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Children must be forced to learn to be independent and have an independent sense of thinking, only in this way can they have a good hoe in the future.

1. Teach children to do things independently, and allow children to do badly, because any perfect thing is a transition from bad to good. It is precisely because of the imperfections that the child has more room for improvement. 2. Teach children to deal with setbacks, and life is to accumulate experience from small setbacks again and again.

In fact, setbacks cover many aspects, parents should learn to guide rationally, you can give your child advice, but please don't directly intervene to complete it for him. Giving children the opportunity to think and act independently, and letting him face it alone, is the best way to show parental love.

As parents, we should correctly guide our children's ability to endure hardships, don't tell them that money is hard-won, and let them accept and adapt to an environment without money. When children go from the family to the school, in fact, they will experience some failures, especially from the campus to the society, and they may not be able to accept it naturally, after all, they may not be able to overcome the love of their parents since childhood.

As the saying goes:In old age, all honor and money are fleeting, and an unsuccessful child is enough to make your evening miserable.

There is one thing that is indispensable in a child's education.

That is the education of enduring hardship.

Especially if there is a boy in the family, this is even more indispensable.

Because a man who is afraid of hardship is destined to be irresponsible, you don't blame him for having no sense of responsibility.

It's really that he doesn't have an iron shoulder, what do you use to bear it?

If you can't endure hardship, after all, you will make the people around you suffer and yourself will suffer. And the impact is lifelong.

When I saw a neighbor around me, I was filled with emotion!

Neighbor Xiao Li is the only son in the family, he has been pampered by his parents since he was a child, what he wants, his parents are never reluctant to let their son suffer a little, he can be described as the little prince of the family! But parents are far from knowing that their behavior has become a stumbling block on the road of their children's life in the future.

In this way, Xiao Li became irresponsible, unresponsible, timid and cowardly. After growing up and entering the society, I always retreat from work, have no sense of responsibility and responsibility, and have not been valued by leaders and are always excluded by colleagues.

Xiao Li always complains about why everything he does is not going well, whether it is life or work. Yes, it was the way he was educated since childhood that made him what he is today.

Xiao Li is just a microcosm of life, and there are still many Xiao Li in today's society. I have never endured hardships since I was a child, and when I encounter major rights and wrongs, I evade and retreat, and I can't bear a little blow.

Today's young people can't think about it when they encounter problems, Zhang San jumped off the building today, and Li Si jumped off the bridge tomorrow. They only thought about freeing themselves, but they never thought about how painful it was for the white-haired people to send the black-haired people to the white-haired people who had worked hard to raise them.

Looking back, the parents have a lot of responsibility for making all this happen, and it is their unbearability to let go of it, which leads to the child's poor mental endurance. Everything is too smooth for them, and even the slightest blow will make them think of suicide. They don't know that this society is so cruel, and people will inevitably encounter many ups and downs in their lives, and it is impossible for anyone to have smooth sailing.

So, parents wake up and let their children learn to face some problems on their own, so that they can understand how difficult life is!

Let the child understand the pain of not having money. Let children know the pain of learning. When you fail, let your child know the pain of failure.

It will make the child more productive. Parents should not help when children encounter setbacks, when children encounter difficulties that cannot be solved, they should let children solve them by themselves, parents should not interfere, when children face economic pressure, children should find ways to solve this problem, and children should be allowed to suffer these hardships to become very productive.

Eat"Lack of money"The bitterness and eating"Learn"The bitterness and eating"Failed"Only those who have suffered these hardships will let the children know how to cherish their current time, make the children fall in love with learning, and train the children in advance to make them more sensible.

Parents should not spoil their children too much, and let them suffer a little bit appropriately, so that the children will be more productive in the future. Parents should teach their children to learn to overcome setbacks and overcome difficulties, so that children can learn to temper their strong will, and parents should also take their children to nature, accept the wind and rain, let their children exercise their physique, enhance their physique, and let their children participate in some labor, so that their children can get labor exercise.

1. Eat"Lack of money suffers"in order to brave the world. One of them is"The bitterness of making money"。Many parents begin to educate their children on how to manage money or invest when their children are very young, so that their children can understand the hardships of their parents making money. Only when you can make money can you brave the world.

2. Eat"The bitterness of failure"to succeed. Many children will be afraid of failure, and see failure will not be willing to do this again, Bai Yansong once said to his son, the exam is not allowed to take the first place, because the first child is very tired in the heart, but if little by little experience failure and then get to the top, then the child will know how to rise in the next failure, so only eat"The bitterness of failure"in order to succeed in the end.

3. Eat"The bitterness of reading"In life, there are many children who begin to drop out of school after completing nine years of compulsory education, and go out of the society to work at a young age. But many children don't know that although reading can not directly bring us material wealth, but it can give us more choices, but if there is no hardship in reading, then children have few choices at work. So only eaten"The bitterness of reading", so that children can see the scenery farther away.

The hardships of learning, the hardships of being lonely, and the hardships of being single are all essential for him to experience on the road to growth in the future, so let the child exercise as soon as possible to have a future in the future.

It allows children to face the difficulties encountered in learning and communicating with others independently, so that they can analyze human nature more clearly in the future and slowly make themselves more productive in the future.

