What should I do in the face of my current boyfriend s ex girlfriend who is prettier than me?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-30
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Why did her former girlfriend take the initiative to ask to get back together with him?

    Do they also keep in touch more often? You can imagine it......Since it is an ex-girlfriend who has passed, you must be uncomfortable if you confess to him. Why did he tell you that? Obviously, he now has a sense of superiority in his heart, a sense of showing off.

    You don't have to pay attention to him, you can watch for a while.

    You ask him what he wants to do. If he says he wants to talk to you, then you say, well, about your ex-girlfriend, it's best to mention it less in the future, and you yourself avoid contact with her.

    If he's okay with that, he'll continue. If you keep messing around with things that don't make sense. Just dump him, otherwise continue to be together, and his character will be a matter in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My boyfriend told me that the first condition for a man to like a woman is directly related to her appearance, but some women with charm and connotation are more attractive!

    So you have to be confident, find out your own strengths and weaknesses, and then find out her strengths and weaknesses, and believe that you are always better than her!

    Just because they can't be together means they don't have the point to keep going, so now you're the main character!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You see that the soldier who saved people was not a soldier So, you can rest assured about his personality problem Since you like it, continue to eat His girlfriend is nothing.

    Tell me his girlfriend's QQ and I'll chase her hehey (more insidious tricks).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your boyfriend's ex is beautiful, which means that your boyfriend has a good eye, but they have broken up, and no matter how beautiful they are, they don't have anything to do with your boyfriend, so you don't need to care so much.

    If a woman starts to care about her boyfriend's ex, it means that the woman is not confident in herself and is afraid that her boyfriend will be with her lover, so if you want to put an end to such thoughts, girls must give themselves more encouragement, and at the same time, they must give each other more information, because you are now boyfriend and girlfriend, and you are the boyfriend's current one, so you have to believe in your own strength, don't think that your boyfriend's ex is beautiful, you have some panic, you have to believe in yourself, Also believe in wishing a boyfriend, and the two of you are now together and are already real boyfriend and girlfriend, so you don't need to care about what happened before, you just need to live the present well.

    No matter how good and beautiful the ex is, it's a thing of the past, so what we should do is to live the present and make ourselves the happiest person, and we don't need to care too much about each other's past, because the more you know, the more hurt you will suffer, because that past without your existence, you will feel particularly uncomfortable, so don't think about it so much, and live your current day well is the most important thing.

    I hope that every girl can be confident in herself, even if your boyfriend's ex is very beautiful, you have to tell yourself that he is now your boyfriend, you are his girlfriend, and the two of you are now boyfriend and girlfriend, so you must believe in your own strength, and also believe in your favorite boyfriend, so that the relationship between the two of you will last for a long time, don't care too much about those things in the past, and don't ask too much, asking too much will only make you unhappy, It won't bring you any benefit at all, I hope everyone is happy and happy, and don't be unhappy because of some small things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No matter how beautiful you are, you have become an ex, in fact, there is really no need to dwell on this issue.

    There is a saying; "People are not beautiful to be lovely, but to be lovely to be beautiful. "In addition to beauty, the real charm of a person is more important than the comprehensive embodiment of wisdom, knowledge, character, pattern and other aspects.

    As the old saying goes; "Ugly wife and treasure in the family" means that the wife who is not beautiful is also a treasure in the family, and this is because the virtue of the ugly wife brings good luck to the family, the man.

    Like we've all heard of it"Raise your eyebrows" story. is talking about Liang Hong, a famous genius in the Eastern Han Dynasty.

    and his wife Meng Guang.

    The story, Liang Hong is a handsome guy and a talented man who reads poetry and books, and many families at that time wanted to marry their daughters to him. But he fell in love with the rough-looking Meng Guang alone.

    Life after marriage is still poor, although Liang Hong has a talent, but because of his indifferent temperament to fame and fortune, not good at speculative management, has been wandering outside the career economy, and Meng Guang has always been by her husband's side, doing her best to take care of her husband's life. Even though the days of coarse tea and light rice are very hard, they have always respected each other and respected each other.

    Legend has it that whenever he eats, his wife Meng Guang will raise the plate with the food to the level of his eyebrows, and respectfully invite her husband to eat, and Liang Hong is also very polite to take it with both hands, this is"The origin of the allusion.

    We said that with Liang Hong's conditions at that time, he could marry a beautiful woman as a companion, and the reason why Liang Hong chose Meng Guang, who was not good-looking, was because of Meng Guang's indifferent, simple, virtuous and virtuous qualities. The beauty of a face is temporary, but the inner good qualities of a person can be like a rising star in a long life.

    Lighting up the dark night will also bring warmth and strength to the people around you, a good wife.

    Isn't that the case for husbands?

    So if your boyfriend's ex is beautiful, even if you may just be a mediocre-looking person now, then don't be ashamed of yourself, I believe you must have something very shining that your boyfriend thinks your ex-girlfriend doesn't have. Such as your kindness, wisdom, and so on.

    All you have to do is to constantly enrich yourself, strengthen yourself, and enhance your personality.

    Let him love you even more!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think there's anything, no matter how beautiful her boyfriend is, she still chooses to be with me. A woman has a beautiful face, and if she doesn't have the strength, she won't be liked by her boyfriend all the time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have to recognize the reality, that is your boyfriend's past, and now it is you who are with your boyfriend, you don't care if that person is beautiful or not, and don't affect your own emotions because of others

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think I have anything to do with myself, no matter how beautiful the other party is, he has become an ex, it's a thing of the past, and the most important thing is to cherish the current relationship between the two people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I didn't particularly care about it, because I thought that if he broke up with his ex, it meant that the two of them no longer had any feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When we know that our ex is looking for a girlfriend, we will inevitably have a secret rivalry in our hearts. When we know that our ex has found a girlfriend who is uglier than ourselves, every girl will have a strong sense of superiority.

