Six years of affection and three months of help, did I fall in love with him

It's easy to get a man to like and pursue a woman, but it's quite hard to get a woman to pursue a man.

So what you have to figure out now is whether he (his friend) likes you or not, if it's a showy carrot or something, you don't have to take it seriously, if he really likes you, he wants to pursue you, and he wants to marry you at all costs, then you can take him seriously, and then you can think about whether you can have a relationship with him.

And secondly, you have to figure out which of them has the strength and potential to support you, and who can make you happier in the future, and you choose which direction to work in.

And finally, you have to figure out who likes you more, and you choose whomever you want.

Listening to what you said, I think you have paid a lot for your boyfriend, but he has not paid anything for your relationship Also, I think you are doing the right thing, don't go to the man's house to live without getting married, it is difficult to have a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and listen to what you said, your friend did not clearly show love to you, and all the problems were figured out by you in advance, so now is not the time for you to think about splitting your legs, and when your friend really pursues you, it's not too late for you to think about it, good luck

Well, in fact, this is normal, long-distance relationships do produce all kinds of problems, but you also have to think about it, your boyfriend may also be waiting for you there, he is also working hard for your future, you say you still love your boyfriend as before?

Ask yourself, is it true?

If it's true, draw a line with the ambiguous friend early and tell him that he has a boyfriend.

If you have a crush on that friend, don't cheat on your boyfriend.

The longer the deception is made, the deeper the damage will really be.

Personally, I think he's just a dependence you find in this city, and it's just a feeling of dependence on him, you don't love your boyfriend, think about it yourself!

It is easy for a woman to fall in love with someone because of loneliness, and when she looks back later, she finds that she doesn't love him, just because of the little emptiness in her heart, and in the end her heart has a scar. Take hold of yourself and don't lose yourself. To be responsible for oneself is to take the greatest care for oneself!

This means that you already have a good impression of him, but you have not yet reached the level of love. The reason why you are hesitant is caused by the ignorance of adolescence. In fact, if you think of falling in love, you can ask him vaguely to see how he reacts. Let's always get to know each other again.

In many cases, it is impulsive. How about you try it in another 3 days.

This is not love, because I have also been like this, no matter what will be said to the other party, this is just to treat him as a bosom friend of his, and he will say to her one by one when he is happy and sad, if you say that you love him, you will still have some reservations and will not tell him everything, because you want the person you love to see the best side of you.

I guess it's a good feeling.

But to say love or not to love is to try together.

There will be a lot of getting along in the world, and if you are happy, you can try to get together.

Explain that you have a crush on your teacher. Just as if he is your first love, hidden in the bottom of your heart, it is a kind of sweetness.

Dizzy, paranoia.

I don't know what to do.

Try it if you love! Say it and you won't regret it!

Feelings change.

Maybe she is realistic in her own right, and she is only with you because of your goodness;

It's unrealistic to learn from her, but her parents are realistic, so she has also become realistic;

Once a girl becomes realistic, any feelings are all......Dude, no one is to blame.

Look at the happy life of the woman you love.

And I silently blessed her.

It's also a blessing.

I bless you as a person who has come before.

Wishing you happiness!

Very sympathetic to you

It's sad for me to watch

You'd better give up

Now you and him are not on the same level, and it will be difficult to say in the future, but the girls now are more realistic and don't want to buy potential stocks!

Husband and wife are the same forest birds, and they fly separately when disaster comes, let's look down, whoever leaves, who can't live If you really change your mind, there is no need to redeem it.

Women have the right to choose, and you also have the right to fight.

The key is how you do it.

You're just a playmate, and there's an element of emotion in it

But it's not the love you imagined.

This woman is not worthy of your love, let it go, maybe you will choke happiness.

I think you should give him a chance, because you are already in love with him, in fact, you should also know in your heart that he loves you, you want to go from junior high school to high school for a long time, and you are not in the same school, and you don't have much contact, I think if you really love him, be bold, don't miss it, and if you miss it, it will be too late to regret it.

If it's impossible to be together, forget about him slowly, and you'll have your own happiness!

Sometimes what you don't get may become your best memories and most unforgettable memories, but if you are really together, it may not be as good as you think.

I think most of the reason you miss him is because he was the first to say that he liked you, and although you refused, you still longed for happiness together.

You don't necessarily love him. He doesn't necessarily really love you either.

Be open-minded, pursue your own true happiness, it would be better to put those past things in a corner of your memory, and believe that the people who truly love you and the people you love will soon appear!

You're not loving, you're possessive, he used to only care about you, and then someone else liked him, he fell in love with him, he accepted someone because he couldn't get you, and when you know these things, you feel like somebody has taken your stuff, right, it feels like your heart is empty.

In fact, since you love, you love fiercely, what do you care about everything else? If you don't care so much, don't choose to love and think about anything else.

He doesn't necessarily really love you. But if you don't tell him today that you love him, you will definitely regret it for the rest of your life. Some things, once missed, is a lifelong regret, for love is the nature of a woman, sometimes, people most often think about a sentence is, if there is no regret in this life, how happy it will be.

