My way of thinking is very different from everyone else s, and it bothers me

Hello! I don't think your way of thinking is very different from everyone else's.

Because I want to be lonely, introverted, like to play by myself, love literature, and writing are all one of the characteristics of people, which is normal, it can only mean that your personality is like this, and there is nothing wrong with it!

But if you're a little nervous, or obsessed with things, remember the shameful things, I have a few words to tell you:

Don't talk about grief, everyone has their own story.

To live is not to remember yesterday, but to wait for hope.

Let everyone see your strength Forget the past, you can live well, don't say what you love the most Life is still very long, no one can predict tomorrow, maybe your true love is still waiting for you in the next second.

It's none of your business later.

It's your right to forget the past and say what you want to say.

Remember your past calmly and cry.

After crying, leave everything for yesterday and never touch it.

It's not wrong that you think differently from everyone else, because the world doesn't prescribe which idea is correct!

But I think you're a little sentimental.

Literary and artistic workers should be for you!

You hate normal! Don't worry! Thank you!

If you talk to people a little more, you'll find that 8 out of 10 people ...... like thatEveryone can endure a certain amount of loneliness in order to protect themselves – just like you.

But because people are social, they can't endure it in the end—just like you.

Everyone remembers their mistakes, and that's so that they don't make mistakes – like you.

When no one is around, people say something out of relaxation – like you.

Art is a common hobby of human beings, and we all dream of being a writer – like you.

I didn't find anything different from ...... othersWhere do your troubles come from? Be all abroad.

What is normal.

Is it normal to have no cerebral skin in the chest?

<> "Different problems need to be solved with different thinking.

Top thinking. To do business is to sell things, sell things, and earn not wages, but profits.

You want to earn 100w a year, which is a net profit of 100w.

Suppose there is a product with a profit of 300 per order, and if you sell 300 in a month, you can earn 100w in a year.

This goal remains vague. Difficult, but have you noticed that our thinking has begun to change somewhat.

From the beginning of wanting to earn 1 million a year, to now selling 300 products a month.

Top thinking. Let's deduce it directly, and your thinking will soon be different than before.

Build 10 floors, and build 100 floors. It's a completely different approach; An annual income of 10w and an annual income of 100w are completely different thinking. There are many ways to earn 10w a year, work hard, become an executive, or open a small shop as a self-employed person.

But with an annual income of 100w, there is almost only one way - to do business.

Top thinking. This is still a vague goal, not refined into actionable actions, and continues to be deduced.

How to make 300 orders per month?

Then we need to estimate the conversion rate, let's say we know from our peers that the closing rate is around 10%.

That is, for an average of 100 potential customers, there will be 10 deals; If you attract 3,000 traffic every month, there will be 300 transactions.

At this time, the goal is clearer, from earning 1 million a year to attracting 3,000 potential customers a month.

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But this is still a vague goal, and we need to continue to ask how to attract 3,000 fans a month?

The answer to this question is our real course of action. In fact, there are two ways to engage in traffic - make content, or spend money to buy it.

Spending money to buy gods and worshippers is not suitable for novices;

To do content, you can choose to write an article, a sweet potato to post a work, and a certain sound live broadcast. Only by continuously releasing value can we continue to obtain traffic.

At this time, the goal is clearer, from earning 100w a year to outputting content every day. Top thinking.

So you see, a goal, after many breakdowns, finally becomes an action that can be landed - determine the selling point. Output content!

The next thing is to execute it relentlessly, and making money is a matter of course.

Top thinking. Of course, it is difficult to make 1 million, and you may work hard for 2 years, and you can only get 20 potential customers a day, and only 20% of them are achieved.

But "he who seeks above him will find it; Seek one of them, and get it.

200,000 a year, isn't it also a very good achievement?

Learning to make money is more important than how much money you make!

Since you can't change your mother's decision, you need to fundamentally change yourself. After encountering so many problems, I believe that you are very tired physically and mentally, so how to deal with the next problems reasonably is what you need to solve now.

Personally, I think you need a time to stop and think, many problems you can solve in a scientific and efficient way, don't let yourself be too tired, as the pillar of the family, facing difficulties and solving difficulties is the right way to let life continue.

