Is it okay to find a man who is very different from your own education level?

Updated on culture 2024-06-12
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    People in today's society are very realistic.

    You think he can go with you for the rest of your life, then you don't care about the level of literary language and so on.

    You can also talk to him about the game, and also find you a spare time to pass the time.

    People are self-motivated, and when he is in the mood that day, he slowly begins to read and fall in love with books, so that you don't have someone to communicate with, don't you?

    If you don't like him, don't bother. Why bother to create unnecessary harm to the other party.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There are pros and cons. The advantage is that you can take care of your family life. The disadvantage is that there is little common language, and it is impossible to speak a piece.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Find a man who is far away from your own education level, I think if you are looking for a slightly higher level than yourself, but if you want to have a lower education level than you, indeed, I don't think it's particularly good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It won't be that good, it's too far away and there will be no common topic.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As long as people with different views are not suitable for marriage, even if they are married, there are contradictions everywhere, and the education level is not the main reason, and the high level of education is not necessarily noble morality.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If this man is good to you, I don't think the level of education is very important, just depend on what you think.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This shouldn't belong to the right family, then you should have to find someone with a similar level of education, who can't live later, talk to each other about certain problems, and definitely go!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It is not good to find a man who is far from your own education level to marry, because you may have no common topics to talk about, and communication will not be smooth at that time, which is not good for the relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think it's suitable to be together, after all, the gap in education will lead to very few common circles, and if there is no common topic, it will make both couples physically and mentally more exhausted, if the man really likes her, then it's best to learn to let go, wishing her happiness may be the best stubbornness that really likes her, if the woman still has a good impression of the man, you can try to get along for a while to understand what kind of character he is, and education and liking are not a conflicting thing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think the difference in the cultural level of the two people is too big for them to be together. In particular, male students have a relatively low educational background, which means that there will not be too high-paying positions when looking for a job in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The great cultural difference between the two people will inevitably bring about ideological estrangement.

    The amount of reading has an important impact on the success of a person. We often say that there is poetry and books in the belly. Reading can make a person more confident and confident.

    They certainly see the world differently, and this difference is even more pronounced when they communicate with people who don't read. If two people as a couple can't resonate ideologically, it is also not good for the establishment of intimacy.

    Although there are barriers, love can bridge them.

    Love is the most beautiful human emotion, and the great power of love is enough to create many miracles. Maybe two people have different interests and react differently to the same thing, but so what? No matter how big the difference is, it's not as big as a sincere I love you.

    The world in our minds is different, but we also have the world in reality. Towering mountains, beautiful sunsets, gorgeous aurora ......The natural environment is indeed the same shock to the soul. It is not a good choice for two people to seek common ground while reserving differences.

    Whether one person is willing to compromise for another.

    The topic talks about the big cultural differences between the two people, so do the two people want to try to bridge this difference? Culture is not innate, it is acquired through learning. Since there are differences, the other side needs to work harder.

    Raise your own cultural level to the same level as the other party, a good relationship will really make a person grow.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If there is a big difference in the education level of two people, and the male student has a low education, I think that as long as their personalities are relatively harmonious, they can be together. In addition, they can also form a complementary relationship, and the boy can do more housework and spend more time supporting the girl's work and career, which is also very good. In fact, as long as two people have the same language and common interests and hobbies, there is no problem to be together, after all, get married and live hard, live hard, be stable and happy together, and if the income is too different, it may have a little impact.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is a big difference in the education level of two people, they can be together, but they are not necessarily suitable for being together, and the education level is not the only condition;

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Personally, I think that there is too much difference in education between two people, and they are not suitable for being together, because his ideological outlook and values are different, and it is possible that there will be a certain misjudgment in communication, and they cannot understand each other, so the ancients said that they should be right, which has a certain truth, if it is possible under special circumstances, if the man's family is very rich and powerful, and the woman is greedy for these things, she may be willing to marry the man, but the woman can only be wronged, and can only enjoy the enjoyment of money and material, It may not be possible to achieve anything satisfactory in terms of communication, but the above is my personal opinion.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There is a big gap in the education level of two people, not suitable for being together, there is always a gap, there is a generation gap in the level of education, well, the consciousness is not the same, it is difficult to communicate, he is already an adult, his quality has been fixed, the habit has been developed into self-motivation, and the work ability has been stereotyped, so it is not suitable to be together, and it is necessary to find a person who matches the three views to get along more easily and happily.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think that if the cultural level gap is too large, it is actually not suitable to be together, because there is no common topic, and values, money and so on. It's not a very good fit. That is to say, it is rare to find a common language, and feelings.

