You can t take this step, you can t take this step, so what does it mean?

Lad, do anything, mentality matters!

Give you a free psychological counseling:

1.Everyone has ups and downs in the journey of life, things keep coming, and they keep going to ......And the difficulties are getting bigger and bigger, and you will be confused! You're one of them! Please, don't worry!

2.Think back to your past, think back to when you remembered, think back to your past ......

Did you find out? What have you lost?

Did you find out? What have you changed?

When you were a child, you were full of vitality, you were very curious about everything, and when you were a child, you learned everything and imitated ......So, as a child, you know that the future is just around the corner! The future is what you imagine it to be. So you want to grow up, grow up quickly.

And now, you have lost your vitality, your curiosity, your learning, your imitation, and your ......fighting spiritSo, you're worried about more and more things.

So, you're lost! Lose yourself!

All this is not because of society, not because of external factors, but because you don't work hard enough.

When you were a child, you are getting stronger day by day, and now you are becoming weaker day by day.

Remember, you must be stronger and stronger than you are now, and you must be stronger ......

You are still young, if I were given 28 years old, I would be omnipotent, I would not learn, I would do anything, I would be everywhere ......

Struggle, study, seriousness, progress, perseverance ......It is the waiter who will follow you all your life, as long as you know how to use them.

From now on, young man, work hard! Get serious! Take action! Get busy!

Everything is like a person, you need to respect, respect everything you do, and you will gain something.

Don't use the hidden dragon, the dragon has regrets. Only you can discover and change the inevitable stages of life.

A dragon that travels the sky, a dragon who can do anything.

Seeing your description, I thought of me, your mood can be understood, you are not only introverted, but also very face-saving, I was the same as you, when I was in order to sell the shower, the first night I couldn't sleep, the thought pressure is very high, but as long as you take the first step bravely, you will feel rewarded and confident, as long as you put the right mentality, brave to face, you will be successful, sales is a work to exercise people, you not only have to understand the performance of the product, quality, More importantly, to understand the customer's mentality, you need to be patient, meticulous, empathetic, but also have self-confidence and a sense of honor, which is not a shame in itself, to put down the burden of thought, bold to do it! I wish you success!

The power train has a song called "So Be It".

Her tears - indifference.

Words: Chen Wei. Song: Lu Yong.

Acting as happiness in the eyes of others.

The pain in my heart has nowhere to pour.

You were determined to choose him.

It's hard to tell right or wrong.

Then slowly began to fall silent.

Gradually, he got used to his nights of not returning.

Reminiscing about the hardships we once endured together.

Now that I think about it, there is a bit of a loss.

I also want to find someone to warm my heart.

I really want to give up everything, but I can't give it up.

A carefree life and a promise of love.

Why it's always hard to choose.

I also want to find another person to get along.

But I didn't have the courage to take that step.

Love and happiness are just legends.

Red wine with tears, the more you drink it, the more lonely it becomes.

Acting as happiness in the eyes of others.

The pain in my heart has nowhere to pour.

You were determined to choose him.

It's hard to tell right or wrong.

Then slowly began to fall silent.

Gradually, he got used to his nights of not returning.

Reminiscing about the hardships we once endured together.

Now that I think about it, there is a bit of a loss.

I also want to find someone to warm my heart.

I really want to give up everything, but I can't give it up.

A carefree life and a promise of love.

Why it's always hard to choose.

I also want to find another person to get along.

But I didn't have the courage to take that step.

Love and happiness are just legends.

Red wine with tears, the more you drink it, the more lonely it becomes.

I also want to find someone to warm my heart.

I really want to give up everything, but I can't give it up.

A carefree life and a promise of love.

Why it's always hard to choose.

I also want to find another person to get along.

But I didn't have the courage to take that step.

Love and happiness are just legends.

Red wine with tears, the more you drink it, the more lonely it becomes.

Red wine with tears, the more you drink it, the more lonely it becomes.

Why care about other people's eyes, and those strangers will not necessarily see each other again.

You try to talk more every day, talk to your family, communicate more, practice more, talk more to your friends, hang out together, read more books, listen to **, sometimes you can sing and sing by yourself, and communicate with everyone more on the Internet, you can't always be like this, autism, try to have a boyfriend, you practice speaking more every day, talking to yourself is also a way, try to say as much as possible when you go to the interview, don't be afraid, there's nothing to be afraid of, just like you said, it's all people, you don't have to be like this, You can't always be like this, right, and you will have to get married and have children to support your family in the future.

