What should I do if my sister is nineteen years old and doesn t talk to her family much

At the age of 19, when he reached the age of rebellion, he had his own thoughts, and if he didn't talk to his family, his family could enlighten him more.

My sister is similar to yours, she should have grown up and has her own ideas, and many things don't make sense at home, so maybe the family will talk less.

I think you should find out why your sister didn't talk to the family. What's the reason, have a good chat with my sister, go out for a walk together, and have a good chat when you climb the mountain. You can make it clear, proper enlightenment, right?

You should tell your sister that she should be cheerful and discuss anything with the family.

I think it's very likely that my sister has her own thoughts in her heart, so she doesn't want to talk to her family too much.

In this case, there is no good friend, and the solution to everything is to find a good friend who can chat with her for a long time, and look up and not look down to see that kind of good friend. It is also better to live in a group dormitory, depending on the choice of the family.

If you find that her symptoms are more serious and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is recommended that you go to a psychiatrist for consultation in person.

I have a male friend who is the same, the best friend chases the girl he likes, and then he changes, really becomes very powerful, and then a few years go by, and he doesn't contact our good friends anymore, let alone make friends like before, so it's better to ask my sister why.

Some time ago, I heard my best friend say that her sister didn't talk to her family much for a while. In the end, my best friend and her mother asked the reason, saying that her sister was afraid to communicate with people, whether it was family members or outsiders, and later went to see a psychiatrist, and the doctor said that the reason for her fear of the outside world was because she lacked trust in anyone and everything, and suggested that she should show her more positive things, go out for a walk, look at the scenery, try to create opportunities to communicate with people, contact positive things first, and not talk to bad people and her in advance. Personally, I believe that values and attitudes towards life need to be accumulated by social practice, or by self-regulation.

You wait to see if she is angry because of someone or something in the family, and you don't force her to rebel, after a long time, his cuteness will disappear. If the originally cheerful person should be persuaded, who has not sulked.

Your sister's current situation is very similar to having some psychological disorders, and having some thoughts about being noticed by people around her during adolescence is a characteristic of this age, but it is necessary to pay attention to the impact on normal life.

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1. Spoil her, play with her, like her own child, my classmate and her brother are 23 years old, my brother is the uncle's family to her family, because her parents have been missing for many years after marriage and have no children, so when she has her, it is very unexpected, no one has thought of it. My classmate was raised like a child by her brother since she was a child, because she was 4 years old behind her nephew, and when her brother came to see her off when she went to school, we all thought it was her father. My classmate gets along very well with her brother, and she is looking for his brother in her studies, and her brother helps to check things like falling in love, and her father is more like a grandfather, because of the age difference, basically her father laughs and argues that her parents don't care much about her, and her brother is in charge.

My brother is like taking his own children, others say that my brother is pre-studying in advance with a baby, my classmate and her brother have a deep relationship, and then her brother died of cancer, and my classmate cried like a tear......ful person2. Help parents share the pressure and coax the doll to play My classmate said that her eldest brother often took her to play when she was a friend, she was the light bulb of the eldest brother and sister-in-law, and the eldest brother and sister-in-law doted on her very much, just like their own children. There is so much age difference, in fact, it is better to get along, I am 5 years old apart from my sister, when I was a child, the two of us often had conflicts, no one let anyone, I always feel that my sister came to rob me of a lot of things, my parents' love for her, a lot of things were given to me before, and now I have to give her half, and many times my parents will say this, she is a sister, you are a sister, you let her, in addition, I have to take her to play, she is my follower, I go to**, she will follow**. And at that time, my sister always said, sister, you don't take me to play, I told my parents to go and let my parents beat you ......At that time, I wanted to be like a sister I hated, maybe I was very young at that time, if the two of us are 20 years apart, then there is no need to say anything, I rely on her for everything, I must take her to play, because there is nothing to grab at this age, everything is for her, I can't spoil her too late......Brother and sister is fate, thank God for sending this 20-year-old little sister to our house, a son and a daughter, our family has made a good one, my parents are happy, and I am also happy.

Let's play with my sister, it's not easy to be 20 years old, thank my parents for bringing me a little sister, how lucky it is!

