Others said that he was outside the office, and there were people he wanted to see, how could he com

Don't be comforted, time will decide everything.

I didn't understand the specific situation, whether there was someone in her previous family that she didn't want to see, or whether there was someone in this relative's family that she didn't want to see, this gap is very big.

If there was someone in her previous family that she didn't want to see, that's good, she's relieved now, and she should be happy, so it's okay to comfort her.

If it is said that there is someone in the family of this relative where she lives now that she does not want to see, then it can be said that sooner or later she will have to say goodbye here, and it will not be long before she can leave here and go home, so that it is okay to comfort her.

Hello friend, although you live in a relative's house and have someone you don't want to meet, you don't forget that you are a host. On the surface, they want me to get along well with other people.

The words of comfort are as simple as they are, and they don't need too many words to accompany them slowly, after all, the current belief needs someone to confide in them.

Please forgive me for being upright! Your question itself is very problematic! The problem is not clear, he and her are indistinguishable, your boyfriend Rong's grandmother is sick, he is very serious with him in the hospital, the last one he should be "her", you ask if you want to go to the hospital, how to comfort "him", do you want to comfort your boyfriend or your boyfriend's grandmother?

If you want to comfort your boyfriend, it means that you have a problem, his grandmother who is sick, and the object of comfort you pay attention to when you go to the hospital should be his grandmother, not your boyfriend, if you want to express how to comfort his grandmother, you should use "her". If you make others can't figure out what you mean, and you can't express a question clearly, how can others answer you?

If you want to ask how to comfort your boyfriend, you can go to the hospital as a friend to see your boyfriend, buy some apples (meaning peace), there is no need to be too deliberate to comfort with any words, just say I came to see your grandmother, accompany you, and be by your side quietly. If you want to ask how to comfort his grandmother, there is no need to say anything, as a patient, I actually don't want too many people to disturb me, I am very uncomfortable, I have to deal with someone when I come, talking, in addition to the company of relatives, I don't want to deal with these red tape etiquette at all, and even hate rejection. So, just say a few words, and then quietly, you can call your boyfriend grandma and say:

Grandma, I'm a friend of so-and-so (your boyfriend), I'm coming to see you, you have a good rest, and you'll be fine soon. The rest doesn't need to say anything more.

If you want to see your boyfriend, you can go to the hospital to see his grandmother as an ordinary friend.

Although you haven't met your boyfriend's family, but his grandmother is sick, and from a polite point of view, you should check it out.

When you see someone else in a bad mood.

You like to comfort each other.

If you're having a good time.

There is nothing wrong with that.

As long as the other party doesn't dislike you, that's fine.

Everyone can choose their own behavior.

When you are emotional, start the four thoughts:

1. Contemplating the body is not pure (feeling the body).

Be aware of headaches, blocked throats, chest tightness, stomach congestion, etc. If you do, stay with it and watch it grow and disappear until the symptoms are completely gone. This process may or may not be accompanied by physical reactions such as yawning, hiccups, tearing, vomiting, and farting, which are normal.

If the body does not have the above symptoms, there is no need to contemplate the impurity of the body.

2. Contemplating suffering is suffering (feeling emotions).

Face your emotion, allow it to flow through you, be with it, and watch it grow and fade away until it's completely gone. Don't resist it, divert it, ignore it, suppress it. Experience, just experience, until the emotions disappear and peace is restored.

3. Contemplating the impermanence of the mind (conscious thought).

Allow yourself to be cranky and thoughts come and go. Don't go after thoughtlessness, don't resist thoughts, don't control thoughts, don't choose thoughts. Look at it, just look at it, watch it come and go, rise and fall.

4. Contemplating the Dharma without self (realizing the truth).

I'm awake, I created all this, it's not true, it's just a dream I had. I am Enlightenment, I am Abundance, I am Happiness, I Am Health, I am Infinity. In my dreams, all people, things, and things are created by me, and I appreciate and thank them unconditionally, and I am 100% responsible for them.