Since I'm a girl, I have to look in the mirror every day, and when I look in the mirror every day, I smile at myself and say, I'm great, I'm optimistic, I'm a girl who is liked.

If you can't cross, don't cross, life is already very hard, why do you have to make it difficult for yourself.

In the face of all the problems that occur, it takes a long time to practice so that a person can think about how to solve problems when they encounter them, and not just emotional reactions

Every day I go to the square to see the elderly dancing, there are many people in the square, you dance along, no one knows you, so you don't have to be shy.

I'm the same as you, try to go out, work hard, you will do well, be honest and learn some skills, we can't be a leader, but we must also do our own thing.

Don't say anything else, concentrate on learning the skills that can support you, don't give yourself so many excuses, people can't drill the horns.

How should you support yourself, don't talk about starting a family.

I suggest you go and volunteer and see how miserable and strong those who really need help are, compared to how much you really don't really care.

You don't have to be afraid of anything! Actually, I'm a man and I'm 20 years old!

Don't feel inferior to yourself, even if the people around you look down on you! What if you are slow to learn something! Life and money are your own!

Don't give up on yourself and don't pay attention to the blows of others! Do what you love! Although you are said to be introverted, there is nothing wrong with that!

If you didn't have that character, maybe it wouldn't be you! What's the point of your life? In fact, learning things is not something that everyone is born with, isn't it also accumulated slowly over time?

Believe in yourself!! It's not that you're stupid, it's that it takes time! Everyone's friends don't necessarily need a lot!

A few are enough! It doesn't necessarily need to be deliberately flattering, that kind of friendship is not innocent!

Hello, I used to be a bit introverted but exercised in society, every day.

I have to deal with different people, and slowly I learned to survive in this society, in fact, you can first learn how to sell and exercise your eloquence. Practice how to communicate with people. I believe that you will succeed if you have the courage to take the first step.

Well, after reading your story, I am very sympathetic, everything is because of your introversion, it is recommended that you see a psychiatrist, no matter what, learn more from cheerful people, see how they behave in people, pay attention to observe them, and don't be too inferior, you also have your own shining point, maybe you haven't dug it out yet, but also have the courage to exercise yourself outside, travel or something, dare to speak, don't be embarrassed, maybe your personality will change, come on!

We all understand the truth, but we still can't live this life well, just like the lyrics say: Life is short and urgent.

Take this step.

Walking in the gloomy mountains and forests, when you break through the darkness of reality and the fear in your heart, and bravely move forward without looking back, the bright prairie will appear in your field of vision.

Buried in the shadow of low self-esteem, when you break through the ridicule and self-abandonment of others, and bravely seek hope and work hard, the applause of success will echo in your ears.

Come on, as long as you take the step in the darkness bravely, the step out of the psychological barrier, flowers and applause, admiration and envy will come, maybe the next Nobel laureate will be you.

Anyone who likes English will have heard of the character of Li Yang, the editor-in-chief of "Crazy English", and will feel his endless talk and madness about English in front of thousands of people. He once wrote a vow: let 300 million Chinese speak fluent English, and let 300 million foreigners speak fluent Chinese!

People who don't know him well may think that he is a natural genius in English, a natural character that dares to "show off". But who knows, he was very shy and introverted when he was a child, he didn't dare to go to the movies, and he didn't even dare to ......make a sound when the instrument leaked when he was doing medical treatmentIs he not spiritually outwardly outwardly but diligent in private? Definitely.

Li Yang has been a truant king since junior high school, failing 5 homework in the first semester of high school, and taking 13 homework in 4 years of college. He had long hair and a shawl, and he wandered the campus and the streets. I think you must be puzzled, how could such a character and such a achievement become a famous English news announcer, an expert in English oral education, and the editor-in-chief of "Crazy English"?

The reason is very simple, it is because he bravely took the step of introversion and inferiority, which turned his life upside down.

So what changed him? One of Li Yang's teachers talked to him and said, "If you want to see the beautiful scenery in front of you, you have to bravely cross the mountain."

If you want people to be impressed with you, you have to be brave enough to speak up. When he heard this, he immediately realized that he defeated himself and changed himself to a new level, starting with speaking English. Every day after lunch, he would run to the mountains and speak English loudly, so much so that many people thought he was "crazy".

A few years later, the beauty beckoned to him, and he succeeded.

If Li Yang was indifferent to that sentence, or only moved and did not act, then what would happen to him?