Should I pay back the 10w block of the bride price?

I flipped back and watched it again, I think it's okay if you're angry and upset, because you don't know about it at all, but your husband is really very ignorant, what qualifications does he have to think that his family is too much??? He didn't know how he got married??? How much ability to do a lot of things, if your relationship is really good, then there is no problem with their family to come to 80,000 gifts, can you keep the idea of borrowing money to buy a car or your husband put it forward, after all, who doesn't want to marry a wife?

The old father borrowed money from his daughter's family for his son, thinking that his daughter could pay it back slowly, who knew that he couldn't pay it back when he was old, under normal circumstances, the son should take the initiative to help his father pay it back, isn't it? ? Think about it, if you don't ask your sister's family to borrow money, but ask other people to borrow money, will your husband think that the person who borrowed your money is too much???

The money was borrowed by your father-in-law before you got married, so why don't you mention it first, this borrower is your father-in-law. First, it wasn't a family at the time, and second, not to mention before marriage, even after marriage, the money borrowed by the father-in-law shouldn't be returned by the daughter-in-law.

Besides, what is my father-in-law borrowing money for, in order to buy a car, in order to increase the weight of his son's smooth marriage, similarly, as long as you marry my son, I will give you a car. So the daughter-in-law came in. But now, you're in the door, huh?

My family, you can't run away, spit out the money. Violating the contract and abducting and deceiving, this old man has a problem with his quality.

Those trolls who scolded you, I wish their daughters that they will encounter this kind of family and this kind of goods in the future, and they will be cheated.

I think your psychology is quite normal, this is not a question of loss or not, how to say it, it is like the feeling of borrowing money from your husband to get married, and then repaying the money together, it should be fake, it is better to directly 80,000 gift money, not the 100,000 yuan car

But on the other hand, you also have to understand your sister and brother-in-law, after all, they are not obliged to pay when you get married, and your brother will settle the account, I think they have no problem asking for the money to be repaid, you think about it in your shoes, if your brother gets married and your father asks you to borrow money, and then can't pay you back, can you do it without asking your brother for money? Since you have a good relationship with your husband, don't argue about this matter, you still have to pay back the money, it's just 100,000 yuan, you husband and wife are of the same heart, and this matter will soon be turned over

Your husband is too incompetent and has a good relationship??? Haha, it's equivalent to marrying you back without spending a penny.

I definitely have to pay it back. If you borrow money, you have to pay it back, and it is a matter of course. This is a debt, not a bride price.

When she got married, she asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan but did not give it to the dowry, and the woman's father still wanted to save 50,000 yuan, and the girl should not give the money to her father at this time. First of all, the bride price and dowry are necessary for marriage, unless both parties do not care about these things in particular, they can be omitted, otherwise it is a sign of stinginess. If the woman does not give the dowry, the woman's parents really should not give the idea of a bride price, because this is equivalent to exchanging their daughter for a bride price of tens of thousands of yuan.

The woman can choose to deposit the 100,000 yuan in her card, which can be used to obtain interest from the bank, which is also a lot of income over the years. And after I and my husband got married, they formed a family of two people, and they may have other expenses after having a baby. If you save this money for your father, it may become very difficult for you to use it in the future, so it is better to choose to save this money directly, so that you will not make a fuss in the future.

And when I got married, I received the bride price from my in-laws, but I didn't bring it to accompany the marriage, which must have made my in-laws' family feel very unhappy. If the bride price money is also saved for his father, then the in-laws may feel that the daughter-in-law is not oriented towards them at all, so it will cause conflicts between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. Therefore, in order to make your life more stable, you have to save this money yourself, and don't let your in-laws feel that they are a daughter-in-law of an infinitely subsidized original family.

At the same time, girls must hold a sum of money in their hands after getting married, only in this way will they have a sense of security, and only in this way can they live well at home. Therefore, this money must be firmly held in your own hands, not only do not give it to your parents, but also don't listen to your husband's rhetoric and give the money to your husband, and save the money for a few years. Don't touch the money without an urgent reason, because this is your confidence in this family.

Of course it should, since his father said such a thing, it means that his father is still very worried about him, and he can trust the other party, after all, he is his biological father.

This should be determined according to the actual situation, if you trust your parents more, you can do this, if your parents' practices are unreliable, or if you have other children, you must be cautious.

Personally, I think it should be given, regardless of whether it is better than before, in the end, it will not be given to you or to your father and mother as a nurturing grace for yourself.

Whether the bride price of 10,000 yuan is sky-high, you need to see what the financial conditions of the man's family are, if the economic conditions of his own family are very superior, then the 100,000 yuan given is not sky-high; On the contrary, if the conditions are average, then giving 100,000 yuan is a sky-high price.

2. It is normal for the woman's family to ask for a bride price in my country, but it must be combined with the other party's financial conditions to choose the appropriate bride price, not too high, otherwise the pressure on the man's family will be greater.

3. How much bride price can be decided in combination with local customs and habits, some places stipulate that as long as 3-50,000 yuan is given, then 100,000 yuan is now a sky-high price; If the amount of bride price given by the local government is more than 100,000 yuan, then 100,000 yuan is reasonable.

4. After the man's family prepares the bride price, the woman's family also has to prepare the dowry, if the bride price from the man's family is larger, then the dowry items for the daughter can be higher.

