How do I apply to my boyfriend to get married?

Men and women should get married, whenever men and women reach a certain age of marriage, there will be an urge to get married, in the TV series or movies we often see, there will be some touching marriage proposal scenes, that sentence let's get married, so that many people feel blood boiling, and they are also moved to tears, but the reality is often skinny, so we may not be able to wait until Prince Charming to propose, may have to miss the best age for marriage, at this time what we need to do is to win with skills, Let the one you love willingly enter the marriage hall with you.

Traditionally, marriage proposals are things that men will do, so we will think that a woman needs to be reserved, and only when the man comes to propose, can she slowly agree, but now men are very stressed people, many times, they dare not easily propose marriage, so what we need to do is to put our marriage on the agenda, don't just wait in place, and attack at the right time, so that we can better realize our desire to get married.

If you want to get married with your boyfriend, you can't be too direct, if you say let's get married, the man will think that you are too anxious and snatch the lines that originally belonged to him, so he may be scared away by you. So you need to make a noise, take him shopping often, and then pretend to pass by the bridal shop once in a while, and if he is indifferent, you can point at random and praise the wedding dress for being beautiful, and if your boyfriend really cares about you, he will definitely ask you if he likes it, or he will think you want to get married.

Of course, you can also use other ways to make this request, such as often mentioning your married relatives and friends, and then telling him about those interesting things after marriage, and when he is interested in you, maybe he will suddenly say: Let's get married.

I don't know what kind of personality your boyfriend is, if he is a more cheerful person, then you don't have to be restrained, you are planning to get married, and there are still many things that need to be communicated directly face-to-face in the future, so you can ask him directly, is it time to marry a wife and go home?

If your boyfriend is more introverted, and you don't think it's easy to communicate with this kind of thing, then you indirectly ask him if he wants to have a child, because having a child means that the relationship between the two is not ordinary. If your boyfriend says take it slowly, I think he may be worried about the money for the child to raise, so you just ask him if he married you first?

I think if it gets to the point where it is suitable, it is impossible for your boyfriend not to think of marrying you, and it may be more because the time is not ripe enough, maybe because he can't afford to support you and fulfill the responsibility of being a husband, you can also wait a little longer and give him some time to perfect his abilities, because marriage is also your big event after all.

After a certain stage of the relationship, the girl will be younger than the boy and want to get married, and then if you want to tell your boyfriend, you want to get married. There are several ways to do this.

1. Ask your boyfriend directly, when will we have a home of our own.

Second, take him to watch the wedding photo advertisement together, and tell him which store is doing an event recently, and which store has a friend who has taken beautiful wedding photos.

3. Dragged him to a friend's wedding, and told him in a very envious tone, "Oh, she is so happy, I want to cry when I am moved, I don't know when I will be so happy." ”

If your boyfriend wants to marry you, he'll understand you in seconds.

If it were me, I would tell him, you see that my good friend has already obtained a certificate with her boyfriend, I am so envious! Then wait for your boyfriend to pick it up!

You can tell him, I don't want to be your girlfriend anymore, I want to have a home with you.

Personally, I don't think you should agree to your boyfriend's request for the time being, and the main reasons are as follows.

First: Marriage is a very important thing, it is related to the life of two people in the next few decades, and I see that the problem you raised is that your boyfriend asks you to get a license first and then consider the details of marriage, I think this is very hasty, without sufficient thought and preparation, and the process seems to be relatively unremarkable, so if you get married in such a situation, the result is often unsatisfactory.

Second: everything needs to be planned, the ancients said that this is the case for a rainy day, especially for something as big as getting married now, if you don't plan in advance, you are not ready, and you will be very passive in doing things later. For example, when to hold a wedding after marriage, when to have a child, and the bride price.

Some details of marriage, house purchase, etc., all need to be fully considered, and only when these things are fully prepared can we talk about this stage of marriage. Obtain a marriage certificate.

It's very simple, you only need to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau, take a picture, and spend some money to get it, but the most difficult thing to do is the things behind, the process of marriage is very complicated, and a little bad handling will cause contradictions, so before getting married, it is best to think clearly about what should be done in the future, make a plan, and schedule, so that the process of marriage will be smoother when it is processed and implemented according to the plan.

Third: What is your boyfriend's motives, this is very important, directly get a marriage certificate, a bit like a script of raw rice cooked rice, marriage is such a big thing, you need to discuss it with your family, if you encounter difficulties later, some things can't be communicated, or the problem can't be solved to the back is very difficult to do, this is not a child's house, unlike playing games that want to end when you want to, if you want to play, don't play, this is a major thing in life.

