Why is it that people look down on people if they don t understand the world?

This society is very complicated, there are many villains, and there are knives in their smiles. Always take credit in front of leaders, step down on others, and elevate yourself. Dealing with these people is very troublesome.

People can do what they can't do, they are gentlemen, if they learn what is the difference between themselves and those villains. Knowing not to say is a kind of cultivation, and being silent is a kind of realm. I don't get angry about this situation, I just know it in my heart.

You will always comfort yourself that what others do is someone else's business, and what you do yourself is your own business, you can't go along with it, you can only pretend not to see, hear and laugh. It is impossible to escape from this society, but it is better to face it positively and calmly. A pot of wine among the flowers in my spare time, smiling and watching the wind and clouds change.

If a man is arrogant, he who is inferior to himself is arrogant, and he who is stronger than himself is jealous. Compare, compare, look down on it, you don't have much, you don't have a lot. People look down on it, and it's all fame and fortune.

Don't live in the eyes of others. People should not be bound by fame and fortune when they live. There is no need to be discouraged by the disparagement of others.

Don't worry too much about the past and the future, live in the present. Peace and joy be upon you!

People who don't know gratitude don't know how to give, only know to take, there is no bottom line right or wrong in their consciousness, and they don't know what to say and what they shouldn't say, it can also be said that they are a simple-minded type of person, such people are sometimes easier to get along with than those who hide knives in their smiles, but they are not very likable, if you don't like it, try to stay away.

When you have to deal with such a person, just say what you think, you don't need to hide what you mean, you know, if you hide it, you will never understand what you are saying, it's just a waste of time.

There is such a saying in our hometown, you can't sell favors, and you have to pay back when you smash pots and sell iron, which means that when you receive favors from others, you must pay them back. Just as others seem to help you today, you should also help others when they need help, so that you can form a good impression of trustworthiness in the minds of others, so that you can be invincible in the workplace.

It is because they don't understand people's hearts, the desires of people who don't understand, and those who don't understand abide by the middle way, can't get it back when they run out of strength, and it's easy to have contradictions. Although it is well-intentioned. But people can't distinguish between good and bad hearts, and it's hard to distinguish between good and evil.

If it is a business partner, the relevant responsibilities are formulated, and the rest of the things can be done according to the principles, no mother-in-law, no personal feelings, he does what he should do is a success for you.

When getting along with such a person, you have to tell yourself that it is not worth being angry with such a person, try to calm your emotions, and tell him directly when you need his help that forbearance has no effect on such a person, maybe he doesn't know that you are forbearing, and he can't see it.

If you want to deal with this kind of person often, then you can also try to save him, don't give up easily, remind him or guide him through the small things in life, slowly let him understand what he should do, or give him a book so that he can slowly discover himself.

It will be very tiring to understand too many human accidents, so it's good to be okay with the encounter.

In today's society, the vast majority of people are sophisticated and do not pay attention to the rules, and the definition of the sophistication of people who do not pay attention to the rules is to deceive! No one wants to talk to ** about the world!!

。How untactful could it be. There's a true temperament.,It's good to dare to say and do.。。

If you're an ordinary person, what if you fight with someone. You just need to be fit, know how to punch, kick, scratch and fall. It is estimated that no one can reach the realm of Ip Man, and he seems to be very nervous.

Those who understand life also know how to understand some trivial things

Do you deserve to be a waste of my saliva?

There are too many people in life who don't understand the world, so what are the manifestations of people who don't understand the world? The teachers of Yang Qin Eloquence Training Center summarized the following points:

To be strong here actually means "to die to save face and live to suffer", this kind of person habitually looks down on some people who are stronger than him, commonly known as admitting that a person is better than you, is it so difficult? If there are people around him who are stronger than him, then he will think that he does not rely on anyone, and relies on his own hands to prove that he is strong. To give you a very simple example, if a friend suddenly says that he wants to invite you to dinner, you may think in your heart that he is here to laugh at me, that he is here to help me, and that I have to earn my own money to eat and support myself.

In fact, as a normal person, it is normal for a friend to propose to invite you to dinner together, but people who don't understand human feelings are not grateful, and they still have resentment and suspicion in their hearts.

In fact, a person who has been strong for a long time is often prone to become conceited in his heart, because he always wants to be the strongest among the people around him, maybe in his eyes, the people around him need to be inferior to him in order for him to be happy. It is difficult for this kind of person to listen to the advice of his friends, and the whole person feels very arrogant, they regard themselves as high-minded, and they will look at things they are not capable of doing with disdain.

A person who doesn't understand the world of human feelings is easy to be jealous, because he is very sensitive, for a very simple example, a friend takes out a newly bought mobile phone in front of you and says that the phone is very good-looking, has many functions and so on, and may feel in this kind of person in his heart "what is great, what is there to show off".

Some people don't know how to be sophisticated, and finally don't know how to communicate in life, so there is an inferiority complex in the heart, when he sees that his friends around him are doing well, there are many friends, and his spare time life is very active, he will become depressed, unhappy, and inferior in his heart. In fact, these people need to change through their own efforts, instead of complaining and blaming others for everything.

There are more sleek people. Pebbles-like. There are also more upright people. Speaking and doing things with a clear point of view, principled, positional, dare to speak the truth, have a momentum, but also easy to make mistakes, easy to keep pigtails, easy to offend people. There are people here who are sophisticated.

The children of relatives get married and go to the ceremony. You go with two hundred, and I follow two hundred. You follow the two thousand, and I will follow the two thousand.

The host was satisfied. If there is a gap, people who do not follow are often easy to talk about and say that they don't understand the world. A friend has done you a favor, but if he is in trouble, you are watching from the sidelines, which is also a favor.

