What should I do if I change it? I don t want to hurt such a good girl, tell me what to do?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-20
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Maybe she's a **;

    Maybe it's really a pure and kind weak girl, if it's the latter, such a relationship can't stand up in the cruel real society, choose the time to leave, be worthy of others, be worthy of yourself, and start and finish well.

    No matter how unforgettable it is, it can't be compared with the pace of time, and in the end, only the occasional fragments remain.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Your temper is similar to mine, and if you're going to be with her, you're going to change your temper, and if not, you're looking for one! But I can tell you for sure, you will regret it, you don't follow my old path!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you like her, don't hurt her.

    If it's just a momentary sympathy, it will only cause more damage.

    But her crying makes you feel heartache, and I think you like her a little bit.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Ask your own heart, are you suitable, do you have feelings, if you say negative, the long pain is better than the short one, and the deeper the pain, the greater the damage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ignoring it is really the best policy.

    In the end, he himself will not fight against you if he finds it boring. The more soft you are on him, the more he will use this trick to make you feel irresponsible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because this girl loves me And if I don't marry him, I'm afraid of breaking my mother's heart Two ways One: Don't think clearly before getting married, don't get married in a daze, this is not a tragedy for you alone

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You like that woman to take home and live in a room, not afraid that she won't leave, obviously cheating.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you don't want to hurt, you have to work hard to do it!! To act and not just think!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't want to sip honey, please do not climb the branches. Not wanting to be different from reality, often hurting others when you don't know it! Only by truly treating others as oneself and thinking about him everywhere. Others will be hurt less, and damage is always inevitable!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then try not to do anything to hurt her! You won't be better off hurting her in the end!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Didn't want to hurt him. So what did you do in the first place?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Cut through the mess quickly, and say it as soon as possible, although you are reluctant to hurt her.

    But you have to be clear: the longer you drag, the deeper the damage!!

    If you're not ready to talk about it seriously, don't squeeze the trend, it's not good for others or yourself. Expect you to be accountable to others and yourself!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Break up now! Be resolute and resolute, long pain is better than short pain!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Who's to blame, it can only mean that you are all impulsive.

    What you do is brave enough to bear the consequences.

    Don't give yourself excuses.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since it's a little sister, that's not good.

    If you don't like her, is there someone else?,I'm telling you, I'll like her slowly.。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Immediately it broke clean.

    That's it. Then drag the mud and water.

    Will give girls fantasies.

    Hurt her longer.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's better to make this kind of thing clear earlier. The more you delay, the more troublesome it will be.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Make it clear, don't drag it out, or it will be uncomfortable for both parties.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ignore her, don't talk to her, avoid her.

    I also treat the girl who used to have a crush on me and I didn't like it, be ruthless, don't give her a chance at the beginning, and don't hurt her more deeply in the future because of a momentary soft-heartedness.

    Ignore her, she'll be sad for a while, but she'll adjust herself. Otherwise she won't forget you for a short time.

    It should work, but when I see the girl who has a crush on me, I feel a little guilty, and I was glared at by the girl who had a crush on me - I did feel sorry for her at that time.

    But think about it rationally, if there is no result, it is better not to start.

    By the way, LZ, what disease do you have?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Me too, I can't hear it, there are normal people and beautiful women who like me very much, and they want to get engaged to me and get married, and I don't want to hurt her. I really don't know what to do.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Alas, brother, you have touched me so much.

    Tell her to just be good friends.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Rejection will hurt her, and if you don't get hurt, she won't love you anymore.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Tell her your problem directly, if you will.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There's a kind of love that's moving, there's a kind of courage that's called rejection, it's going to give up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not good for you to be like this ... Why didn't you understand it clearly? Really.

    If you talk about solving it, you just have to stay away from her.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Just politely said, "It's hard for us to have a result due to your family's genetic disease, I'm very sorry, I don't want to hurt you, but I can't lie to you."

    Just say it, she may be depressed at first.

    But it's better than she is sinking deep, and you tell her again!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let's just say you have a family genetic disease

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you just can't bear to hurt.

    If she doesn't have an impact on your life and work either.

    So wouldn't it be good to promise her to be friends first?

    If it's as you say, she's simple.

    Then her weak shoulders will not be able to withstand the blow.

    Feelings are sometimes cultivated, and you may not be moved by certain things and actions.

    So it's good to be friends first.

    You could say we don't know enough.

    There are two possibilities for a man to be unable to bear to hurt a certain woman.

    1. Men don't hate this girl.

    2. Men are very kind.

    Either way, I think it's all well-intentioned.

    Since I didn't mean to hurt it, then I will refer to what I said.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all. You don't want to hurt her.

    1。You are more innocent.

    2。You care about her. The kind of care that only you can understand ... I don't want her to get hurt.

    A simple girl likes you.

    It doesn't matter if it's 1 or 2.

    It doesn't matter if you're with her or continue to be regular friends with her--

    I bless you all ... Good..

    Meet this kind of simple girl.。。

    Tell her directly--

    It's probably best if you have a girlfriend to say no...

    If she knows you didn't...

    Just tell her more simply...

    You don't want to be in a relationship right now ...

    Do you want to get married...

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think you should politely refuse her, if you don't solve it all the time, not only will you feel a lot of pain, but also delay her time. This kind of thing should be "cut through the mess quickly".

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    For this kind of thing, the most direct and fastest is to find a woman to be your girlfriend!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Tell her what you really think, and don't delay people.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You are hurting her if you don't tell the truth.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Actually, you might as well just say "I'm sorry, we're not suitable" to her

    Why? Because you're afraid of hurting her, you should tell her that long pain is better than short pain.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then you will be in a relationship with her, and when you get to know her, you will like her.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You shouldn't run away, you have to be brave and have a good talk with her without hurting her.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    As a girl, you have been hurt by someone, so if you want to regain her, the first thing you have to do is to make him trust you again, and the biggest difficulty is trust. If she trusts you, then the rest will be twice as effective with half the effort. And how to gain trust, I think the best thing is how you hurt her in the first place, and re-enact that incident in a way that she didn't want to hurt at the time, only if she opens the original section can she continue the rest of the story...

    Good luck with you.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's as simple as exchanging the real city for her heart.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's very simple, treat her 10 times better than before, they like to listen to your sincerity, if you love her, love her sincerely, and show it, she can easily repair the scars in her heart and reopen a window for you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I can't catch it back. Let's change it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Don't choose either of those two when they're best friends. So as not to be embarrassed. Or go with your feelings. Whichever more point you like, you want that.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Two like you at the same time, but you can't like her at the same time, there must be one more than one.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Don't be stupid, there are no real friends between men and women, unless they are lovers.

    If you don't believe me, then you'll see what it will be like when they're both married. Or will they still remember you in 10 years' time?

    Don't you think that after a woman gets married, especially when she has a child, this has occupied their entire heart, how can they leave a place for you, a former friend, even if they want to leave a place for you, to eat, drink and laze all day long, and the noise of the child is not allowed.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't choose either of those two when they're best friends. So as not to be embarrassed.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It depends on who has the most status in your mind, you can't be the same both, find a choice that impresses you the most, if they are like little sisters in your mind, then you don't choose, and then ask for another girl! Don't push yourself!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Friend, you're so happy. Both people like you to show that you have a pivotal position in their hearts, and that you have an attractive side that attracts them. But you have to choose one of the girls you like, and if you like both, then I can't help it. Huh,

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Be bold and be honest. As long as you make a rational choice and believe in your feelings, you will be worthy of them and yourself. Otherwise, you can only hurt, don't step on two boats with two feet.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You can't drag your feet on emotional matters!! It's going to be hard.

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