Less regrets, more happiness, give him a **.

You should just like that feeling, like the feeling that he says he likes you, get used to him liking you, not just fall in love with him, and many times habit can give people the illusion.

Loving someone is inherently selfish, and loving someone is inherently possessive.

He loves you, because he has told you before, and now he is afraid that you will not agree.

He seems to have tactfully expressed that he likes you and wants to find someone like you, and there is no one like you at all, so.

It's clear that he loves you. You may not love him, but you are used to hearing him say that he loves you.

I think you should give yourself a chance! Say what is in your heart to that boy and don't wait until later to regret it. As for the result? I think even if you can't be together, at least you work hard to face it, and you won't have any regrets in the future!

If you love, say it boldly! In the case where you are sure of true love...

Make sure you're not possessive!

Feelings are to be fought for by yourself!

I really love you, otherwise I wouldn't have said this after so long.

Women are just easy to get confused, and they start to get confused as soon as they are chased.

There is no sense of security, and I am willing to continue to sink in.

Speechless. The point is: what did he do for you? Do you need nothing more than sweet words and promises?

Men with rhetoric are unreliable, you have to think clearly about who is silently loving you, don't lose your way for a moment......

Yes! Because that's the case with my boyfriend If you still have room to develop with him, as long as you don't dislike him, that's fine! You can cultivate feelings!

Believe that He can bring you happiness! Because it's so much better to choose someone who loves you than to choose someone you love! ~~

It's hard. Generally, you can only see whether you can cross a threshold for yourself.

Your feelings tell you that you don't like him, but the objectivity of the outside world tells you that giving up on him may give up a good object. Because others say that he is good to himself, because everyone tells us that a woman must find someone who is good to herself. Even if I don't love her.

If you want to cultivate, you have to leave this problem behind. What do you mean by something you deserve to admire? How do you judge whether you are worth it or not?

I ask you what you would do if another woman took a fancy to him at this time and robbed him with you?

Let go of yourself in order to gain true love.

Feelings can be cultivated, as long as you don't hate them and your family doesn't object to them. Just try to be together. Wishing you happiness!

I feel that it still depends on my own mate selection criteria, if in addition to feeling that everything else meets the requirements, there is the possibility of development, that is to say, it is possible to cultivate feelings, in fact, there is a feeling is not necessarily a result, there is a good man is good to you, why not think about it! Maybe that's your happiness.

You can try, feelings can be cultivated, but there are also people who can't cultivate them in their lifetime.

If you don't hate it, you can try to get along with him. But if you are bored with his behavior itself, it is impossible. Good luck to him.

-OK.

Li Ning: Anything is possible.

Isn't it all slowly cultivated?

Now you probably don't feel to.

But for a long time.

will find that life without her will be very helpless.

Feelings have already been cultivated at the time of the year.

I don't know, having said that, love is actually quite difficult to understand, and I don't think you may fall in love, but you may get used to each other after a long time.

I'm used to it.

But it doesn't have to be love.

It's hard to say! It's up to you, others can't help you!

It's useless to talk too much. Absolutely!! wait and see

Are you the girl I'm chasing now?? I hope you make a decision as soon as possible, so that it will be fair to that man, and it is better to meet and make it clear! People are judged by their character.

You can talk about it first, and then change it when you meet a more suitable one.

If you don't want to hurt him, just ignore him now.

It's good to find someone who loves you, as long as he has a good character.

True love is not limited by time, when you love someone for a long time, you will have a feeling of wanting to be with him for the rest of your life (this is not an impulse, but true), and there are some feelings that are destined to change, no matter how many vows you made at the beginning, you will become strangers in the end.

Has that guy met on the Internet? If not, none of this can be believed. If you are sure, six years is no better than three months, provided that you are sure.

I have my reasons for what I say, the key is your own decision, other people's advice is just a reference, to choose what you want the most...

6 years, not long, not short, since he can't give you what you want in 6 years, it's better to let it go. Personal Recommendations

I think it's necessary for a person to quietly think about which one he wants, and not to forget some daily habits for a while.

The past no longer returns, and what comes back is no longer perfect. Probably neither is the best fit for you. Let's keep a friend relationship and take a look.

It's important to choose and think long-term.

Well, don't think about this kind of thing anymore, if it goes on like this, what does it mean for you: you can abandon your family for a new relationship, what will your new half think? Do you think you'll never abandon your family again?

It's okay to be friends, but people can't be too selfish.

Sending you two truths:

Truth 1: Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten.

Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed.

Truth 2: In addition to tears, what can wash away everything is time, and time is used to change feelings, and the longer the time, the lighter the conflict, like a diluted tea.

ps: Fall in love with the person you love the most, and forget about the person you love twice!

Good luck!

I know it's not safe, but I still want to ??? Such an ending would hurt both families! Let it go early! Take responsibility for your family

Only when you are in it can you experience the pain in it, knowing that it is impossible to forget, and you can't forget it.