Generally, the bride price of the family is more or less appropriate.

1. There is no fixed answer to this question that everyone consults, and it should be decided in combination with the financial conditions of the man's family, and if the conditions are superior, you can prepare more dowry. On the contrary, if the conditions are average, it does not matter if you can prepare less bride price.

2. In addition, the wedding customs in each region are different, so the amount of the bride price prepared will be very different, you should see if there are special requirements in the city, if there are then, you can prepare according to local customs.

3. Although Beijing and Shanghai are first-tier cities in China and have a relatively high economic development rate, the bride price of the woman's family is not very much, and the normal situation may be about 100,000 yuan, and she may have to buy a house.

4. Now the bride price in big cities is relatively small, but the bride price in small counties is more, and some families may ask for hundreds of thousands or 200,000 yuan, which will be more pressure on the man's family. Therefore, the answer to the general family bride price that everyone consults is not fixed, and there are many factors to consider.

On a national scale, it is a figure that is neither too much nor too small at the middle level, but in many cases, the standards are different depending on the region.

If it is in some cities with a relatively backward economic environment, it is a relatively high amount for local people, but if it is for some large cities, the bride price is actually not much. In some cities that are not very high, it is a relatively middle-level figure, but the customs of each place are different, and everyone's family situation is also different, so there is no comparison of how much it is.

When everyone gets married, when asking for a bride price, it is necessary to take into account the local customs and the man's family situation, and it cannot be said that the family situation on the other side's side is very difficult. And the man's side should not have a very negative attitude because of the mention of the bride price, many things can be solved by negotiation, after all, marriage is to live, and if there is no economic foundation, it will not be good.

Bride price, also known as dowry, bride price, etc

The amount of the bride price, depending on the local situation, the economic status of the parties and other factors, some local customs are called levy, levy is the meaning of success, that is, after the bride price, the marriage contract is formally concluded, and generally no remorse. If there is a repentance, if the woman repents, the bride price shall be returned to the man; If the man repents, the bride price is generally not refunded.

By region, if yes.

In first, second, third, and fourth-tier cities, 10w is considered low, and if it is a remote or backward mountainous area, it may be considered relatively high.

Summary. 1. First of all, we must take a look at the city where the newlyweds are located, different cities due to the different economic development status, the consumption level is not the same, so the marriage ** is also very different, if in the first-tier cities, then holding a wedding should normally reach between 150,000 yuan and 300,000 yuan. If it is in a second-tier city, then the cost is relatively less, and under normal circumstances, it should be between 100,000 yuan and 150,000 yuan.

The bride price is 100,000 yuan, and the woman will return how much.

1. First of all, we must look at the city where the newlyweds are located, different cities due to the economic development status is not the same, the consumption level is not the same, so the marriage ** is also very different, if in the first-tier cities closed, then a wedding should reach between 150,000 yuan and 300,000 yuan under normal circumstances. If it is in a second-tier city, then the cost of normal Zen is relatively less, and under normal circumstances, it should be between 100,000 yuan and 150,000 yuan.

1. If the woman's family is in good condition, then the man's family will give 100,000 yuan as a dowry, and the woman's family will return it all, and another tens of thousands of yuan will be added, such as a total of 120,000 yuan to 150,000 yuan. 2. The woman's family can rent only half of the bride price to the man's family, which is aimed at the situation that the conditions of the woman's family are average.

3. There are also some special circumstances, such as the woman's younger brother or sister at home, in this case, the letter may not be returned to the bride price. 4. If the woman's family has superior financial conditions, in addition to the bride price, she will also buy a house and a car for her daughter, which is becoming more and more common now, because parents are worried that their children will be wronged in the future.

I dated my boyfriend for half a year to talk about marriage, but I couldn't get married because of the 100,000 bride price. First of all, I think you may be asking for too many side sails because of the bride price. Your boyfriend can't come up with that much money, so your wedding will be deadlocked, when you get along, do you know his family situation, is his family the head of the Kongqi clan or Ping'an?

If his family is rich. Then this matter is his fault, maybe he didn't want to come up with this money for some reason, or maybe the man didn't agree when you first talked about it.

If his family is poor. Then 100,000 bride price is not a small amount for him, if he really wants to take out 100,000 bride price, he will let the octopus and let their family smash the pot and sell iron to marry you. If it's for this reason, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, or you can reduce the bride price a little, at least so that the man can accept it, if it continues like this, it will also be a blow to your relationship.

In fact, how many couples in today's society, because the bride price finally parted ways, some people don't want to take it, but they really can't take it, you can't ask a man to borrow money to marry you! So this foreign debt still needs you to come, and some people don't want to take this money and think it's not worth it, and it's true, some people's wedding bride price is less than tens of thousands or more than 100,000, is this marrying a daughter or selling a daughter? Besides, maybe it doesn't cost anything to marry another woman, so why would he spend 100,000 yuan to marry you?

Anyway, the current marriage is also unstable, and maybe they will part ways at some point.

So in my opinion, if you really love your boyfriend, don't worry about the bride price, his money is not your money in the end, why make an unpleasant fuss about the bride price? In fact, most women ask for a bride price because of their parents' opinions. They just want to keep some pension money for themselves, so if you love her, don't force her to think more about the other party.