I m always influenced by other people s opinions

Hehe, I used to hate someone like this inexplicably, but it's not right to hate others, let alone inexplicably hate them. I later found out that it was my own long-term psychological suggestion. Because there is a stake that needs to let the other party know that I don't like him or her, I can only rumor that I hate him (her).

I think you're in the same situation as I am. Opinions of a person tend to be influenced by others, and I used to do the same. But now it's not going to be, first of all, you have to make yourself more assertive, make yourself more confident, so that you don't misunderstand others.

Maybe the person you hate is a future friend. Have fun!

In today's society, don't just listen to other people's opinions, when others say that a person is bad, you can think about it, and he doesn't do anything to you. Why are you bothering him? When others say it, it only affects your psyche, and you have to be neutral.

Neither good nor bad. That is, the ancients said the middle way. If you don't change it, it will have a great impact on your future life and work.

It's normal for everyone to be influenced by other people's opinions.

As soon as the individual enters the group, his personality is annihilated, and the idea of the group dominates; There is no objection to the behavior of the group. Emotional and low IQ.

Le Pen: "The Rabble".

In fact, communication between two people is a process of mutual influence, and both parties may be persuaded by each other's point of view. If you are often the one who is being influenced, it is often because you are not firm enough and unconfident in your own opinions.

It is recommended that you summarize and see what views you are often influenced by. What is it about? If you don't know enough about these aspects, you will naturally be easily influenced. You just need to accumulate more and increase your knowledge in these areas.

If you are affected by some opinions that you are very sure of, you know that the other person is not right, but you still can't help but think about the other person's words repeatedly. You need to be more courageous to stand up for your opinions and choices, and to take responsibility for yourself. After all, you are the master of your own life, and no matter how reasonable other people's views are, they cannot replace you in their lives and make choices for you.

Whether it's good or bad, it's up to you to do it. If you understand this, I believe that it will help you when you conflict with other people's opinions.

When I got to high school, I used to be depressed by myself, and I don't know why. At home, my mother still lost her temper with my father and sometimes nagged me, so I often locked myself in the small room when I came home. I didn't seem to have any good classmates at school, my grades were always at the top of my junior high school, but now I only stay in the middle of the class, and no teachers pay attention to me, let alone care about me.

The most annoying thing is that a few days ago my tablemate told me that some people say that I always like to stretch my face and put on a stinky shelf, but in fact I am very snobbish. I was mad when I heard it, I ** provoked them to say this about me, I have been very uncomfortable for this, why am I so easily influenced by others? —Zihan, a senior high school student As we grow older, we pay more and more attention to the evaluation of ourselves by the people around us, and we hope to be affirmed and understood by our teachers, parents, and peers.

But the reality is always unsatisfactory, and your parents may be too busy coping with the pressure of their own work and life to communicate with you. The grades are not good or bad, and they can't attract the attention of the teacher, coupled with the misunderstanding and gossip of classmates, which makes people feel very lonely and depressed. This is also the reality that most of us need to face, if someone says a word, it will be uncomfortable for a long time, then your emotions will be manipulated by others, and your life will be controlled by others. Why is it susceptible to the influence of others?

That's because you don't have your own thoughts and judgments. If you form your own opinion of what you are doing, then it is clear that it is difficult for others to influence you. Therefore, it is important to form one's own worldview and values through one's own independent thinking, and at the same time establish one's own self-worth.

We can't put our hopes in someone else's change, can we? The best way is to change yourself, to understand and be considerate of others first, and to communicate with people truly and effectively, then truly beneficial relationships can be established.