What are some of the outstanding changes in your partner after marriage?

<> before getting married, men will say that dear you are the baby of my life, I am afraid of melting in my mouth, I am afraid of falling to the ground in my hand, I am afraid of falling to the ground in my hand, I call you a baby long, and the baby is short, I love you all day long, and I want to do everything possible to please you. But once you get married, your whole person belongs to him, and it's okay in the honeymoon, but as time goes by, it is also due to the current social competition is too great, and the pressure of work will gradually produce aesthetic fatigue, plus you are no longer a young and beautiful face, and you don't like to dress up, and you don't care enough about him, anyway, the reason is that you think he is no longer the same as before, (because he was too good to you before), he also thinks that you have become a shrew, so the feelings are weakened, So much so that to the point of fighting a cold war almost every day, I think you can only start from yourself, change your little bad mistakes, and reshape you before marriage, he will know how to love you and cherish your love. I wish you all happiness and reconciliation!

When I wasn't married before, my husband was still very clean, wearing a white down jacket, looking at this young man who was quite tall, and then white and clean, I didn't expect to be so sloppy after getting married, and I didn't want to wash my clothes, it was really two people.

The way you make friends has changed.

Female friends who are not married may make friends all over the world, but once they are married, they may have less contact with friends because of time, distance, etc., and it may be difficult to make new friends.

Less attention is paid to parents.

The closest people of unmarried female friends are their parents, and after getting married, the husband begins to become the person who is opposite to him day and night, and unconsciously, he will care more about his husband than he cares about his parents, and his daily affairs are centered on his own small family.

Worried about her husband.

Female friends in love may have many requirements for their future marriage partners, and once they get married, they are afraid that their husbands will be in the twilight when they face their thousands of husbands. Of course, there are also many women who choose a marriage partner who is not satisfactory to them, and most of the women who face such women have no confidence in marriage and force themselves to maintain their marriage.

Become a babysitter for your husband.

A woman in love is coaxed by her boyfriend, but after getting married, the woman's role changes, and she needs to take care of her husband's diet and daily life every day, and unconsciously becomes her husband's little nanny. In married life, the hypocrisy of female friends does not seem to work well in love. Moreover, the traditional Chinese concept of male dominance and female dominance has made many female friends successfully become their husbands' little nannies.

Lamenting married life.

Female friends who are not married are more longing for married life, will have a good plan for their future married life, and even want to marry themselves out immediately, but after getting married, female friends will find that married life is actually an ordinary life, and they will no longer be full of longing for marriage, and begin to sigh about marriage in firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

A woman becomes a mother: before marriage, her fingers do not touch the spring water, and after marriage, she studies and cooks food every day.

That must have changed dramatically, before marriage you were a free-flying bird, but occasionally you were lonely. After marriage, you are a desperate money-making machine, imprisoned in the quagmire of family and marriage every day, but you are very happy.

Before getting married, you don't have to care about what kind of social status you are, you can make money to support yourself, you don't have to worry, you don't have constraints, you don't need to think about your other half, you don't have a heart or lungs, and you are free.

However, before getting married, you don't have loyal love, no goals in life, no reason to struggle, and sometimes you feel very empty, lost, and even lonely.

After getting married, every day you have to think about what to do with the next meal, whether the salary of the two people's lives is enough, and the lives of the two people are guaranteed, but the other party's parents, each other's relatives, you can't be too shabby when you visit the New Year, even if you can't take care of the emotions of the object, the life of two people is not at ease when there is a person, life creates a space, you must respect or take care of each other's emotions, otherwise, two people are easy to disagree, and even quarrel.

In the life after marriage, if you meet the right person, the two of you can face the hardships and hardships of life when you live together, get through the difficulties together, face the pressure of work, someone to comfort you and rely on you, and your life will be full of happy bits and pieces, in fact, it is also a very happy thing. Someone accompanies you when you travel, someone follows you when you travel, someone listens when you speak, and most importantly, marriage brings you a family and makes you truly an adult.

It's easy to fall in love, but it's hard to get along! But I think it should be a natural expression for two people who love each other to get along, rather than deliberately saying how to do and how to say. For example, what is in your heart, what happy or unhappy things have you encountered today!

Whatever you want to share with him, you can do it, go and talk to him. Speaking of which, the most important thing is communication! If two people don't say anything together, no matter how deep the relationship is and how strong the feeling is, one day the days will become more and more boring.

In short, say whatever you can for him, do what you can for him. Everything comes from the heart.

I think before getting married, the whole person should be vibrant, regardless of gains and losses, and the whole person should be free and easy.

After getting married, you will become sentimental, especially caring about the feelings of another person, and live in firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all day long.

Before marriage:No one cares, play casually, economic freedom, one person is full, the whole family is not hungry, the main reason is that the sense of responsibility is not very good, and sometimes I feel that a person's life is very good!

After marriage:Taking care of children, as well as the parents' body is not good, the sense of responsibility is increased, don't live a free life, of course, this is what everyone must experience, having children, having a family, means that the burden on your shoulders is getting heavier and heavier, the point is that you must have the confidence to face the wind and rain in the future, life is hard!

Before marriage, that is, the love period, is sweet and beautiful.

I went to dinner and watched a movie with my boyfriend and girlfriend, I was very happy, and I would dress up beautifully before I met my boyfriend and girlfriend.

But after getting married, it's different, it's in front of the people closest to you, so you will show your truest side. Stop at nothing.