    It is necessary to have a common hobby concept and to communicate together, and without communication, it is basically difficult to maintain.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is a big difference in the education level of the two people, and if the male student has a low education, I think as long as their personalities are more harmonious, they can be together. In addition, it can also complement each other, boys can do more housework, and it is also very good to support girls' work and career.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If there is a big gap between the education level of two people and the male education is low, I think that as long as the two people's personalities are more harmonious, they can be together, and the other two people can still form skin care boys can do housework, more time to support you, and the new job and career are also very good. As long as two people have a common language, common hobbies and interests. I think there is no problem with the cultural gap, after all, just get married, live a life, live together, and be stable and happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The cultural gap between the two people is very large, and it is not suitable to be together. The cultural gap determines the communication and understanding between two people, so it is difficult to get to know each other even when they are together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is a big difference in the education level of two people, but each other's three views are the same, so they can also be together in terms of education level, it can only be said that the level of IQ is different, but emotional intelligence will not be affected.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Everyone has their own temperament, and getting along with others has to go through a run-in period, and only after the run-in can we achieve a comfortable and comfortable situation; If the run-in is not good, it can only be a shot and two scattered. If in the process, both people strive to change themselves and accommodate each other, such a run-in is effective.

    Although two people have different cultural backgrounds, through change, they can reach a common understanding and alignment on another common hobby, so as to compensate for the shortcomings caused by cultural differences. In this way, two people living together can live in harmony and live happily.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is a big gap between the education level of the two people, the male has a low education, and whether he is suitable for being together depends on the specific situation, and in general, it should not be very suitable. But if the woman doesn't care, the two people have common interests and hobbies, can understand each other, tolerate each other, and help each other. It's okay to be together this way.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is a big difference in the cultural level of two people, and it is not suitable to be together, because of cultural differences, there will be problems in communication between two people in the future, and there will be many opinions on the views and understanding of things, which is easy to cause contradictions. Will quarrel.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Personally, I think it is inappropriate, because the gap in education is too large, which will lead to the difference of three views, and two people will have a lot of disagreements in daily life, and will not understand each other, which is very unfavorable to the emotional development of two people. So I don't think it's suitable for two people with a big difference in education to be together. To sum up, look.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Not suitable, this is a personal suggestion, cultural differences will cause you to have too many differences in your married life, and over time it will affect family harmony.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is a big difference in the cultural level of two people, it is not suitable to be together, and you can be intimate when you fall in love, but in the future marriage, you will encounter many problems because of the large cultural gap, so it is not recommended to be together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If two people have the same language and common interests and hobbies, there is no problem to be together, after all, get married and live hard, live hard, be stable and happy together, and if the income is too different, it may be a little affected.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is a big gap in the education level of the two couples, and the relative education of the male students is low, in this case it is not suitable for the two people to be together, because it is difficult to have a common language, even if it is impulsive, but there will often be certain contradictions and estrangements in the future life of the two people.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If two people are together, if the level of education is very different, I don't think it has a lot to do with it, as long as two people really love each other, and each other is willing to give their sincerity, in this case, education is just an auxiliary, not a necessary thing.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's also possible to be together. One is that girls can be teachers, so that boys can work hard to make up for the gap with themselves, and the other is that boys can take on more housework and free up time for girls to read more books.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Education level can not block love, if the difference in education is relatively large, but two people can talk together and have similar personalities, although the man has a low education, but he is down-to-earth and hardworking, and his character is good, and he can be together. Academic qualifications are not the only measure of a person.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Not suitable, because the educational gap is too large, which may cause two people to have inconsistent views, and there will be few common topics.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hello friend, I hope mine can help you.