I am grateful that I had such a vivid dream, the genius screenwriter, the genius director, the genius actor, the genius creation, changed me from an infinite existence to a finite individual, forgetting that I am infinitely abundant, infinitely happy, infinitely wise, infinitely powerful, infinite possibilities, and feel that I am small, limited, scarce, powerless, and feel that this dream is real, and the people, things, and things in the dream have power, which is really a great miracle. Thankfully, I dismantled the pattern and retracted the energy from it, and I was grateful that I moved away from my upside-down dreams and lived out my true self.

Continue to do the above four points until you feel that your body is no longer blocked, or your emotions are gone, and you are at peace, or when you recall the things that make you angry, you don't feel your emotions anymore, and you can end this good and evil work.

The first step is to feel it; The second step is to receive it; The third step is to understand it; The fourth step is to let it go.

Step 1: Feel it.

When you really start feeling your emotions, your mind is automatically detached from them, and you can't be aware of them while dwelling on them. Once you start feeling, when you want to describe the emotion in words, you are using rational cognitive functions; When you don't judge, just observe the emotion, observe the feeling that the emotion brings you, and observe which cognition produces the feeling, you are using the cognitive function of awareness.

Step 2: Receive it.

1. Convey information: Convey my emotional information to the outside world, so that the outside world can understand my true feelings; Internally, I transmit my thinking information and make myself aware of my thinking defects.

2. Transformation energy: joy, anger, sorrow and happiness are not yet in the middle of the word. Once emotions arise, the energy attributes of the mind change, and there will be different ways of working. Anger rushes up, resentment is depressed, and joy is overjoyed.

3. Behavioral motivation: information gives goals, energy provides motivation, and the two will be transformed into specific actions. I understand the truth, I just don't want to do it, that is, emotions don't produce behavioral motivation.

Step 3: Understand it.

To feel it is to use the power of awareness, to receive it is to use the power of sensibility, and to understand it is to use the power of reason. For an emotion, if you don't really understand it, then at the level of thinking, there must be distortions, contradictions, and repressions. You're angry, and your reason says it's not right to be angry.

Then you need to explore whether there is a problem with the rational perception that anger is wrong, or whether there is a problem with the emotional cause of your anger. If you want to use rational thinking ability, you must be proficient in using logical reasoning ability and abstract thinking ability.

Step 4: Let it go.

Emotions are a free-flowing energy. If you've been in a certain mood, such as a depressed state. Then it's not the emotion that doesn't let you go, it's that you catch that emotion, it's you who don't let it go.

How do you grasp an emotion? You don't actually grasp that emotional energy with an invisible hand in your heart, and keep it there and don't let it go. You're actually at the level of rational thinking, always grasping an idea.

As soon as this cognition is triggered by external conditions, it transforms the non-attribute energy in the heart into emotional energy. At the same time, if you have that emotional energy in your heart, it will control your mind and think about it over and over again to replenish it.

1.Acceptance - Acceptance is to notice that the other person has emotions, accept him who has emotions and tell the truth.

2.Sharing – Sharing emotions and feelings first, and then sharing things is content.

3.Affirmation - first establish a code of conduct, that is, a clear framework in the outline, which is understandable and acceptable, and affirm the other party on these acceptable parts; Outside the framework are unacceptable or ineffective things that should be clearly pointed out and questioned.

4.Planning - Ask the other person what they want to get, and then work with him to solve the problem. Guide him to develop his own ideas, help him make the best choices, and encourage him to solve problems on his own.

If you want to deal with other people's emotions, it is best to find a way to communicate effectively with them.

It's basically unlikely, all emotional exchanges, there is still a time to appear in the end, but I don't know when, people can't control their emotions. So, no.

Of course, people like me are.

You tell me why you're in a bad mood so that I'll be happy.

Yes, but only when you have time.

Are you a little sister or a little brother.

Just tell her that there are still a lot of good people.

What did you do to hurt her??

I don't want to see it, I don't dare to see it, what comfort do I have.