Is it innate to be rebellious?

Right! Upstairs is right. In fact, it is a bit serious to say that people are born with this.

People will have a rejection mentality! In the case of younger people, this is undisguised. After a long time, it will become a rebellion!

It is more rebellious than a sense of distance caused by long-term rejection. In fact, this kind of psychology will exist in people's lives. It's just that the age is different!

The way to deal with it is different! On the other hand, it is caused by the difference in their thinking.

If all the children are early and sensible, and polite three points. All adults know how to talk to children and give him enough space to give him three points. The word rebellion does not exist!

I have time to talk to rebellious children. Of course, this needs to be understood. Don't lose your temper at every turn.

It's best not to have these undue external reactions. When I want to solve it than good. Stick to this notion:

I'm just looking for you to hear what's going on in your heart! Don't just say anything about your child. After a long time, he will still talk to you.

I'm just confused about the past. It's big now. With their own ideas.

My parents still didn't communicate with me. I've always felt like a force.

This is definitely not the case.

In my bones, I originally had a rejection of things I didn't like.

Over time. A character is formed.

This is also known as the rebellious mentality.

Summary. Yes, everyone can have a rebellious mentality, or psychological reactance to be precise. Everyone believes that they have the freedom to decide what they do, and if this freedom is threatened, revoked, or reduced, we will want to restore the threatened freedom or prevent the loss of our other freedoms, and this motivation to protect freedom is called "psychological rebellion".

Yes, everyone can have a rebellious mentality, or psychological reactance to be precise. Everyone believes that they have the freedom to decide what they do, and if this freedom is threatened, revoked, or reduced, we will want to restore the freedom that has been threatened or prevent the loss of our other freedoms, and this motivation to protect freedom is called "psychological rebellion."

Rebellious psychology should belong to a reflex behavior that belongs to the center of the self-defense field of thought, which is present in every man and woman, young and old, but it will be more obvious in the alternating stage of growth that is not big or small, because at this stage, regardless of the old position or psychology is easy to be questioned, under the role of psychological defense, it is easier to have conflicts with others, especially parents and elders, and brothers and sisters, and will also be tested by the expansion of the Zhipi incident, so it falls into the cycle of gap and distance. Strictly speaking, this also has an absolute relationship with the person who has a contradiction, and it is not only the unilateral act of the person who is regarded as a rebel, that is, you rebel against me and I rebel against you, contradiction!

The yearning for light and happiness does not hesitate to sacrifice oneself, so the rebellious mentality is wrong, but there is also a right side to rebellion. The denial of educators is also rebellious.

As a special kind of opposition attitude, rebellious psychology is mainly composed of three elements: cognition, emotion and behavioral intention. Among them, cognition is the basis of the attitude of the educated, and it plays a role in preparing and guiding the rebellious psychology in its role in the role of attitude. This is because no matter who (excluding people with unsound thinking) perceives a certain phenomenon or problem, he has a certain and relatively stable way of thinking and values psychologically, and the cognition constituted by these stable values and ways of thinking governs what kind of behavior people will take towards a certain phenomenon or problem, that is, whether they have an attitude of support, support, and obedience, or an attitude of neglect, opposition, and retrograde.

Because before you have a sense of self, you feel like you are an appendage of your parents, you are very dependent on your parents, you feel that you have to listen to them for everything, you feel that they are right. However, when you have self-awareness, you begin to learn to think, think about the people you meet, the things you encounter, and judge right and wrong based on your own life experience, so this self-awareness contradicts the past obedience to your parents, you will feel that you can now be an independent individual, and you don't need others to teach you and accuse you... The mixing of all these consciousnesses makes your subconscious very chaotic, and you will naturally be troubled, which will make you more and more rebellious.

This is also a way of growth, and I don't think it's a bad psychology, it's better than blindly accepting it.

Children sometimes have an aversion to their parents' ideological concepts, educational methods, and strict requirements, and even have a rebellious mentality.

The specific performance is: you want me to be like this, I want to be like that; You say this is good, I have to say that is good; Let me believe this, I have to believe that.

It is necessary to make a concrete analysis of the rebellious mentality and rebellious behavior, and it cannot be said that all of them are wrong, and some of them are not unreasonable. Because our parents were not saints, their ideas sometimes lagged behind; When it comes to family education, they inevitably have misunderstandings. Socializing with parents on an equal footing can help parents renew their concepts, get out of the misunderstandings of home education, and also help us make the right behavioral choices.

We must strive to overcome negative rebellious mentality, and when we are emotionally impulsive, we must try to restrain ourselves.

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It is also a way for people to express their thoughts.

Your situation does not belong to any rebellious psychology, you belong to too much pressure or some confusion caused by the environment, it is recommended to self-adjust, or talk to a psychologist, according to the course of treatment, I believe you will get better.

There are two reasons why people have a rebellious mentality:

1.Intensely curious. When something is forbidden, it is most likely to arouse people's curiosity. Especially when it is only forbidden without any explanation, a strong sense of mystery can easily arise.

2.Act outside the box. Young people are in a period of character formation and self-searching, and through denying authority and being unconventional, they can find psychological satisfaction in self-affirmation.

The identification of young people with society is not only a simple way to adapt to social norms, but also hopes that society will recognize his value and status, so as to gain recognition with society. As a result, he tends to behave paranoidly, to express himself, and to deliberately adopt attitudes and behaviors that are different from those of others in order to attract the attention of others.