    I will fall in love with someone who is less educated than me, and I will even enter the palace of marriage! A low level of education does not mean that a person has a low IQ or ability. Some people may not be good at reading or verbalism, but they are very good at other areas.

    Therefore, we should not only focus on a person's cultural level and ignore the advantages of other aspects.

    I value the following qualities more than my education level:

    Character, that is, the moral character of a person. This point cannot be seen in a short period of time, and it takes a relatively long period of time to observe and discover. Good character is a scenery of life. Quite attractive to people. I think the first thing to look at when choosing a mate is this.

    Self-motivated. If a person is not living well now, it does not mean that he will always be like this, as long as you are self-motivated, your future has infinite possibilities. If your partner is not self-motivated, what can you expect from the future with an end in sight.

    Physiognomy is the manifestation of a person's external image, and a beautiful face has a natural attraction to everyone, even men and women. A person who is beautiful (or handsome) has a natural self-confidence, and all that is shot on his (or her face) is an envious gaze.

    Filial. Your partner is good to you on the one hand, and on the other side depends on whether he is good to your family or not. As the saying goes, it's very simple to be good to you, but to spend energy and be really good to your family is the key to seeing whether a person is filial.

    Talent is a person's ability to do things and get along with others. Talented people can make greater contributions to the joint construction of families who will be late to search, and can build families into richer and happier families.

    In fact, choosing a mate is not only based on the criteria, because many people's standards are completely concerned about the characteristics of the other party, such as appearance, self-motivation, etc., but if you think about it carefully, no matter how good the characteristics of the other party are, if you can't get along with you and can't meet your needs, then he may not belong to you, and you may not be happy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    First of all, I believe that love should not be limited by the level of education, because love is not based on someone's knowledge level, but on the basis of mutual heart. Therefore, I don't decide whether or not to associate with people because of their level of education.

    Secondly, the level of education has a certain impact on the communication and exchange between the two people's tombs. If there is a huge difference in the education level of two people, then in the process of communication, it is inevitable that there will be misunderstandings or communication barriers. However, if two people truly love each other, then these problems are only temporary, and as long as both parties are willing to work together to develop each other's understanding and communication skills, I believe that these problems can be overcome.

    Finally, I opened a membership because I hope that through the privilege of membership, I can learn more about each other, and through careful communication, I can understand each other's inner world and thoughts, and then establish a deeper emotional connection. At the same time, opening a membership is also a kind of respect and sincerity for the other party, in this way, the other party can feel my sincerity and intentions.

    In short, for me, education level is not the determining factor in my choice of partner, I pay more attention to the other person's character, character and inner world. As long as both parties truly love each other and are willing to work hard together to manage their relationship, I believe that any difference in cultural level can be overcome.

Related questions
7 answers2024-06-12

Learn about the general life experience of your parents, the major events before and after marriage, and so on. Be more considerate of my parents, don't ask my parents to understand my experience and thoughts, they really want to understand, so I have to say what I have said a few times more times (the attitude should be good, the tone should be sincere, and I should be in a good mood - speak patiently, communicate - very patient, be able to explain and communicate with my parents patiently) It is very difficult to talk to my parents (I have to say 2 or 3 times patiently for some things before they can barely understand).

27 answers2024-06-12

I remember when I was a sophomore in high school, there were several relatives in my family, including my eldest uncle, my uncle, and my third brother. My uncle is a year older than me, and I was very embarrassed when we first met, and you said that I had never seen it, and suddenly an elder about the same age as you came, which was really a bit overwhelming. My mom told me in advance that I had to be called, and this was my uncle. >>>More

8 answers2024-06-12

Hello, the choice of life determines the fate of the future, I am a man, I suggest you find a person who loves yourself, because the person you love does not necessarily love you, especially men generally have poor concentration, and they do not know how to cherish the people who love themselves, and even say it badly, looking for the man they love, once the man changes his mind, it will be very disappointing, of course, it is not absolute, because the man he loves can also love himself very much, just a few. >>>More

17 answers2024-06-12

I think it's better for women to find a man who can take care of themselves. It doesn't matter if you're younger than you, but if you're younger than you, it's really hard to be a woman with a small man. >>>More

13 answers2024-06-12

You might as well find a library and turn off your communication tools.