Based on some of the above considerations, I think it is best not to agree to this request and communicate some things and situations of marriage in advance, so that you will have a very good wedding experience.

My boyfriend asked you to get a license with him, and then talk about the details of the marriage, I don't think you should agree to him.

Judging from the title, your boyfriend has a feeling of cutting first and then playing, and even saying that your boyfriend has another idea about marriage, and anyone who gets a license first and then talks about the details of marriage is a hooligan, and getting a certificate is the best guarantee for the legitimacy of marriage.

Men and women in love are easily paralyzed by each other's sweet words, I have a friend who loved each other too much at that time, because they were both out of town, and then planned to get a license first, and then wait for the holiday to go home to discuss the details of marriage. As a result, not long after receiving the certificate, the man's various shortcomings were revealed.

First of all, the man does not have the enthusiasm before falling in love, he feels that he has obtained the certificate, the woman is his person, and there is no need to be like the momentum of the crazy pursuit at the beginning, and the woman is more like her worker, because the south thinks that the certificate has been obtained, and the woman will be responsible for housework, cooking, etc.

Secondly, because of the certificate, the man can justifiably cohabit with the woman, but although they live together, the two become strangers! The most important thing is that in such a situation, it is often the woman who suffers.

Finally, when it comes to talking about the details of marriage, because the certificate has been obtained, the woman is often at a disadvantage when talking about the details, and the man feels that he has already obtained the certificate, so there is no need to do so many details, which is both tiring and wasting money.

It's not that the details of getting a certificate to talk about marriage are hooligans, everyone is equal in marriage, as a woman, the family also hopes that you can find a good husband and have a happy family, but this degree must be mastered, because if you dispute this matter too much, the man will think that you will not be a lion, and the asking price for the details of the marriage, if you don't handle it well, it is easy to make the marriage yellow. Therefore, I think it is more appropriate to talk about the details of marriage first and then get a certificate.

You shouldn't agree to him, because if you promise the other party and the other party gets the certificate, the two of you are legally husband and wife, and they won't give you a wedding and give you bride price.

He should not be promised, because the two people did not negotiate the details, which would be prone to conflicts, and they should negotiate the details before getting the certificate.

Personally, I think that if this situation is encountered, then you should not easily agree to your boyfriend, because marriage has been discussed with your parents.

If you don't agree, why don't you talk about the details of the marriage and get the certificate after the wedding? What is he afraid of, or what is he calculating?

Why don't you go through the process and then apply for a marriage certificate?

Summary. Hello, I think it is still a big risk for girls to get the certificate first, and they must have been agreed after discussing with both parents, and they have already begun to prepare for the wedding before getting the certificate.

Otherwise, if two people can't get the certificate to the end, it will have a great impact on both people. So the stakes are significant.

I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you a happy life

My boyfriend wants to get the certificate with me first.

Hello, I think it is still a big risk for girls to get the certificate first, and they must have been agreed after discussing with both parents, and they have already begun to prepare for the wedding before getting the certificate. Otherwise, if two people can't get the certificate to the end, it will have a great impact on both people. So the stakes are significant.

I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you a happy life

My boyfriend and I were breaking up and getting married during this time, because I did something wrong before, and I was found chatting with others, but I changed it later, but he couldn't get by, plus he had opinions about my parents, and my parents also had opinions about him, I was caught in the middle and didn't know what to do, I was reluctant to break up, don't divide it, my fault is that my boyfriend can't get by, and my parents and boyfriend have opinions.

I also know that I have a lot of things to do, and suddenly I find myself stressed.

He must have a knot in his heart, and he may not trust you so much.

And if he and your parents both have opinions about each other, then they should resolve the conflict between each other before talking about marriage, otherwise you will be very hurt if you are caught in the middle.

He said there was no going back.

I'm so annoyed that I don't know what to do.

I often quarrel with each other.

Then do you really still love him very much in your heart, this is very important, if you get married like this, it will be difficult to be happy in the future.

I don't love him very much now, and I can't accept it for a while, maybe I will regret it in the future, but the two do always quarrel together, he thinks he's right, I think I'm wronged, hey.

This will definitely make you feel aggrieved, he is forcing you to do this kind of hair. And it will also make you feel like you're making your own choices.

