To be a colleague with a person you despise very much, depressed!

Updated on psychology 2024-07-16
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There is a saying that says it well: if you want things to change, you must first change yourself; If you want to make things better, you have to make yourself better first. It's okay that your classmate likes to watch entertainment shows, you said that he has to have a specific standard to measure if he doesn't do his job, could it be that you added some more of your own personal feelings and ideas?!

    If his values, personal qualities, personality, etc., really disdain you to treat him as a "quasi-friend", then leave him alone, but don't get too annoyed! Just do your thing well and don't worry too much that he's in the same workplace. If he's not really as bad as you say he is, maybe you should let go of your sense of superiority, re-examine yourself, and spend more time to understand his cuteness, maybe a good colleague.

    Of course, it is always necessary to distinguish between right and wrong, if it is really a half-wasted person as you said, then it is as if he does not exist, and occasionally ordinary normal communication is enough, the key is to concentrate on doing your job well! Have fun!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you are a colleague with him, not a friend, try to adapt to him, if not, simply ignore him, of course, you can get by on the surface. Work is like this, there are such people, and you can't avoid it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    LZ also seems to be a bit of a bit.

    How people are is someone else's business.

    him"If you don't do your job all day long and can't sit still, you know how to watch entertainment programs"

    Or maybe he's old and doesn't have to work hard.

    Or maybe he's a very depraved and lazy person himself, and if he does, he'll reap the consequences.

    Why should you care?

    Just take care of yourself and don't care about others.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Dismissive? Do you want to leave that unit? If, after you have thought about it, you decide that it is ridiculous to leave for the colleague you despise, then get used to him, or change him, and use your work style to influence him.

    Try to do your own thing, and you'll find that you don't have time to pay attention to what he does.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Just do your own thing well. I didn't leave because I particularly hated a colleague because I didn't think it was worth it, so I wouldn't want to leave because of someone else. First of all, because I think that work is to work hard for my family and fight for my future, which determines the inevitability of dissatisfaction at work.

    Every job may inevitably have people you hate, but the ultimate purpose of work is to survive, and your emotions are often at the end of many considerations, so although you have very annoying people at work, you may seem to lack a sense of responsibility for your family and future because you hate people at work. I don't like to use my future and family to bear the back stone fruit because of my own emotions, because it's not worth it, so under this kind of consideration, I won't leave because I particularly hate a colleague. Secondly, the purpose of entering the job is to learn skills, exchange work for income, and maintain a normal life.

    If you leave your job because you particularly hate a colleague, you may not be able to fully master the learning skills in a company, and your work income will be affected. Therefore, in the work environment, we can't ignore the platform and skills that the company brings to us because we hate others, so don't cause the lack of a platform or incomplete technical learning because of our own emotions. I feel like there's a colleague in the company that I hate, and I'm not going to quit because of him.

    Because I feel that my work and my future are my own, I think everyone will have their own things that they like and hate, but I don't think you need to quit because you hate someone, because I think we come out to work to make money, all to realize our self-worth, I think it is very normal to encounter some unpleasant things, I don't think there is any need to choose to resign for unworthy people, I think it is an irrational behavior, So I think it's good to get along, and there is no lead sail to have a town to dig and say that he will resign for him, <>

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