What is your view on the phenomenon of leftover women that is now occurring?

Some people marry for love, and some get married for money. And in China, many people get married for the sake of face.

Chinese officials have repeatedly told women over the past seven years that if they don't marry by the age of 27, they will become wanted"Leftover women"。The argument has had a huge impact, leading many people to marry in a hurry, and has had a ripple effect that has had a negative impact on gender equality in Chinese society, such as lower labor force participation among women, Hong said.

While China has the largest number of self-made female millionaires, wealth inequality between men and women is growing as a result of the movement. She noted that many women give up their careers for marriage and lose ownership of their homes.

Hong Lida, a sociologist at Tsinghua University, was interviewed by China Real-Time News. The following is the content of the interview:

You mention this in your book"Leftover women"The movement began in 2007 when China*** enacted policies to strengthen population planning and family planning programs to address the gender imbalance. How has the movement changed over time?

Officially, it started by slandering educated city women and ridiculing them for delaying marriage, and now these ** continue to preach"Leftover women"concept. They're just tweaking the meaning, including"Leftover women"new definitions and categories, such as divorced single mothers and single women who own their own homes. Therefore, ** still seems determined to force women to get married.

Will the new policy of having a second child alone (one of the spouses being an only child) ease the pressure on women to get married?

I think it's a big deal to liberalize the policy of having a second child alone, but I don't think it will have an impact on the enormous pressure on educated urban women to get married. The pressure on them to marry will still be great, because it is not only a solution to the imbalance in the sex ratio, but also an attempt to improve the quality of the population.

It is still hoped that educated urban women (who are considered to be of higher quality) will marry and have children.

Find someone who likes you to marry, although the man has no money, the coming day is long, slowly go hard, time flies, another year in the blink of an eye, and if you don't sell yourself, it's about to expire, marry the leftover man, the leftover man's feeling for the leftover woman is, this girl is really willing to follow me, and then slowly compensate for it if you have money in the future, you can't give it, and he doesn't want to give it to you, the leftover girl marries a rich boy, there is a wonderful feeling, this girl has taken a fancy to my money, if I don't have money, will you come, When the second girl appears, the rich boy will think like this, anyway, this girl is looking at my money, maybe put aside the first girl, and choose the girl behind, when is this cycle the end, what do you think is the end of this cycle?

At the knowledge level, the right family, each other can only get married under the same conditions, it has nothing to do with love, life is one, love is a game of life!

Some Chinese women blindly accept it"Male supremacy"does not even question why the head of the family on the household register must be registered as a man. However, in fact, I also found that most educated women in the city no longer blindly follow patriarchy. Many of the women I interviewed craved independence and personal freedom.

In China, Japan, and South Korea, the society is extremely patriarchal and follows the values of a man dominating the family. Both Japan and South Korea have very low labor force participation rates for women. However, the difference between these two countries and China is that the latter has always been stagnant.

Recently, Japan's prime minister, Shinzo Abe, introduced an incentive to encourage women to join the workforce, citing it as an important driver of economic development strategy. South Korea has introduced similar incentives. In contrast, however, instead of doing anything, China is doing the opposite.

Although they don't say it explicitly, when you advocate for women's rights, they say that women should stay at home and get married quickly, and these are the priorities of women's lives, not education and career. <>

**Ask the question of leftover women and leftover men, and talk about a flat horizontal. There are many ways to use the number of flat and horizontal.

The main reason for the increase in older leftover women is that women's sense of independence has increased, and they are unwilling to be kidnapped by marriage, and the cost of marriage and childbirth is too high now, and women's willingness to have children has also decreased.

The reason is that urban women have to bear more, not only to earn money at work to support their families, but also to take care of the family when they return home. Therefore, many women in the city simply choose not to get married.

This is because there are more and more career women now, and these women have higher requirements for their other half, and they also enjoy a high-quality single life.

The main reason for this may be that because of the current older leftover women, they can live very happily by themselves, and they also want absolute freedom, so they will not engage in objects.

It's because girls now pay a lot of attention to their own development, they are very good, and they want to find a better person, and there are not many people like that.

Because women are very busy with work nowadays, they don't have time to fall in love at all, which leads to this phenomenon.

Because the more I grow up, the more I find that there are few men to rely on, and I have to honor my parents. Many married families only require their daughters-in-law to honor their in-laws, regardless of whether the son-in-law will honor their father-in-law or not. In order to honor your parents, you must also be self-reliant and refuse to help the poor!

Because they all give themselves 90 points, they all want to achieve class leapfrogging through marriage, and they don't want to admit their mediocrity. I am not a celebrity, I think I will marry a rich and handsome man at the age of 40, and I will never wake them up.