And if he has always had the intention to get married, then even if he gets a marriage certificate, he will still be haunted, which is very unfair to you.

In love, only after fully understanding each other, can we determine whether it is the person we will be with for a lifetime. So, what is the psychology of a man if he proposes to get a license? What does it mean if my boyfriend wants to get a certificate? Come with me and take a look.

First, the psychology of men proposing to obtain certificates

1. Identify you.

The man took the initiative to get the certificate, and the first psychology may be to identify the woman as the person he wants to work with for the rest of his life. In this case, it is generally logical to get a marriage certificate, the relationship between both parties is very stable, and the parents have no meaning for the marriage, and the woman will be full of surprises and touches.

2. Trap you.

And there are some men, in the relationship between the two has not actually developed to a very mature point, or when the two parties have not yet negotiated the bride price, dowry, etc., they are anxious to get the certificate. Then the biggest possibility is to quickly trap the woman and use the marriage certificate as a constraint.

Second, what does the boyfriend want to explain if he wants to get the certificate

1. Be responsible.

Getting married means running a family from now on. If your boyfriend wants to get a certificate, it actually shows that he is a more responsible man, not afraid of responsibility, and is willing to take his share of responsibility for you.

2. I want to be stable.

For men, getting a marriage license is actually a process of settling down. After getting married and starting a family, their entire life will be much more stable, from career to family, there will rarely be a time of wandering and turbulence. If you want to get a certificate, it means that this prodigal son wants to live in peace.

3. Sincere feelings.

Making the next decision to spend your life with another person is not easy. If your boyfriend wants to get a certificate, then it can also mean that he really has a lot of feelings for you, and this feeling is so strong that he is willing to be with each other for a lifetime, and make a vow to grow old and live for a lifetime. Conclusion:

As the first and only procedure in life, the marriage registration authority will review the documents and declarations submitted by both parties, and if the marriage registration conditions are met, the registration will be approved. Obviously, many people will forget what to do because of the nervousness of the day, okay, okay, let's talk about the process of obtaining the certificate and some related precautions.

1. What are the procedures for getting a marriage certificate with your boyfriend?

1. Conditions for applying for a marriage certificate that imitates the coarse joke.

1) Both men and women must marry voluntarily (at their own discretion).

2) Age of marriage: 22 years old for men. Female: 20 years of age or older.

3) Neither party has a spouse (unmarried, divorced, widowed). Included.

4) There is no direct blood relationship between the two parties and collateral blood relatives within three generations (independent prompting).

2. Documents required for marriage certificate.

1) My permanent residence booklet and resident ID card.

2) I do not have a spouse certificate.

3) The parties submit 3 2-inch recent half-length bareheaded color photos** (can be taken on the spot).

3. Handling procedures.

1) The man and woman who require marriage registration shall jointly apply to the marriage registration authority of the district or county-level civil affairs bureau (or town people**) of one party's permanent residence with the required documents.

2) Both parties apply in person to the marriage registration authority, and each fill in a "Declaration of Application for Marriage Registration".

3) Both parties must sign or fingerprint in person in the "Declaration of Application for Marriage Registration" in front of the marriage registrar.

4) The marriage registration authority shall review the documents and statements submitted by both parties, and if the conditions for marriage registration are met, the registration shall be approved.

2. Precautions

1. First of all, it is necessary to determine the date of planning to receive the marriage certificate, if it is on Valentine's Day on February 14 or September 9 and July 7, it is best to make an online appointment in advance on the official website of the local Civil Affairs Bureau.

2. After determining the date, it is necessary to prepare the information required for obtaining the certificate, generally speaking, it is the ID card, the household registration book, as long as the ID card is within the validity period, as long as it is the household registration book, if the information of the household registration book has not been updated for a long time, it is best to check it first, check whether the police station where the household registration is located has changed, if there is a change, the Civil Affairs Bureau needs you to modify the household registration book.

3. Try to go as early as possible when getting the certificate to save time waiting in line. Because of the ** marriage certificate, you should also pay attention to the dress on the day of the certificate.

4. Generally, when taking the wedding vow, he will ask you if you want to record or take pictures, this is best not, one is because he is a stool for a separate fee, and then because the quality of video and photography is particularly poor, and he is in a bad mood because of the money, so try to avoid additional expenses on the spot.

Nowadays, it is a society with a legal system, and many things closely related to life are inseparable from the law, so we should have some understanding of some ordinary legal knowledge.