Annoying housework Everyone, help me out

First of all, you should feel happy to have a husband who loves you. However, you should also think that it is normal for your husband's parents to be partial, and you must be able to understand that people living in this society are inevitably worldly, which requires you to face it with an open-minded heart, of course, this is quite empty. As for your house, as long as it doesn't affect your current life, I personally think you can live for the time being, it's normal for your heart to be unacceptable at first, who doesn't want a comfortable environment, but life is bitter and then sweet, you haven't always lived in the old house anyway, and when the two of you make enough money in the future, what else is there to worry about?

Life is short, cherish everything you have, as long as your heart is open, the family will never be harmonious. As an outsider, I can only say so much, I hope it will help you a little, and finally I wish you good luck!

If you think about it, do you love your husband? If you love, then who are your husband's own brother? Who is the person you love the most?

Don't you like him? Maybe that younger brother is too big, when your husband can't take care of you, he is also the most willing to help you, the man will ask such a question to show that there is a hardship, the boyfriend agrees to prove that he loves you very much, don't make trouble for him, do you want your boyfriend to tear his face for you and your family? Maybe that kind of man will no longer make you worthy of love, if it were me, I would really understand his family, and I have tried to love his family since I fell in love with someone.

It is also possible that all this is a test for you, happiness is not living in a good house, not having money and luxury, but someone who does not let your tears fall to the ground.

Then you first find out, whether your husband's family really plans to buy a house for your brother, don't guess before you figure it out, if your husband's mother really has such a meaning, then let your husband talk to his mother, so that everyone's thoughts will not be misunderstood, if your mother has such an idea to buy a house for your brother, then you will fight for it. If you really can't fight for it, you can find a way to solve it.

Let's be realistic, I will buy a house for you first, and if he buys a house when his brother gets married, you and your wife will do their best and be responsible for part of it. Family affairs are more complicated, so discuss with your husband, parents-in-law and mother-in-law.

You first communicate with your husband and ask him, what do his parents think? In today's society, it is indeed not very convenient for so many people to live in everything. Then I went to test the meaning of my mother-in-law and father-in-law.

Don't live together, so many people, when this happens, you will regret it, it's better to talk about it and treat each other with sincerity.

Ask your husband: Will his family buy a house for his brother in the future? If you buy it, then let's live together for the time being! I'm sure this room belongs to you in the future! I wish you all happiness!

I'll just say the main point:

adjust your mindset; Pull oneself up by one’s bootstraps.

If something is not your own, don't care about others!

It's the two of you who put in the effort yourself!

Bless you all!

Don't fight for these things, some will say later.

If you have the ability to buy it yourself, the most talking, has a high status in the family.

It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

There is love and warmth

If you have a house to live in, you can eat, you have something to do, and someone will love you

It's boring to ask too much

It's not that your family is annoying, but that you let them down, what's wrong with telling you to study, I don't know if there is such a sentence:'If you don't learn, you can't make a device'

Of course, it's okay if you don't study, you don't ask them for money, pay for the meal every day when you eat, and I guess they won't bother you.

There has to be a reason, it can't be for no reason, right? In fact, you can put yourself in the shoes of why they are doing this, is the problem with themselves?

The family asked you to learn to understand, what qualifications does your cousin have to scold you, rabbit cub!

First, parents can't listen to one short thing, everything has a reason.

Second, the relatives at home feel the same as us, and your conditions should be very good.

Third, my husband is a generous and affectionate person, and the three of you have a lot of time to go out and play, not necessarily today, and it may take a long time for relatives to reunite once.

Fourth, those relatives really don't know much about people's normal feelings, and they need to exchange courtesies. If you receive such feedback for a long time, once or twice is fine, but after a long time, such relatives basically can't go long.

Fifth, the most important thing for a family is harmony. In the future, it would be good to communicate more calmly and form common values.

To be honest, you can't just listen to what you say, after all, there are certain subjective factors, and some things don't hold yourself too right or wrong, just deal with them well next time, and dissipate your anger.

Your relatives may think that your family is too good], so they ......

I've read everything you've described, and I know that you're in such a marriage, and when I sympathize with you, I feel sorry for you.

One thing, I think if you want to divorce, it's best to divorce when you don't have children, if you have children, then you can't get married. Because no matter how wronged you are, you will live with your husband for the sake of the child.

But you feel very miserable if you don't get divorced now, all the money is AA system, the house is not written in your name, and the car is not driven by you.

Then their family will be a win-win situation, you can think about it yourself.

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I have some suggestions for dealing with family and kinship:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Hello! Anyone will have problems, some people have problems solved, and some people don't. A good attitude is destined for a person's success or not. No matter what we encounter, we should have a good attitude, actively forge ahead, be strong and unyielding.

In life we will encounter such and such problems, can change these things only themselves, only their own confidence in themselves, you can calmly walk your life road, the road ahead is very long, in our life on the way, there are oases, there will be wind and sand. Bumpiness and flatness exist at the same time. When encountering setbacks, you must show your own courage and face them bravely.

When you try to face difficulties and stress, I believe that these difficulties will one day succumb to your feet and face life with a new attitude. Believing in yourself is equivalent to having infinite power.

Also, think carefully about what is bothering you the most now, and then try to solve them one by one, and finally when everything is solved, you will not be as annoyed as you are now, and you will think "Oh! It turns out that life can be so easy and so beautiful! ”

There are always things to worry about in life.