    The ex's girlfriend is uglier than herself, the feelings of a girlWhen an ex has a new girlfriend, most girls compare themselves to their ex's girlfriend. Girls always like to compare their appearance with other girls, and their ex's girlfriend is uglier than themselves, and every girl will have some sense of superiority. A girl who knows that her ex's girlfriend is uglier than herself will not only have a sense of superiority, but will also secretly compare with her ex's girlfriend in other ways.

    Some girls will be more relieved after a breakup, and girls who can completely let go will feel that they were really blind at the beginning, how could they look at their ex, and they will also feel that their ex's girlfriend is a little pitiful. And there are some girls who are still in love, they can't let go, they will compare their appearance and the gap between themselves and their ex's girlfriends, and they will constantly question this girl** is good with me, obviously she looks better, why did her ex choose her instead of being with her.

    Different girls have different attitudes towards their ex's girlfriend, and their ex's girlfriend is uglier than themselves, and many girls will feel that they have won their ex. Although they don't have an ex, most girls don't use their ex as a measure of superiority. If there is a girl with a partner, and the ex's girlfriend is uglier than herself, such a girl will feel that her current life is very good, and she will feel that the girlfriend she found by her ex is not as good as herself, and she will be secretly happy in her heart.

    But girls who don't have a partner are not easy to let go of more sorrowful.,Although you will feel that you have won your ex.,But without the company of a new boyfriend, it will be more or less confident.。

    Everyone will have different feelings when they encounter the same thing, when you know that your ex's girlfriend is uglier than you, what kind of feelings will you feel in your heart?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Based on the situation described in the question, I think there are a few possibilities.

    1. It may be that your ex-boyfriend thinks that you are the most beautiful in his heart, and in order to maintain your most beautiful psychological image, he will not accept a person who is more beautiful than you as his girlfriend.

    2. It may be that your ex-boyfriend thinks it's useless to be pretty, just like you, but later they broke up.

    3. It may be that your ex-boyfriend thinks that he can't tie the heart of a beautiful girl, just like you.

    4. It may be that the girlfriend you are looking for behind your ex-boyfriend attracts him in some ways, and finding a girlfriend is not just about looks.

    5. It may be that you think that others are uglier than you, and there are many aspects of beauty, and you only pay attention to the purest beauty.

    6. Maybe you are really beautiful, and it is not easy to find a girl who is more beautiful than you.

    In conclusion, there may be a number of reasons for the situation as described in the question.

    Suggest that you have broken up and let go of the feelings you once had, you should let go of your attention. Start your own life. If you're still in love with your ex-boyfriend, it's going to be painful.

    I'm sorry, I didn't see your question supplement before, so I did the above, and now I'm adding: based on your supplement, it's very likely that you're a less mature woman. Extroverted and non-mainstream type.

    And your ex-boyfriend is probably about the same type as you. Such an eye-catching pairing breakup is a certainty. There's not much to say.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think there will be a little bit of excitement in my heart, if my ex finds a girlfriend who is uglier than himself, then I will feel extremely happy in my heart, and I feel that my boyfriend has lost a lot.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe it's a little unwilling. Because the girlfriend I am looking for is not as beautiful as myself, I must be unbalanced in my heart, and I feel that my ex belongs to the blind category.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, a person's appearance is not important, what matters is the person's heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a very complicated feeling. On the one hand, I feel that he would rather break up with me if he finds such an ugly girlfriend, and on the other hand, he feels that this girlfriend is not as good-looking as himself, and he still has advantages.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know what kind of mentality my ex should look at if he finds a girlfriend who is not very pretty, I think that since the breakup, he doesn't want to comment on everything anymore, and he no longer cares about whether his future wife is beautiful or ugly, a boy or a girl, and what her job is, all these questions have nothing to do with me. After a breakup, no longer contact each other and not bothering each other, this is the best way to get along with each other, and I hope that the other person can do that.

    I hope that the other party can be happy and have a new start in life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, it should be a very happy feeling, indicating that his ex's vision is getting worse and worse.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    An inappropriate relationship will eventually have a time when it can't endure, and the two can't come together and can wave goodbye in the end. What do you do in the moments after you break up? There are a lot of memories between you, whenever you eat or go shopping, recalling the previous moments when he was by your side, it is inevitable that there will be some sadness in your heart.

    And the ** in the mobile phone, that is your eternal memorial, what will you do with these ** after breaking up?

    Some people will keep it as a memento, after all, they love each other, and there is grace between the two of them, and they teach each other many things and truths. If this is unacceptable for your new girlfriend, I think you should consider the possibility of you being together. If it were me, I wouldn't object to my boyfriend leaving his ex-girlfriend's **, keeping it as a souvenir and proving that you really love it.

    I don't care how good your past is, I just need you to be good to me now.

    Even if you tear up your ex-girlfriend's ** in front of your new girlfriend, you shouldn't secretly think of her when passing by somewhere. Nor should anything come to mind in mind. So, you might as well generously tell your new girlfriend and leave her ** as a souvenir!

    Because I want to cherish you even more! In fact, everyone has a past, and a ** does not mean anything, some are just beautiful memorials. After all, it's the person you love, so be kind to someone else's.

    If you don't have that memory, or if you want to start a new life, then we can respect your choice to delete **. Because it's an inevitable thing, and you don't want to stay in the shadow of the past and not be able to get out, it's all up to you. That's it, hope.

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