Why are you nice to others and others not necessarily good to you?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-16
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    <> hope that after reading this little story, you can have some small understanding! Once upon a time there was a very simple egg, very passionate, very innocently combined with stones! The egg thinks that as long as she is good to the stone, the stone will also be good to her!

    What the egg can't imagine is that the more good he is to the stone, the more enthusiastic he is about the stone, and the more he lives with the stone, the more bumps and bumps, the more the egg makes himself scarred, but the egg always believes that as long as he is good to the stone, the stone will be good to himself! So the egg held on with tears in his eyes, endured the pain, and persevered!

    Egg finally one day Egg couldn't stand it anymore, desperate, heartbroken, and chose to leave the stone. Later, the egg was very lucky to meet the cotton, and every hug and every look of the cotton to the egg was so warm and full of love! The egg's heart was warm, and the tears couldn't hold back anymore, wow, and cried happily!

    After crying, the egg finally understood: if you are not good to others, others will be good to yourself, and if you don't work hard and have no regrets and endure regardless of dignity, you can exchange for warmth! Only by choosing the right person to be good to him, and the right person to be good to him, will he become very relaxed and happy, and he will also be good to you and treat you like a treasure!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It was a question of quality and upbringing. If you are good to others, others will thank you or reciprocate politely, this kind of grateful person must be a person with quality and culture, on the contrary, people will think as if it should be, and even if you help him, he will think that you are stupid or stupid, such a person is a person without quality and morality.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's a question that really bothers me.

    Emotionally speaking, others treat me badly, of course I don't want to be good to him, but in many books, I can't repay grievances with virtue, and I feel that my realm is not high.

    Let's see what Confucius said.

    Hao Guangcai, a well-known picture book writer and promoter in Taiwan, adapted the "Analects" and used a story that is easy for children to understand to interpret the words of Confucius, which is "The Master Says", and he also invited Russian illustrator Onikov to draw, with a picture that is a bit like a Hollywood blockbuster, using a giant panda to replace the image of the master.

    The Analects: "Or say: 'How about repaying grievances with virtue?' The son said, "How can you repay virtue?" to repay grievances directly; Repay virtue with virtue. ’”

    Someone asked Confucius, how about I repay the hatred of others with virtue or favor? Confucius said, then you are like this, what do you use to repay the person who is good to you?

    Ancient poems and ancient texts have a kind of concise beauty, but they are a bit far away from children's lives, and it is indeed easy for children to understand and accept the Analects with fairy tales like Hao Guangcai. If parents have the ability, then we can really learn by watching it ourselves, telling the children, discussing it with the children in combination with the scenes in life, and internalizing the knowledge into our own abilities.

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