The doctor s boyfriend has poor emotional intelligence, why is the highly educated man so stupid?

<> I am a young woman of literature and art, and I like to drink coffee and read famous books in my spare time. Because of this, I am full of romantic and sweet longing for love, I believe in love at first sight, and longing to meet my true love one day, inadvertently, and love each other forever. It is because of this naïve thinking that I am still alone at the age of 30.

My family was heartbroken by my personal problems, and everyone in my family talked to me about things except blind dates and marriages.

Last year, under the help of my family, I met my boyfriend Luo Hao. That day, in the western restaurant, I didn't have a good impression of him at first sight: he was dark and thin, wearing a slightly wrinkled white shirt, and he was still wearing a tie on a hot day, which looked a little funny.

The introducer, Aunt Li, enthusiastically introduced to me, praising him for being smart and capable, having been admitted to a doctorate at a young age, working in a scientific research institution, and earning hundreds of thousands of dollars a year. The mother nodded again and again while listening, and Aunt Li took the opportunity to say: "If young people have something to say together, we won't join in the fun."

Let's go, let's find a place for tea and our old sisters. ”

I was left alone with him, and the atmosphere suddenly became dull. He took the initiative to find a topic to talk to, tried his best to please me, and kept getting close to me, and I had to ask and answer him out of politeness. After staying on pins and needles for half an hour, I offered to go first, but Luo Hao insisted on seeing me off.

The road was under construction, and there was a mix of people and vehicles, but he always walked on my outside and kept me firmly inside. This small detail makes me feel that he is still a very careful man.

In this way, Luo Haoruo and I were in a relationship. Half a year ago, I went back to his house with him to meet his parents, and I could feel that his parents liked me very much, and his father's words showed the intention of urging us to get married at any time. In the same way, my family is also very optimistic about us, and both parents are also in the family.

Just when I was preparing for the wedding, Luo Hao suddenly called ** and told me that he didn't want to think about getting married now, so I asked me to find a suitable boy again. He said he couldn't afford the happiness I wanted.

Luo Hao's attitude surprised me very much, and I asked again and again to find out that his family thought that I was not compatible with him, and I would not be happy if I got married. It just so happened that his dad fell ill during that time, and his family counted the problem on me. Listening to my boyfriend's words, I really couldn't laugh or cry, a highly educated intellectual, actually believed in these idealistic things.

At that moment, I smiled and tilted my head, just afraid that tears would flow down and let him see my vulnerability. At parting, he kissed me fiercely, ignoring my struggles, and he said, he just made me hate him so that I would never forget him. Later, I left crying, and instead of coming up to chase me, he sent me a message, and he told me to forget about him and find my happiness as soon as possible.

I've invested a lot in this relationship, I can't let go easily at all, I'm in pain right now, I don't have the confidence to continue living, I'm struggling in pain, this feeling is really tiring......

I think I can still fall in love with him, my friend's future development is very good, and the employment is also very good, and it will definitely become very good in the future.

I shouldn't be in a relationship with him, although she has a relatively high education, but his family conditions are very poor, and there will be all kinds of conflicts when two people fall in love.

Yes, falling in love is a matter of two people, and it is possible to fall in love, after all, the other party is indeed a capable person.

Forget it, leave it to the good girls!

Men think it's terrible for women to read too much. I can't fool her, and I can't fight her by talking. At home, are you tired of fighting wits and courage every day?

She's got a Ph.D., and you're only an undergraduate. When you say it, you feel inferior to yourself. It's as if, this academic qualification becomes the content that the other party can despise you.

So, it is difficult for female doctors to find a boyfriend.

Do a good job in the above points, I believe that you with a high degree of education will be able to successfully get off the list!

Because for doctors, they are already arrogant, they can't accept that their girlfriend is better than themselves, and they feel that they have robbed a man's self-esteem.

In fact, the main reason for not wanting to have a girlfriend with too high education is that if the girlfriend has too high education, then the male doctor will feel very pressured, and the two people will be prone to disagreement when they communicate together.

The male doctor is reluctant to find a girlfriend with too high an education because one mountain does not tolerate two tigers, and the male doctor is unwilling to let his girlfriend's knowledge overwhelm him.

Because they feel that if they find a girlfriend with too high education, it will be particularly difficult for the two of them to communicate, and even he will be careful.

Girls with too high a degree of education will be more proud. It's more indifferent, maybe it's because I've seen a lot, so I don't want to continue dating girls with high education.

The doctor's boyfriend is like a hamster with no abilities of his own. The owner needs to have love, regular feeding, regular walks, or an unstable sense of self, sometimes awake, sometimes in a trance, and one does not like to look at you.

Emotions fluctuate violently with research progress, often with self-doubt and self-denial. Instead of helping the pet solve the problem, the owner tries to give the pet plenty of feed (such as a variety of nuts that are easy to store and hungry for). Then wait for him**.

There's a good chance you won't be able to pick up ** back to WeChat, so don't bother to think about it because he hasn't been abused by his boss and is being abused by his boss. Then contact and remember to comfort him. This is especially important to learn to be comforted.

I don't have time to find my girlfriend because I'm too busy. When my girlfriend introduced me, I thought she was weak, or I was weird. NowIf I had a girlfriend, I wanted her to appreciate my personality rather than a degree, and if she wasn't a PhD, she shouldn't be pressured to some degreeI also don't deliberately show my education.

She and I should appreciate each other, personality, and even appearance. It's a feeling from the heart.

As a regular dog, I go to the lab at 8:30 every day and return to the dorm at 11 pm. In addition to eating, taking a lunch break, and chatting with me in the evening, I am also doing research and weekends.

In addition to group meetings, football, badminton, swimming, cycling, parties, etc., are all scientific studies and research。That diligence, that self-discipline, made him not so smart, he used to be a good student, and now he is the little master of the lazy family - I, envy to death.

Oh, and I also saw him change from a little boy to a bald man. Every time I show him **, I have to explain that I'm not blind......