Everyone has their own beliefs, which is true, but over-reliance on the gods will only backfire, you should work hard, opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, for the Buddha God, do not believe in it and do not disrespect it.

You talk to your mother straight to the point, you don't care about what she should be in charge of, just be ruthless. Or maybe you're hooked on other Taoism and you're even crazier than her. You tell her that Jesus can't give her a good life, but she can, not to say that she doesn't believe in Jesus, but just to be sensible.

Your mother is already obsessed with faith This is not a good phenomenon It's all the trouble caused by nothing to do From now on, you should ignore her Everything is cut off All the economy ** is cut off Even if you don't have to eat, are you still in the mood to believe?

Find relatives to persuade her, how to get it like this. If you're an adult, it's best to handle your own affairs, and the elderly seem to be indifferent.

If your mother is superstitious that these activities are illegal, then you can secretly notify the police to question and educate her. If there is no illegal behavior, then you can talk to her solemnly, you can live separately, give her a time to reflect, and control her finances.

Faith is free, as long as it doesn't involve something that shouldn't be involved, such as emmm, it's fine.

It seems that he is a little crazy, and he needs to see a heart doctor, and Xinya is everyone's potential, but if it is said that it is the most basic recently.

Dwelling on the past, fearing failure, worrying about the future.

Then you don't care! I'm tired and tired all day long

That psychiatrist was terrible. Several mistakes were made.

1. You don't have a problem with the way of thinking, but a little bit of paranoia, which is not serious and can be solved.

2. It is not very difficult to change the way of thinking, but the conditions are very special.

3. According to the situation you described, in fact, your biggest problem is that you have a slight depression, which is the first problem to be solved.

I was in the car and it wasn't very convenient. If you have time, you can chat with me in a private message. In fact, if you read more books on mentality, psychology or motivation, you will definitely gain something with your research spirit, and you will hopefully change your current mindset (maybe this is the right word to describe your small problems, not your way of thinking).

Thinking is not formed in a moment, and of course it is not possible to change the long-term way of thinking all at once. Don't worry too much about your thinking being too sharp, maybe you should be glad that you have such a unique way of thinking. With an occasional turn of attention, maybe the tip of the bull's horns at that time can be solved.

Make more friends, including friends of the same sex and the opposite sex; Communicate more and don't keep the problem to yourself.

Hehe, seeing the story you described, I remembered that I had the same doubts as you back then.

I think you should look within yourself, the problem is what you need the most at the moment. Ideologically, you need to learn dialectical theory as a basis for objective analysis of problems.

First, in the face of some complex problems, we must recognize the word objective. First of all, find the problem from yourself, this is your own cognitive attitude.

Second: Objectively analyze and look at your way of thinking.

Did the teacher say that if there is a problem, there is a problem? The teacher is also a human being with his own subjective and conscious point of view, which means that the teacher did not completely convince you, and as a result, the problem is attributed to your thinking problem, and the teacher also has a problem.

Dialectical viewpoint: Your thinking is very active, this is worth affirming, and you also have your own ideas and different conventional ways of thinking, I am personally optimistic about this, because the thinking mode under the Chinese education system for many years is very rare, and it is also the key to affecting personal direction in the future. For your way of thinking, it will be of great help in the future.

Dialectical Argument: This way of thinking, with the current mode of education, you can never step into the door of the ideal university. Can you succumb to the current sheer size of test-oriented education?

Of course you can't. Then you give in, and you can at least 10 years later, and use your free way of thinking. So as to be applied to various fields.

Submission here does not mean that you are completely indoctrinated. It's about keeping your head clear and remembering what you're seeking, and after going through a lot of things, you'll find that a lot of things take some patience to get to where you think you are.

Your teacher didn't explain it to you.

1. The seabed will shake from side to side, and then the sea water near the seabed will also shake from side to side due to the viscosity of the liquid. However, this "shaking" is propagated by the shear stress of seawater, and the attenuation is very fast (exponential attenuation), so it is generally said that the fluid cannot propagate the transverse wave.

2. The propagation of longitudinal waves is propagated by the legal stress generated by the volume relaxation of seawater, (like a dense wave like sound waves), which can be propagated.

