Are you really so humble, how should you go on?

30,000 yuan is really not much compared to the money to buy a house and a car, you can spend 900,000 yuan to get married, why not spend 30,000 yuan to adapt to the national conditions? 900,000 is like a well-decorated five-star hotel, passengers can pay appropriately to stay, including car pick-up and delivery, the owner is willing to decorate his store, but 30,000 is different, it is for the woman, and she may never come back after giving it, so if the woman believes in love and believes in the affection of the person, she has to detect that the man's attitude is problematic now, the man is now planting the plane tree to attract the phoenix, you love to come or not, you don't come to have others, not you can't, Every woman hopes that her husband feels that she is the best, at least for a period of time, but obviously this man is not, people who live in Chongqing, I don't know how much the monthly salary is, we are 4-5 small cities, the general white-collar 3-5 thousand income, the bride price is now known as 31800, take the mother-in-law's mother's family, the meaning of the three families together, most of them are accepted, most of the bride price is also the woman marrying back as the formation of a new family of the small couple, in the ordinary public affection, The bride price is not a test of the strength of the man and the woman, it is to see the attitude of the man who does not marry, and he really has no money, and he must also express that he is sorry for not being able to marry without the attitude of not marrying.

Boost self-confidence. If you want to be less humble, you have to enhance your self-confidence, only when a person is self-confident, all the aura will appear, if you are not confident enough, you will appear soft-spoken, even if you are right, but because of your withdrawal, you may still make yourself miss the opportunity. When facing love, the same is true, don't lose yourself in the other person's world, don't let your self-esteem be trampled on at will, so that you will live a very tired life.

Don't put all your hopes in someone else.

If you want to buy clothes, don't expect others to be able to help you pay for them, so that even if you get clothes, you are also exchanged for your own humility, so don't rely too much on others, even if the other party is your parents and your lover, don't make yourself appear cheap, people should have their own activity space and activity funds, and other people's abilities can not become your eternal hope.

If a person wants to become stronger, then he must have his own bottom line, if others come into contact with this bottom line, everything is not negotiable, so that your life will appear valuable, if you blindly deign to others, blindly please others, then your sense of humility will become heavier and heavier, when your resentment is greater than vitality, your whole life will become bleak.

Don't overthink it.

Some people are too humble because they usually think too much and think too much about others, so they will let themselves live so tired, if you think every day, "If I do this, will he be unhappy?" "If I do this, will I offend anyone? If you want to change this fate, you have to live according to your own ideas, you should think "what am I going to do today" and "what should I do?"

If you motivate people to move forward in this way, you will realize your own value.

1.Self-confidence, self-confidence is a very important thing for a person, anyone can look down on you, but you yourself have to look up to yourself.

2.Don't criticize yourself, love yourself, don't think that you are worse than others, everyone has their own strengths, their own shining points.

3.To be not humble, it is very important not to please others, and the pleasing personality is also inferior to self-esteem. So be confident, I'm the brightest light, I deserve all the good things.

Life is short, so be bold. The root of humility is fear (fear of losing something, fear of being ridiculed, etc.).

Improve yourself and build self-confidence!

Humility is that you have obvious deficiencies in some aspect or many aspects, you can exercise your deficiencies, or make money well, and your waist will stand up when you are rich.