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The average person will have some vanity, which will encourage people to work harder.
But vanity is, after all, a derogatory term.
In a word, this kind of person likes to compare.
In terms of money, he likes to compare, compared to who has money in the family and who earns more money;
I like to show off what I have, foreign trade, money, education and other aspects.
There are two causes of this type of woman.
1. It is a defective family since childhood, there is no good growth environment, there are acquired psychological defects, and I want to make up for what I didn't get before.
2. Since childhood, the family is superior, and the parents are doting. As a result, no one is in sight.
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Everyone should have a sense of honor, but it should be based on seeking truth from facts, and if it is built under a fictitious, disguised appearance, it is vanity. Vanity is often shared by everyone, but to different degrees and in different forms. Vanity is self-deception, and often it cannot deceive others, so it can only deceive itself and bring pain to itself.
One should be good at overcoming one's own vanity.
This kind of woman is tempted as soon as she meets a good man, so you have to be prepared and be the best in everything. Of course, this kind of woman is difficult to raise, but this type of woman generally has an angelic face. If you're strong, she's yours, but you'll have to be prepared to be forced away by other great men at any time.
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People with a strong sense of vanity are often accompanied by a self-hypothetical "sense of superiority". If you have a strong sense of superiority, you will easily look down on others and be self-respecting. I also care more about other people's evaluations of my money, talent, appearance, etc.
Vanity may not be a bad thing, but people with too much vanity are terrible, and I don't like this kind of person very much.
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You can see it at a glance.
How you feel is the most important thing!
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I didn't study psychology, but I think too much vanity can give rise to jealousy. I don't know if it's right.
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One, love luxury, two, like to compare, three, keep tidying, four, buy fake brand, five, like to show off, six, like to brag about one's own family, one's husband, one's own children, seven, excessively decorate oneself with gold, silver and jewelry, eight, like to listen to other people's praise, nine, like to post all kinds of eating, drinking and having fun in the circle of friends, ten, easy to be confused by sweet words.
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Ten manifestations of a woman's vanity are the first, love and female colleagues in the unit. to compare. Second, I love to buy bags that exceed my income.
Third, love and her best friend who is more handsome than her husband. Fourth, even if the income is low, you have to wear a lot of designer clothes. Fifth, love is in one's brothers and sisters. Comparisons.
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1.I especially like to buy flashy clothes.
2.Love is constantly comparing with the people around you.
3.Likes to go in and out of all kinds of high-end places.
4.Hate the poor and love the rich.
5.Self-willed self is not filial.
6.Narrow-minded.
7.Incorrigible.
8.I just like to listen to sweet words.
9.I like to show off and compare.
10.Lack of well-being.
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1. The psychology of comparison is relatively heavy.
A woman with a strong sense of vanity always consciously or unconsciously compares herself with a woman whose living conditions are superior to herself, whose working environment is superior to herself, and whose family situation is superior to herself. For this reason, they will feel that they are living a very aggrieved life, feeling that others are always enjoying a happy life and they are always living in misery.
2. Jealousy is relatively strong.
Women with super vanity are usually accompanied by very strong jealousy, whether in life or work, as long as they see colleagues who are more comfortable than their own lives or have broader prospects than themselves in their careers, they will laugh and naturally secrete strong acidic substances physically, and mentally will inexplicably produce strong jealousy.
3. Lack of due sense of well-being.
In the "Classic of Mountains and Seas, the Southern Classic of the Sea", there has long been "Ba snake eats elephants, and its bones come out at the age of three." And in the Warring States Chu Qu Yuan's "Tianwen", "A snake implicitly refers to swallowing an elephant, how big is it?" Therefore, people with strong vanity will not be easily satisfied with the status quo, and their eyes usually do not look back at the people behind them who are less than their own, nor will they look around at those who live similarly to themselves.
Generally speaking, vanity is always associated with people's self-esteem, and people with strong vanity also have strong self-esteem and demand a more prominent position in the group. The more vain a person is, the more she needs praise from others, which brings her the honor and self-esteem she desires. Once her vanity is not satisfied, she is psychologically in a state of loss, deprivation and tension, which is prone to antagonism towards others, triggering aggressive and aggressive behavior.
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