Furthermore, because the properties of solids and fluids (liquids, gases) are different, transverse waves can only propagate in solids and cannot propagate in fluids.

Your attitude is correct, but your teacher didn't explain it to you clearly. Maybe your teacher didn't figure it out himself, so you can go somewhere else to find the explanation for the problem...

This doesn't need to be corrected, everything is in accordance with the theory, your mind is very open-minded, it's very good, this way of thinking is the best in society and universities, and exam-oriented education kills people. But when people are under the eaves, they should bow their heads first, and just follow what the teacher said.

It's a problem that the teacher doesn't understand, not you. You can ask someone ...

When you go to society, there is no problem with thinking; When I took the exam, I had a problem with my thinking.

"Smart people" are just more diligent in thinking than normal people, not giving up easily, thinking one more step, and even boldly taking one more step. Recently, there have been many examples around me, and I have always sighed: This man is a cow! , it turns out that the stool can be trapped to have this kind of operation?

Do you think they are really smarter than men? Think about it carefully, in fact, let go of the hardware conditions, not to mention, these seemingly impossible things that these bulls do, I can try to think of, but sometimes lazy + afraid of failure, or don't understand these "crooked ways" (there are many different ways and means to achieve the goal, blame yourself for being too little curiosity and not having the ability to dig).

There is a stupid truth: it is lazy + cowardly, too protective of one's brain cells, and unwilling to go through hardships. Many times when you encounter obstacles, don't be restrained, you want to get on him for a minute, this road is not passable, is there another way to go?

If not, can you copy the "crooked way"? If it doesn't work again, is there any need to negotiate or make changes to others? Try it hard, even if you choose various paths and fail in the end, at least with long experience, you have no regrets.

I still believe that if Zao Qingnian really wants, there is nothing that cannot be done, dare to try, and the easier it is to open up multiple ideas to break the shackles of the traditional framework, and natural people will be smart.

I have always felt that the so-called intelligence is nothing more than clear thinking and a refreshing mind.

When reading a book, the same chapter, a smart person can understand it after reading it once. And many students have a lot of trouble learning. When you explain to them, you will find that things that are very simple in your eyes will involve a lot of concepts when you describe them, and they don't understand or have a biased understanding of these concepts, so if you want to explain A to them, you must first correct their understanding of B, and if you want to correct B, you must first explain ...... C

So I think that everyone's IQ is about the same, and the so-called smart people have always had a very solid foundation, and they learn a knowledge point, which is as simple as adding a brick to a solid wall. And many so-called unintelligent people, but they have a poor foundation, so they learn things slowly, and it is easier to seem to understand what they don't understand, so the foundation is even worse, causing a vicious circle ......

Therefore, smart people have a framework or a net in their minds, and the nodes of this network are clearly distinguished, and the connections between nodes are also very clear. For them, learning is about adding a node to the network. And some people who seem not so smart, they seem to understand all the concepts, and their minds are messy, and when they learn things, the more they learn, the more chaotic and complicated they feel.

In fact, complexity is equal to simplicity and simplicity, and no matter how complex things are, they are composed of simple logic. Sometimes when I encounter something that I can't understand, I tend to forget all the things I know and learn it all over again, reorganize the knowledge points on one side, correct what should be corrected, and make up for what should be made. When everything is in place, the problem is often solved.

In my study career, I found that it is a very dangerous state to seem to understand but not understand, and many students fall into this trap. Learning a new chapter, with their ingenuity, seems to understand it quickly. And often the really smart students seem to be sluggish, in fact, it is not that they are dull, but that the knowledge network in their minds is building a new node and the connection with the side nodes.

Once you succeed, you will really understand the essence of new knowledge, and you will not be able to solve any problem.

For example, some math proof problems, A launches B, C pushes D, and E launches, how do you say those students with high scores found this path? There are classmates who understand every step, but they don't know how to go from A to E. After reading the answer, it seemed that I knew how to go, so I thought I understood, but I didn't.

The difference is that smart students have the network in their heads, and they can go to E and A, and they will launch it step by step. Since then, an intuition has been established in my mind that the two points A and E have a pathway and can be connected directly.