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Summary. My dear, my sister doesn't count when she speaks, it may be that my sister has not established a concept of right and wrong, and she has not taken what she has said to heart and needs to fulfill her promises, maybe because her sister is too young, we have to educate him that what her sister said to herself is to fulfill her promises, and we must do what we say.

My sister doesn't talk much, what should I do?

My dear, my sister doesn't count when she speaks, but the big disadvantage is that my sister has not established a concept of right and wrong, and she has not said the omen that Bu Fangrent has said, and she needs to fulfill her promises, probably because her sister is too young, we have to educate him that his sister has to fulfill his promises to what he has said, and we must do what we say.

Honesty is also one of the contents of the core values of socialism, which needs to be abided by by the people of the whole country, you are a good social moral norm that makes the rent belong to me frankly, and we must start from a child, so we should go to raise a sister, and we should count the number from the ** words, and we can't be a person who is untrustworthy.

If you don't keep your word, no one will trust you in the future, and we will have friends at that time.

It is rare for younger siblings to have such a big age difference from themselves. But if that's the case, then I'm going to pay your parents first and foremost. As a big brother or big sister, I sometimes take my younger brother out, but if you are afraid of misunderstanding, you can try to explain in advance that this is your younger brother or sister, or simply take the child out less.

If you are relatively young, and you don't have a lot of living space, and you are not married, you should try to bring your younger brother to your work circle as little as possible, because colleagues may not know each other as well as friends, so it is inevitable that some people will misunderstand that this is your child. And once this idea spreads in the company, it can make a big difference if you want to find someone who is in the same company as you. After all, people are terrible, and there is nothing wrong with paying more attention.

Except for the company, you don't need to care about this kind of thing in front of familiar people, because everyone knows everything, so they know each other very well. You can introduce your younger siblings to others, which can also promote mutual affection.

Of course, as the eldest brother, you are not obliged to take care of the children, and the children should still be taken care of by their parents a little more, which is also very beneficial to their growth. In fact, the most difficult thing is to get along with each other when they grow up, because there is a gap of 20 years, and the generation gap between them is still not small, so if you want to promote the relationship between you, you still have to communicate more when he is young. You know, children also have memories, so even if there is a generation gap between you when you grow up, it will not make your relationship fade.

Anyway, this kind of brother and sister relationship is really enviable, indicating that I also want to have a younger brother and sister.

Don't care too much about other people's opinions, you can explain it if you want to explain, it's really tiring, you don't have to think about these situations at all, there is no practical meaning.

There's no way around it, but don't worry too much, after all, people who know themselves and know themselves well must know the real situation, and you can properly ignore the eyes of others, otherwise life will be very tiring.

If it's a misunderstanding from someone you know, you can explain it to them privately, but if it's a misunderstanding from a passerby, it doesn't matter, as long as you know what's going on.

Then try to go out with them as little as possible, or when you go out together, you dress younger yourself, and look ten years younger, otherwise there is no better way.

It's good to explain the misunderstanding, if people are still gossiping, then just ignore him and live his own life. I have a younger brother and sister who is 29 years younger than me, so I think they are cute.

After the misunderstanding, explain it to others! I believe that most people will still understand, after all, there are still many people who choose to have another child after many years.

I should explain it to everyone more, and don't have too much intimate contact with the two of them when you go out.

Let others say this casually, there is no need to explain too much, and there is no need for your family to explain anything to each other.

If your sister doesn't like to talk, you can take your sister out to talk, maybe your sister is more recognizable, so she's shy and reluctant to talk, but it should be much better with you.

My sister doesn't like to talk, so you try to communicate with her as much as possible, and then guide her to speak independently and give feedback on her own inner thoughts.

The most important thing for parents to educate their children is to be patient, let them do what they can, exercise their self-reliance, increase their self-confidence, and try to let them talk to strangers.

You should always pay attention to her life, know where she goes every day, understand what she likes and dislikes, and communicate with her more often to help her be cheerful and lively.

She may be that kind of character, people are different, and you can't ask your sister to be the same as you just because you're cheerful. It's good to grow up.