in the face of deaf children, they are also sad, even painful, but they can quickly calm down, go to the hospital or ** institution for examination, diagnosis, if confirmed as sensorineural deafness, as soon as possible for the child to choose the right hearing aid, and with perseverance, with firm confidence, patience and perseverance, scientific listening and language training for children, and actively cooperate with medical staff, language training center teachers, and strive to make their children grow up like normal children. Many of the deaf children of such rational parents can enter normal primary and secondary schools and have excellent grades. Their children are fully integrated into mainstream society, and they are proud of their dedication to making their children deaf and not dumb.

They are a role model for many parents of deaf children.

The negative psychology of some parents of non-rational deaf children can be manifested as: aggression, regression, indifference, denial, stubbornness, anxiety, self-blame, etc. This kind of mentality and behavior is very detrimental to the growth of deaf children.

1.Dealing with misfortune in a simple and brutal way: the blow of the child's deafness leads to confrontational behavior between husband and wife, blaming each other, arguing, and even turning to aggression.

A small number of couples file for divorce or pass on their deaf children to their grandparents, and some parents who have lost their conscience abandon their children, making the already unfortunate situation of deaf children even more unfortunate.

2.Blindly and simply giving birth to a second child: After discovering that the child is deaf, the couple does not actively diagnose and treat, find out the cause, and provide genetic counseling to relevant medical personnel and experts, but blindly gives birth to a second child without guidance, due to the lack of basic eugenics knowledge, the second child may be deaf, which will cause great pain to the family.

3.At the same time of grief, they have a deep self-blame: they think that the child's deafness is a punishment and retribution for themselves, and it is their own fault, so they blindly spoil the child, which is manifested in the child's requirements to be obedient, giving excessive care, care and accommodation, resulting in the deaf child being timid, willful, disrespectful, selfish, and even aggressive.

This poor quality will bring great difficulties to the hearing and language training of deaf children after wearing hearing aids.

Parents should face the reality and try to improve their children's situation as much as possible.

Every child is an angel sent by God, and every parent wants their child to be healthy and healthy, but since God has let him come to you, there must be other arrangements, please be kind

Since Heaven has closed one window for him, it will open another door for him.

If your child is deaf, you can only face it calmly. Try to create conditions for your child to grow up happily.

The arrival of every child is the crystallization of the love of the parents, so in view of the deafness of the child, we should accept it in accordance with this way of living and living in the common sense.

How should parents cope with their children's deafness? And the reality of children. Fact. You're sure you have to face it. Find a way, if it's not good, find a way. Wear hearing aids or have cochlear implants.

How should parents deal with the most realistic statement that their children are remorseful and answer children? If it's okay, it's okay, face it, then you may have to face it normally, as a parent, for the children, what you should be able to say in this regard, if you want to be in the high bureau for his Bihui, you have to accept it.

Parents should first be positive about helping their children to carry out** and also need to help their children and encourage them.

In addition to facing the reality calmly, parents should actively take measures to help their children adapt to the external environment and enhance their own survival ability

Deaf, unable to hear any sound, unable to feel any birds singing and flowers, who is the most painful? Child, it's your child.

But is this disability self-inflicted? No, no. The child is the crystallization of the deep love between the parents, and embodies all the best expectations of the parents for their children.

As a parent, who doesn't want their children to be blue and blue? However, in the process of giving birth to new life, various uncontrollable factors cannot be intervened by humans, so it is inevitable that problems of one kind or another will occur.

When the problem is unavoidable and there is no way back, how should we deal with it?

1.First of all, parents must recognize that the child's deafness and disability are a foregone conclusion, and the child cannot hear or speak, which is enough to make the child live in a silent world and suffer.

Parents as the only support of children, there is no excuse to shirk responsibility, what parents can do is to wipe away tears, do not cry, to be strong, to be brave, to greet the child with a smile, to put their optimism in the child's eyes, so that the child can feel the beauty of the world through their own observation.

2.Although a child's deafness is a devastating thing, for the sake of the child's future, there is not much time left for parents to sigh and cry. Because parents must take action, find ways to help their children touch the outside world little by little, let their children feel the various sounds of nature that are fascinating, and help children slowly adapt to the environment, so as to enhance their strength to survive.

3.Parents need to go to the hospital to consult a doctor and take their children to do all kinds of ** training. It's a draining process, but who makes you a parent of your child?

Raising a new life is the unshirkable responsibility of every parent, and parents must tenaciously accompany their children to go on.

Of course, in modern society, scientific and technological achievements are changing with each passing day, various medical methods are emerging in an endless stream, and deafness technology has made great breakthroughs.

For example, installationCochlear implants, can help children hear the voice of their dreams, be able to really speak, get along with others, and communicate without obstacles.

In short, parents need to do everything they can to help their children overcome difficulties, improve their coping skills, and use external forces to add to the icing on the cake.

There's always more ways than difficulties, right?

In the face of the fact that the child is a deaf child, I think it is indeed difficult for parents to accept this reality, but we must accept the reality in order to better help the child grow up happily.

And it is the second floor itself, the child will be weak and inferior, as a parent to face these things bravely, and then educate the child to get out of this predicament with the child.

Parents should face the reality of deaf children head-on. Because the child's ears can't hear, mom and dad must accept this reality and give the child the greatest help. Hearing aids or medical treatment. Carry out**.