Because women can earn a lot of money every month through their own ability, they have to find the best if they look for it, or they don't look for it.

Because of the improvement of the quality of life, there are many strong women, and they will use their own hands to create some material conditions. Not attached to men. is too rational and wants to give himself a good guarantee after marriage, but because he missed the best time to fall in love, he basically can't meet the right person in the future.

Epidemic princess disease, Sister Feng's disease.

For the same reasons for both men and women, most people have low wages and can only support themselves. Not to mention getting married and raising children.

I haven't been in a relationship before because I don't have a job in the system, but now I'm ready to fall in love and get married. Marry a civil servant.

What is a leftover woman, a leftover woman is a woman who is older and succumbing, why is it so, a little too picky, this kind of woman is not without a chance to find her favorite, but the spine picks and chooses men, so that the opportunity is missed again and again, and she has raised herself and looked small around, is there a lot of really good men in society? Can a group society really have more people? It is guessed that it is the pickiness of leftover women that picks out men, it is that there are not many men dreamed of by leftover women, and it is the living environment that does not fulfill his wishes, and he lives well in life, so that leftover women understand that opportunities are hard-won and life is a scripture.

How did the older leftover girl come down. Because they want to marry every day, like a wealthy family, the rich don't look down on them, and they don't look down on those who don't have money. So they drag on and on, and they get older. I can't get married. It's not that the pants are Chang, they are pure and shouting, and there is a lot of amusement in the wild.

This is because there are more leftover women, indicating that there are more and more independent women, and many girls put more time and energy into Hanchun's work and life, which shows that the times are progressing and the status of women is constantly improving.

Because the more women are left, it proves that the status of the girls in the society is relatively high, and they begin to focus on their work, which can better promote the diversified development of society.

Society for women"There is a problem with sexism and stereotypes in the bias of the word. "Leftover women"The word usually.

Used to describe older but unmarried women, the label puts unfair judgment and pressure on them.

Putting society in perspective"Leftover women"The prejudice we need to have.

Here are a few things to know:

1.Age should be the only measure of a person's worth.

Criteria: Whether male or female, age wells should not determine a person's worth and happiness. Each person has their own unique life trajectory and development rhythm, and individual choices and decisions should be respected.

2.Marriage is not the only goal of women's lives: women should have the right to pursue their own professional development, personal growth, and happiness, not just marriage. Marriage is just a part of life, not the only criterion that defines a woman's worth.

3.The stereotype is restrictive: all unmarried women are categorized as:"Leftover women"It is a simplification and discrimination of women's diversity and individual differences. Everyone has their own unique values and pursuits, and they can't be simple.

Use a label to evaluate or limit them.

4.Happiness has nothing to do with marriage: happiness comes from the satisfaction and balance of the individual's heart, and does not depend on whether or not Chong Li Qi is married. People can achieve happiness in a variety of ways, such as pursuing careers, cultivating hobbies, and building intimate relationships.

5.Promote an equal and inclusive society: We should promote an equal and inclusive society, and no longer stereotypical and prejudiced women.

Everyone deserves to be treated fairly, and happiness can be achieved in a variety of ways, such as building intimate relationships.

Promote an equal and inclusive society: We should promote an equal and inclusive society, and no longer stereotypical and prejudiced women.

Everyone deserves to be treated fairly, whether male or female.

Putting society in perspective"Leftover women"Prejudice is a process that drives social progress. We should respect everyone's choices and life trajectories, and encourage women to pursue their dreams and happiness. At the same time, we need to work to eliminate gender discrimination and create a social environment that is equal, inclusive and respectful of individual choices.

If you are 35 years old and still do not have a marriage and career plan, you may face pressure from your surroundings and society. Here are some ways to cope:

Determine your goals and directions: First of all, you must be clear about what you want to be hungry for, and what your future goals and directions are. Only when you have a clear direction can you move towards your goal in an orderly manner.

4.Cultivate your own interests and hobbies: You can increase your enjoyment of life by cultivating your own interests and hobbies. You can participate in some interest groups, social activities, etc.

5.Insist on self-awareness and self-improvement: Don't be swayed by the pressures of your surroundings and society, and insist on self-awareness and self-improvement. Be confident that you will be able to find the right career and partner.

In short, to cope with the pressure from the surrounding and society, you need to clarify your goals and directions, learn new knowledge and skills, actively look for job opportunities, cultivate your own interests and hobbies, and insist on self-awareness and self-improvement. At the same time, you also need to maintain a positive mindset and believe that you will be able to get through it.