Of course, there are many changes, but the most important thing is that congratulations on going from being a wifeless to having a wife. You start to take on the life of another person, you take on the responsibilities of a family, you start to live in a family as a husband, and you really feel the weight of life.

It varies a lot. The time before marriage is free, except for the work is basically no pressure, the husband is still a boyfriend before marriage, and the relationship is sweet and warm.

After marriage, it seems to grow up overnight, time is involuntarily arranged, there is a lot of pressure, there are too many things to consider, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea have to be considered.

Yes: before marriage, a person is full of family protection, after marriage is not the same, there is a wife and son, can not be the same as before, go home son called father, parents and wife happy, the whole family is happy and laughing, it is really happy, every day after dinner, take the wife and children to the river for a walk, the mood is comfortable, I feel that the spirit of people is more full of sunshine, and it is good to be content.

The changes are still very large. Marriage is a watershed moment, separating one's previous life from one's future life, splitting it into two periods. I think the most important thing is the change in responsibility, which is a point that I am quite profound, for example, when I go home after work, I can no longer wait for my mother to cook the meal, but I have to cook for the whole family by myself.

Marriage is two people to form a new family, then the original family structure will definitely change, and they will change from the beneficiary of a family to the executor of the family, that is to say, all things in the family need to be involved, such as housework, which used to be handled by the mother alone, what to change the clothes and throw them into the laundry box, the mother will wash, and now she has to wash the clothes in the laundry box.

Marriage is also a matter of two families, married you belong to two families, so every New Year's festival or something to help entertain guests, or string relatives to support the façade, you are no longer the New Year only need to open your mouth and wait for the delicious child, you need to prepare Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, the first and second days of the first year or something to string relatives, accompany relatives to talk, this is what the real marriage should look like.

There is also a very important point, that is, the problem of children, once at home I was a child, with parents to take care of, spoiled, but married and had my own children, I upgraded to become a parent, many things will not be considered so much for myself, but put all my heart and soul into the child, sometimes I feel that the child is very noisy, very sad, but also try to persevere, after all, you can't say don't want it.

In short, getting married is not an easy thing, and it is not something that can be ended with a certificate casually, before getting married, you must think about whether you can bear this change in responsibility, if you can't bear it, if you feel that you are still young and have no ability, don't get married so early, there are still many things to do in life, and then consider getting married after the struggle.

The change is quite big, before marriage, a person lived a carefree life, and there was no need to think about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. After marriage, it is different, there are more responsibilities and responsibilities, and there are more concerns, and the era when you can't do whatever you want by your own temperament no longer exists.

Before we got married, we were two people in love, so whatever we did, we just had to think about each other. But after getting married, we are two families in love, so the whole family needs to be considered.

Before marriage, it is probably for the affairs of two people, and after marriage, it may be for the affairs of two families, and after marriage, everything is for two people, and someone is willing to share things with you, different people have different opinions.

Before marriage, there will always be a future for yourself.

Married life is planned like a fairy tale, for this reason, forcing her boyfriend to make a lot of almost impossible promises to herself, and secretly happy that marriage will become an upgraded version of love, and even after finalizing the wedding date, I can't wait to marry myself out immediately, and implement all the beautiful blueprints in marriage as soon as possible.

After marriage, you will find that the essence of marriage is nothing more than some firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and at the same time, it is also accompanied by some quarrels with her husband over trivial matters in life. After the good expectations of marriage are destroyed, when it is difficult for men to fulfill their promises when they are in love, women will precipitate too much emotion in life. Some pessimistic women can even have a pessimistic attitude towards marriage.

The little princess before marriage, the old mother and the maid ring after marriage, to be honest, marrying the right person is happy. Marriage is to marry life, life is free and easy, that is the best, even if there is no change from before marriage, it is good, but after marriage, like me, I lost everything, without the care and love of my husband, the so-called mother-in-law's malice makes a stumbling block, persuade the current girl, do not easily marry an immature man, ask for hardship, no children are fine, like I have children now, there is no way, I can only endure until the children are older, and then I can live back to my original self.

Life before marriage is relatively free, there is not too much sense of constraints, and the responsibility of life after marriage becomes greater, you will feel more pressure, and there are a lot of things, all of which are trivial things in life, and you will feel a little bound if you are not used to it!

You have to think about everything before marriage, you can go there if it's fun, and you can spend whatever money you find. No worries, happy and happy every day. Once you have your own small family after marriage, you have to consider a lot of things, the old and the young, you have to save money, how to let the elderly and children live a happy life, and you have to revolve around the family every day.

There are great changes, you can be willful and more free before marriage, and after that, you have to take care of each other's emotions, you can't do too much, and you must have a family concept, and you don't have the freedom you used to.

The boss has changed, you can do anything if you are not married, you can buy whatever you want...After getting married, you can buy it, go out to play, and be ready to be lectured when you are done, anyway, you won't be free when you get married

Free before marriage, unrestrained, not taken into account, the whole person is very happy, after marriage to take care of the family, the sense of responsibility and worry is heavier, the pressure of life to face is greater, but also to encounter some small contradictions in the family, often to take care of the family, love the family, in short, before and after marriage have a lot of changes.

In fact, for everyone, life before and after marriage can change a lot, of course, I am no exception, my pre-married life is simple, carefree life, and I don't have to think about anything. But life after marriage is different, family, children, in-laws, and many complicated things. It's all around me.

This is how my life changed before and after marriage. It's something that everyone goes through.