On a blind date, how do guys chat with girls they haven t met?

Don't talk about heavy topics.

Don't just ask questions to promote understanding, let alone be curious about those issues such as broken love, breakups, and unemployment, and even if you are really curious, please wait until you are more familiar with them.

Please smile again with a smile of the sunshine.

A real smile is not as simple as an upturned mouth, but a relaxed and measured muscle movement. Studies have found that the infection effect of a toothy smile is nearly 30% higher than that of a pursed mouth smile, don't worry about your crooked teeth, 70% of Asian men say: they like girls who smile often and have small tiger teeth!

And women like to see the sunny side of men.

Be bold and make your own deep moves.

Just like Julie and Pete, men are always so vicissitudes, women are always so gorgeous, in fact, you can also have your own profound movements, but don't be too pretentious, if you really can't find a good signature move, then you might as well give each other a deep back.

Believe that the first sense magnifies the sixth sense.

When the first sense tells you that the person in front of you is worth continuing to associate and get along, you should amplify your sixth sense in a timely manner, and when both the first sense and the sixth sense are working, you should know what to do next.

Quickly find the intersection with the other party.

If you meet someone who is very different from your experience and has a diametrically opposed mindset, and you can't find a common topic, you should repeat the other person's point of view appropriately to show that you are on the same page as him. In this way, the other person will have a sense of self-satisfaction and a double affection for you!

Minimize gestures and spoken words when speaking.

Casual gestures and verbal words when speaking will reveal your inner feelings, and if the other person is a person who is well-versed in psychology, your tension will be caught in an instant, and you will lose a series of advantages and initiatives.

Lower your strengths and value the other person's expertise.

Don't just show off your strengths, which will make the other person feel depressed, you can ask more questions about his hobbies and expertise, which will also arouse your desire to talk about new topics and exchanges.

Psychosocial research found that 27% of unsuccessful blind dates stem from the embarrassing situation of one party talking a lot and the other party being speechless! In life, people with diametrically opposed personalities can also become lovers, girlfriends, or confidants, but for the first meeting, both parties are not familiar with each other, and everything should be ...... from scratch and the principle of absolute fairness

1. Avoid selling yourself too much to the other party.

Too many parents will make the other party feel that you are an emotional dependent, and once you encounter unsatisfactory problems in the future, you will find him to vomit bitterness! With this negative psychological defense, few people are willing to engage deeply with you. On the contrary, when you meet for the first time, if you only talk about the personal situation and only talk about it, it can leave a sense of mystery to the other party, and look forward to meeting you next time!

2. Always leave time for the other party to speak, fully respect his right to speak, and social psychology research has found that 27% of unsuccessful blind dates stem from the embarrassing situation of one party talking a lot and the other party being speechless! In life, people with diametrically opposed personalities can also become lovers, girlfriends, or confidants, but for the first meeting, both parties are not familiar with each other, and everything should be ...... from scratch and the principle of absolute fairnessIt is recommended that you try to leave time for the other person to speak during the conversation, so that people can feel that you are considerate and equal.

3. Eyes are focused on the other party's "triangle" wandering.

The triangle formed by the center of the eyebrows and the two cheekbones as the bottom angles is called the "focus area" by psychologists. When talking to the other person, if your gaze is constantly wandering away from this "triangle", it will give people the impression that they are being strongly focused and you are the focus, which will make people feel good about you! On the other hand, if you stare into the other person's eyes, it will make him hostile in the first place.

Summary. Blind date but not met, the first time the girl can take the initiative to chat, because the girl takes the initiative to understand the blind date, which is face-saving for men.

Blind date but didn't meet, do girls want to take the initiative to chat.

Blind date but not met, the first time the girl can take the initiative to chat, because the girl takes the initiative to understand the blind date, which is face-saving for men.

Girls can first let boys introduce themselves more to grasp more information, and boys will show their performance to win the favor of girls, so that there will be follow-up opportunities.

He said that he would talk again in the evening, but he didn't speak again, which showed that this boy didn't pay attention to blind dates, so he ignored him first.

Don't go after him. If he comes to talk to you, you talk again. If you don't come, forget it.

Okay, thank you, teacher.

Missing this flower of yours is his loss. Girls must value their self-worth.

After the blind date, the boy did not contact you directly, and there was no follow-up contact, which already means that the boy is not very satisfied with you, so the blind date failed。If you don't take the initiative on a blind date, it may be that in the process of eating and chatting, the man is looking for a topic, and you basically don't take the initiative to communicate, it's too embarrassing to come and play, so give up, and then it may simply not take a fancy to it, and feel that you don't waste each other's time, just be polite after eating. Then it may be that the introducer gave **, but there was no meeting, there was a call**, and WeChat was added after chatting, but the woman's was basically more perfunctory, or in the process of WeChat chatting, today's chat was very good, but on the second day or when there was a sudden coldness, and often sent messages without replying.

In fact, the blind date is very straightforward, look at this boy or this girl, whether it is suitable for me, if it is not suitable, don't delay each other's time, and continue to meet with another object。Some boys may be more sluggish, do not know how to take the initiative to contact girls, I have a teacher, he married late, after work I learned that he was also a blind date many times, but every time after meeting there was no movement, and finally because the woman couldn't hold his breath, after taking the initiative to contact him, the two became, now he often picks up his daughter, and has also seen him ride a bicycle in the morning to buy groceries. It is said that on the last blind date, my teacher knew that he still had to contact the woman after the blind date.

If you're really not sure, what's going on with the lack of news from the man's side? Maybe he suddenly has something to do now, is busy with work, or asks the southern side through a matchmaker, if he really doesn't like it and doesn't want to continue to get along, then forget it.

If you think that the boy is a more introverted and shy boy when you go on a blind date, and you also think that this blind date is more suitable, then you can also try to contact him to see what is going on on his side.

I don't feel good about your appearance.

It is a man's instinct to judge people by their appearance, and the beautiful mushroom must make a man fall in love at first sight. Therefore, if the man has not contacted the woman again, it is because he has not taken a fancy to your appearance at first sight. Of course, different people have different aesthetic views, but they must be beautiful.

Note that beauty here refers to outward beauty, and inner beauty requires great courage and long-term contact to know.

How can you tell if he's happy with your appearance? Look at how he chats with you when he meets. For example, he will be very nervous during the meeting, his movements will be stiff, and he will speak incoherently, which is instinctive!

Unless he is used to seeing beautiful women, then why did he come on a blind date? On the other hand, if he sees you, talks rhetorically, and chats with friends and buddies, it is very likely that he feels the same way about you; If he moves very casually and doesn't even bother to say anything, then I'm sorry, he's taking care of your face and waiting for you to end this meeting.

Satisfied with your appearance, there was no news after a few days of contact.

In this case, I guess it is usually done by the beautiful woman herself. For example, if he chats with you, you seem very arrogant, and there is a reply without a match, then the man will guess if he is not interesting to me, and it feels like coping. There is no grass at the end of the world, although you are beautiful, but I can't force it, then be interesting, forget it.

So beauties, men also want face, if you think it's okay, then take the initiative, it's time to go on a blind date, don't hide it, everyone comes together for the same dream, why should women bother men?

Work is so busy that it forgets you.

If he is a busy person, he can have thousands or hundreds of contacts in one mobile phone, and he is tired of dealing with these contacts endlessly. is still the same sentence, everyone is so busy with work now, unless you really amaze him, and the first impression of the blind date attracts him ......