What should such a husband do What is his psychology

What they say makes sense, but the problem is that we have to grasp a degree, and it is very common for relatives to give something to each other, but it is a bit unreasonable to base other people's happiness on their own poverty like your husband. Listening to your expression, my feeling is that your husband is not their brother, but an elder, who seems to play the role of a father, and the parents' love for their children is selfless, and they think about their children first in everything, and would rather be hungry than hungry for their children, and your husband is similar to this. Maybe it has something to do with the situation of your husband's family of origin.

He has always stood in the position of a father in the family, and naturally acts like a father. To solve this, you have to make him see this reality clearly, he is just an older brother, and everyone is of the same generation. He didn't need to make such a big sacrifice.

If you don't want him to change, then you have to change your position to adapt to him, from the identity of a sister-in-law to a mother, then your mentality will be relatively balanced.

First of all, such a husband is definitely a good husband.

You can communicate with him the following thoughts, but be calm and never let such a small thing affect the relationship between the husband and wife.

You're not the poorest, you're a good husband! He will do the same to you when you need it most!

If you have him, then you are the richest!

Money can be made, but true love is hard to buy! You understand him, tolerate him, and he will love you more!

He was a very family-minded man, there is no doubt about that. Since he took care of his former home, he would definitely take care of his current home, which was a matter of time. You have to be patient and let him know his current family situation one day.

Relatives in need and difficulties can not not help, you have to be like this, no one can guarantee that you will never encounter difficulties in the future will not use others, what you said, are all small things, in fact, no matter who is poor, they don't care about that lamp or something, give it to it, there is no need to quarrel for this little thing. You can tell him calmly that your relatives are in trouble and don't help them, but at least you should know what your family is like, you say that you are the poorest, and there is nothing too valuable, he will take it if he likes it, and he still cares about what it is for, and when you want to use it yourself, there is nothing left, and he will naturally find a way. Since you can give things away, you can't get them if you want to use them, and if you want to open these, you won't have anything.

Actually, you're all family, aren't you?

Since it's a family, don't talk about it.

Your husband and his siblings are related by blood, and you can't understand the "boss", that kind of mentality. I hope you not only understand but also should support, you should also be proud of having such a husband who values friendship and knowledge, you think about how much he will take care of his brothers and sisters who are related by blood, and how much he will take care of his wife who is not related by blood. Be content.

Many people meet unfriendly and stingy and selfish people who don't know that they are worse than you.

Happiness is not about getting more, but about caring less.

You should understand him, you also said, he is the eldest brother, the eldest brother must take care of his younger brothers and sisters, or maybe his attitude towards family affection is stronger than his attitude towards love. There may also be something unspeakable.

Your husband is good, ordinary people can't do it, women are generally more selfish, I can understand that things are not brought in life and death are not brought Family affection is the most important Because you are the poorest, you can't usually help your brothers and sisters At this time, they are in need What about help? I seem to be the same type as your husband, and I'd rather suffer a little bit to make my brother happy.

Your husband is too tolerant of his younger siblings. Then if you have brothers and sisters, and you hear them say what is missing, you also send your family over to see what your husband does.

Summary. In this case, it also proves that you are very busy at work, and then you don't have time to dress up, and at the same time, you have very little time to get along, and you already have children, which proves that most of your energy may be on children.

The husband solves it by himself, what psychology it explains.

Solve it yourself and just have no feelings for your other half?

Most of them are.

So what to do?

How long have you been married now?

It's only been two years. Is this a situation where you don't usually like to dress up?

That's right. So this situation is still more of a problem for you.

Well, yes, then what do I need to do?

First of all, I have to understand the situation between you, so that I can provide you with a concrete plan, that is, what he does now, what you do.

Even now, you have children.

He has children, he works from 9 to 5, and I have to write a summary when I come back, about 11 or 2 o'clock.

In this case, it also proves that you are very busy at work, and then you don't have time to dress up, and at the same time, you have very little time to get along, and you already have children, which proves that most of your energy may be on children.

Is this the case with me.

You've said it.,It's a confidant,,, of course you can't compare with your wife...

Everyone will have a confidant of their own, but more than 99% will not be their husband or wife...

Because it will be a little inconvenient with the people closest to you...

And with friends, it will be much more relaxed, because there is nothing to worry about. But if you talk to your husband or wife, it may affect the feelings of the family...

That's why the bystander is clear. There are some things that will be good for yourself and your family if you study it with others. . . If your husband has a confidant, you should find a way to get to know each other and make friends together, I think it will be good for you...

If your husband has a problem in his heart, as a wife, you should go online or buy some books to learn some psychological knowledge and give your husband psychological counseling, because only in this way can he slowly get rid of this psychological barrier and return to a normal life.