When encountering some things, let the child be able to deal with it independently, and it is also very ruthless to the child, let the child slowly hone and deal with his own things, and the child will definitely be very promising, because such a child is very capable of handling things on his own.

Far-sighted parents must let their children suffer from reading, and let go appropriately to make them more independent. You should also let them suffer some hardships in life, and you can't spoil them very much.

I think we must let children suffer from lack of money, let children suffer from life, perseverance and study, so that children will be more excellent.

For example, it will not disrespect children's interests and hobbies, will let children do things independently, and can encourage children not to give up

I think so too, so don't be reluctant to let your child suffer. If you don't suffer some hardships at home, the hardships in society will be even heavier. And it's not good for the child's ability to bear.

Not entirely agree. The so-called hardship is to let children develop some good qualities, and children can live better with these qualities. Parents should teach their children the ability to face pain and not to spoil them blindly. It is useless to simply endure hardships without gain.

I think so, I think this sentence makes sense, sometimes it is good to let children suffer a little. And these sufferings cannot be called "suffering", I think this is a kind of growth, but also a kind of self-improvement.

That's true. I think we should let the child suffer from an early age, so that the world can't bully him, or it's hard to make him feel wronged. This kind of education is a bit like Guo Degang's education method for his son, which is very good.

If you dote on your child from an early age, your child will face greater setbacks when she grows up, so you should educate your child well from an early age, so that your child's life path will go more smoothly.

I couldn't agree more. Because a child can't suffer from his parents, then the world will suffer more for him, and if he has seen the suffering from his parents, then he will be more relaxed when facing the world.

Yes, this sentence is very correct, because the world is very cruel, and children must have the ability to resist pressure after being born in society, so parents should cultivate the character of being able to endure hardships when their children are young.

I think this statement is correct, I will not deliberately let my child suffer, but when my child encounters difficulties, I can't help them solve all of them, I want to let them solve problems by themselves.

I also agree with this statement, because it will give the child a higher level of insight and make him live a happier life.

Parents or elders must not be too cautious and spoil their children, otherwise they will simply ruin them. Every parent is actually reluctant to let their children suffer, but some hardships are what they must experience, and these hardships are the nourishment for their growth, and without the nourishment of these nutrients, it is easy to appear "deformed". In society, they have to pay the price for their lack of these difficulties, and their parents will eventually retort because of their own improper education.

Because I had such an example on the side of Sakura, I was very miserable for myself and my family, and the family relationship was tense.

On the other hand, those elders who suffered a lot when they were young, they pay great attention to educating their children, and do not spoil their children at all, so they teach their children to their children in a subtle way through the precious experiences that they have exchanged for suffering.

If you want your children to grow up as parents, it can be said that you must be very sharp in family education, and many parents actually only see some superficial benefits. Ignoring some of the practices inherent in children, Bai Yansong said in the education concept of all families that the child must have suffered in the process of growth, so that he can go on the road to success more smoothly, if the child is born as a flower in the greenhouse, the child may not be able to endure hardship, and can not withstand some wind and rain in the society.

During the period when children go to school, we should not think that learning is the child's task, in fact, for children at this stage of school, it is their responsibility to work hard to do a good job in learning. But as ordinary children, in addition to studying every day, they also have to do some hardships that they should not bear at their age, and it is usually very difficult in the process of going to school, usually they have to go over mountains and rivers to reach school, but the children in the city do not know the hard work of these children's learning, so the children in the city, they do not know how to enjoy the resources of their current happiness.

Therefore, in the face of children's education, there are many common topics, there are many parents, they just love their children very much, do not want their children to be able to suffer a little in life, but want their children to adapt to the society faster, in fact, things are not both. If you want your child to develop more easily in society, you should avoid spoiling your child and let your child learn how to endure hardships from an early age.

Children who can often endure hardships are more likely to know how to be grateful, grateful to their parents, and grateful to some people and things in society that are helpful to them. No matter what they do, they are very courageous and confident, because they have been independently exercised in life, so don't let the children grow up in spoiling, you must let go of the exercise, and the children endure hardships.

Be self-reliant, do what you can do by yourself, don't be afraid of hardship, don't be afraid of tiredness.

This is what must be done in the current society to educate children, because today's children are more pampered, there is only one child in the family, even if it is two children, the parents take care of them very well, it does not mean that they are all good, but they take care of their lives very well, and they don't have to worry about many things, they will feel very relaxed, in fact, this kind of education method is not right.

Why is it said that the previous child was very sensible and would think about his parents no matter what he did, it was because he could see the hard work of his parents and feel it, just like saying that the previous parents were very busy and had no time to take care of the children, and it was not like they cared about his life now, and in most cases, the children had learned to cook and do some things by themselves at the age of eight, and they were also able to help their parents wash clothes. Now children can't do it at all, every child is a treasure at this age, even if it is to wash socks, let their parents wash it.

If you want your child to grow up, the most important thing for parents is to let him suffer the hardships of life, let him do his own things well, and also help the family to do some things, but also let him suffer some of the hardships of human feelings, let him feel frustrated, so that in the future life can solve the problem naturally, don't always help him solve, because everyone is born to experience these things, if the parents do it for him, then he does not have the ability to bear, or has no ability to be responsible for the future family.