Rebellious psychology refers to a state of mind in which people adopt opposite attitudes, words and deeds to each other's requirements in order to maintain their self-esteem. This kind of psychology is mostly the appearance of puberty.

When children reach the age of twelve or thirteen, they are often prone to an emotion that conflicts with their parents. They have something in their hearts that they would rather say to their peers than to their parents. For the kind criticism and persuasion of parents, they refute and oppose them at every turn, which makes parents who love them with all their hearts shocked and heartbroken.

This kind of rebellious psychology of children is not just an accidental impulse of others, but a reality that deserves the general attention of modern parents.

When you ask him to do something, the more he wants to resist.

Rebellious psychology refers to a state of mind in which people adopt opposite attitudes, words and deeds to each other's requirements in order to maintain their self-esteem. Among teenagers, they are often "untaught" and "disobedient", and often "go against the bull" and "work against each other" with teachers and parents. This kind of behavior that runs counter to common sense and shows one's "cleverness" and "extraordinary" with an abnormal psychological state often comes from "rebellious psychology".

The question you are asking now is whether your daughter or your son is rebellious.

Disobedience, back-to-back with teachers and parents, reluctance to learn, etc., these manifestations are all rebellious psychology.

When the child has a rebellious mentality, don't overly suppress the child, and don't keep scolding.

No more questions.

It's an alternative point that you always want to do for what others ask you to do, and when others say east, you must say west, and you don't want to listen to others, and you want to do things according to your own personality! Peculiar to adolescence

Rebellious psychology is that I know the answer, but I just won't tell you.

First of all, figure out what rebellious psychology is.

Rebellious and rebellious psychology has also become a reverse psychology and confrontational psychology, a psychological state of inhibition and denial of the other party's demands in order to maintain dignity. "Mental Health Education for College Students" also mentions that rebellious psychology refers to the psychological state in which individuals are eager to become independent as soon as possible in thought, action and even economy when they are basically physiologically mature and psychologically mature but not really mature, so as to show a strong sense of independence. Judging from the subject's description of the problem, it is indeed a rebellious mentality.

Rebelliousness is a common form of bad self-awareness.

If you want to overcome it, you might as well try:

Self-regulation: Always remind yourself that when something unpleasant happens, you must regulate yourself and improve your self-cultivation. Be clear that your own differentiation is not achieved by confronting others, and learn to stand on the shoulders of "giants" to form your own unique style.

Independent thinking: Keep learning, constantly broaden your horizons in learning, expand your thinking, develop independent thinking, and overcome paranoid thinking patterns.

Understand and respect: Look at the problem from a different perspective, make it clear that there will be a generation gap between the elders and the younger generations, learn to accept and respect each other, and have a tolerant attitude towards them.

Overcoming the rebellious mentality is a gradual process. In the process of self-psychological adjustment, we should pay attention to the fact that we should not only think of "saving face" in everything, but should rationally treat those who have good intentions and correct opinions, often empathize, and often self-reflect, so as to weaken the inner resistance to the opinions and criticisms of others, gradually develop a sense of identity, and enhance psychological acceptance. In fact, even the person or thing you resist and dislike the most has its merits.

The causes and characteristics of reverse psychology are:

1) The audience has the ideology of self-righteousness, self-pity, self-expansion, and stubborn adherence to the original attitude.

2) The audience deliberately adopts attitudes and behaviors that are contrary to or even antagonistic to the communicator, that is, whatever you support, I will oppose; Whatever you oppose, I will stand for.

3) A certain type of information (such as advertisements and preaching) is disseminated too much, too indiscriminately, or is untrue or distorted, thus causing the audience to be disgusted and causing reverse psychology.

4) Some audiences deliberately adopt a psychological posture that is contrary to that of others with a positive mentality, such as leaders.

5) The desire of some audiences to taste the forbidden fruit has caused a reverse psychology. For example, when it is rumored that a book or film will be banned because of its ideological content or pornographic content, the number of readers and viewers will immediately increase dramatically. It belongs to the reverse psychology, and is arranged according to the order of decreasing reverse intensity, mainly including confrontation psychology, rejection psychology, avoidance psychology, distortion psychology, and cultural decoration psychology.

For the reverse psychology of the audience, the communicator should neither simply cater to and accommodate, nor blindly accuse and criticize, let alone blindly be frightened, but should be objectively analyzed, treated correctly and actively guided, so that it can gradually transform into a positive psychology.

Audience psychology is an unfathomable place, its needs are inexhaustible, its effects are varied, its shape is strange, and its complex relationships of displacement, differentiation, and reorganization are changing rapidly. It is impossible to reveal all the mysteries of the audience's psychology by describing and analyzing the audience's needs, motivations, psychological effects, and psychological tendencies in receiving activities, but it can give us a preliminary overall understanding, so that we can adapt, satisfy and guide the audience's psychology in a regular manner, rather than always following the audience's footsteps.

That's stubbornness, people should learn to accept new things and new knowledge, know that it's right to accept it with an open mind, learn more about it, *** said, humility makes people progress, this is not unreasonable, people with reverse psychology are usually not enough to know and recognize themselves, so it can be said that they are in a state of psychological blindness, and they can't always accept other people's refutation theories, or they still have to rely on their own restraint, we are also from the past, haha.