It's easy to say a little thing, but it's just a bean soup. Especially for some major events related to a person's life, you have taken great pains and helped a lot, but the person being helped is unaware of it, and you don't mention the word favor at all, what is this called? This is called great grace to feed the enemy.

The neighbor Wang Ma took a few chili peppers, or cowpeas or something, and came to the house from time to time to sit and talk. This is actually a human favor. Neighbors often walk around each other.

To be honest, I don't understand the human world, but I know gratitude and the emotions of taking care of others.

And there is such a girl next to me, let's call it Friend A.

Once, a friend invited me to drink milk tea, and everyone was very happy to drink it. On the way back, I casually mentioned that I don't know when I will have the opportunity to go back next time. At this time, friend A told me with her expression: "Do you want to go back to this?"

Another time, a teacher invited everyone to dinner. More than a dozen people came, and the teacher invited a relatively remote place. After arriving at the place, friend A said, how did the teacher invite such a bad place. I was really speechless when I heard that.

One time it seemed like three people were chatting together or something, and another friend joked that there was something in his mouth. At this time, friend A answered: It's okay, I've seen people with smellier mouths than yours. I was stunned to hear this sentence next to me.

The above examples are not the most bizarre, mainly the most bizarre ones are not easy to say.

At first, I was very confused, I think my three views tell me that others should repay me for their kindness, and I should be grateful for the meals they invited, and don't make impolite jokes at will. I once tried to share my thoughts with A, only to find out later that I was wrong. I was wrong not to put myself in the first place and change others at will.

I'm not qualified to be a savior.

So much so that now I don't even know how to get along with A.

People who don't understand the world or don't know much about the world; Either they are mavericks, living in their own world, and are reluctant to deal with others. Children and young people lack social experience and are mostly ignorant of the world. Adults don't understand the world, and it is related to their own values, for example, some people think that dealing with others has a little bit of a feeling of bending down to please.

But no matter what, there is no right or wrong thing about human feelings, and it is always good to understand a little human feelings.

If you don't understand human feelings, you will be selfish, don't understand human feelings, and only care about your own happiness.

In real life, such people are common, no matter what others say, he has to interject, and he holds the opposite point of view from the other party, without doing so, he doesn't know how to turn at all, no matter what the occasion, no matter who he talks to, no matter how serious the consequences of his words will be, he often goes straight when he speaks, and he can say whatever he wants, and as a result, he is easy to offend others unintentionally.

People are more selfish and never think about others. We don't treat everyone equally. A little snobbish. I don't want to help others, and I always want to ask for resources from others. There is no politeness and no etiquette in life.

To put it bluntly, it is low emotional intelligence! I don't know how to communicate with people with the right words! Always hurt people with your mouth and don't save face for others!

Only then will we be able to face life's toughest tribulations without losing faith in the future. There is a good saying: "When you don't have something to rely on, you can better protect yourself." "There is no need for loneliness for no reason in the world, and the Qiang Shejing altar sacrifice is enough for the Song Dynasty.

People who don't understand the world of human feelings behave:

1. Low self-esteem. Because you don't understand interpersonal relationships, you naturally won't make a difference in life and the workplace, so when you see that the people around you are having a good life, have many friends, and have someone to help you with anything. The heart will become depressed and inferior. It is often difficult to find the reason from oneself, but more and more I feel that my fate is not good, and gradually I will be very concerned about the eyes of the people around me and become very sensitive.

2. Be strong. It is better to say "to be strong" here, but it is better to say "to die to save face and suffer sin", and when a person is jealous to a certain extent, he will become "strong". He will not be accustomed to everything that is stronger than him, everything that is stronger than him. He simply believes that he does not rely on anyone, and relies on his own hands to prove that he is a strong man.

3. Conceited. When you use "to be strong" to cover up your "jealousy" for a long time, you will definitely have a sense of conceit in your heart, because he always wants to be the strongest among the people around him, instead of making friends with the people around him, and his heart will be deceived by himself.

The importance of understanding the world.

Most of the successful people in the society only have a bachelor's degree or a secondary school degree, because of their low education, they are not afraid of a low starting point, they can endure the hardships that ordinary people can't bear, and they can suffer the sins that ordinary people can't bear, and finally make money and win success.

Looking at those successful people, most of them are people with high emotional intelligence, most of them have good interpersonal skills, can talk eloquently in public, have a large circle of friends in private, and can get all kinds of help when needed.

Human nature has weaknesses, and when rational people also have sensibility, some people are good at seizing fleeting opportunities and eventually winning success and successfully ascending to the top.

1. Can't listen to other people's opinions and suggestions

Being too selfish is easy to become blind, no matter whether you accept other people's opinions and suggestions, at least listen carefully to the attitude. Truly intelligent people will not only appreciate the advice and advice of others, but also improve themselves.

2. Don't dare to refuse others

There is a kind of person who lives in the eyes of others, loses himself, and blindly agrees to other people's requests regardless of his own situation, for fear of offending others if he refuses. This kind of person who does not dare to reject others is actually embarrassing himself.

3. Do things without caring about the feelings of others and dismiss people's face

Everyone has face, but some people always don't care about the feelings of others and do their own things as they want, even if they hurt others. People with high emotional intelligence will never casually refute the face of others, and even if they disagree with others, they will not say it in public.

4. Speaking ill of people behind your back

There is a kind of person who can't control his mouth, and always likes to talk bad about people behind his back. There is no impermeable wall in the world, and one day it will be transmitted back to the ears of the person concerned.

5. Can't control your emotions

Everyone has small temperaments and small emotions, and people with low emotional intelligence are reckless, and the final result is that bad emotions affect everyone.

I feel like we're living as a group after all. Proper learning of human sophistication is actually to make you more able to adapt to the social adaptation group.