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Because young people nowadays are under a lot of pressure and don't have any particularly heavy desires and needs, they will become more and more Buddhist.
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It is mainly determined by the current social conditions, and many people cannot achieve the results they want even if they work hard, so they will become more and more Buddhist.
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Why have young people become so Buddhist? No desires? Don't want to get married and have children?
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Buddhism is a way of saying that modern people have an attitude towards life, and they show a casual mood in public life and falling in love. Most of the reason is that young people are becoming more and more precocious and don't want to think too much.
What do you mean by "Buddhist youth"? To put it simply, it means that these people who do not have much pursuit of life, lose their fighting spirit, and are content with the status quo are collectively called "Buddhist youth". It has nothing to do with age, and it has nothing to do with the quality of work, the most important manifestation is not to fight or grab, everything can be done, and the whole family is not hungry when one person is fed.
Why is there more and more "Buddhist youth" in today's society? According to my personal analysis, there are three main reasons.
<> I think most people are full of fighting spirit when they first enter the society, but after their unremitting efforts, when they can't see any results or hopes, many people may give up their efforts, regardless of age, and it has nothing to do with the quality of work. The choice is passable. It's like a beast in a cage, no matter how much they struggle and resist, they can't escape, but they might as well stay inside, do nothing, and be fed.
Some people think that they have studied hard for ten years, worked hard, and even if they work hard all their lives, they are not as good as those rich second generations who are born in wealthy families. There are also some people who have encountered a lot of setbacks and failures on the way of struggle, making themselves physically and mentally exhausted, so they become depressed and become more and more Buddhist. But in fact, which rich person has not achieved today's achievements after several generations of hard work, how can it be easily surpassed by your ten-year cold window?
And they have only grown stronger after countless setbacks and failures. Therefore,Many people always feel that the world is too unfair and failure is too terrible, so in order to avoid being hit again, they choose Buddhism.
The word contentment is often on the lips of people to explain others and themselves. But many people equate contentment with not wanting to make progress, and make excuses for their laziness. The original intention of being content and happy is to let people learn to control their desires, not to force, not to compare, and not to be insatiable.
But controlling desire does not mean not having desire, not seeking progress.
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Because in the highly competitive social environment of brothers, and in the increasingly involuted employment environment, even if they work hard, there are almost no good results. As I learned that they had become more and more Buddhist, they decided to let go of themselves before they could live a good life.
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The influence of the people around him is not that he doesn't care, but in the face of the general environment, the influence of the Internet, fairness, and justice, all of which make people powerless and helpless.
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Because the nuclear power of the survival of the Xiangye environment is very large, it is not that young people choose to lie down in the Buddhist system, but they feel that it is useless to work too hard, and most people have already seen it and only live for themselves.
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Because I'm tired! So the mentality is flat, and I don't care about anything.
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Hello, today's young people have lived in a period of rich material life since childhood, so they do not need too much in the most basic physiological needs stage, and there is no sense of crisis for hunger and survival. It is also generally related to the parenting style of parents and caregivers, and now many people are satisfied with their children everywhere, so that they almost do not experience challenging moments, and everything is to help children make decisions, so it will make children form dependence and form a lazy way of thinking. It is logical that there is no pursuit, Buddhist thought.
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First of all, the reduction of modern survival pressure, and the increase in the difficulty of jumping, will make people's desire lower, and thanks to the rapid development of the economy, now young people do any job, and their income is enough to make it survive, and the pressure of survival is reduced so that many young people have the confidence to become inactive and not active. There are still many people who don't know what they want to do, do not have a clear goal, do not know what their long-term ideals are, what their recent goals are, without a goal there is no motivation and direction, and there is no certainty in doing things, like a headless fly, now young people advocate Buddhist life, which can be regarded as a kind of life of openness and peace, it can also be said to be lazy, slack, enterprising is not strong, is in the face of competition, in the face of pressure when slack, lazy, negative and decadent, no resentment, no anger, no fighting, In fact, it is not good at safeguarding one's own rights and interests, and not taking ideals or beliefs seriously, which is a kind of indulgence.
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The development of society has also given young people more choices. They can choose the job they like, rather than passively accepting the arrangements of society. As a result, they will be more 'lacking in Buddhism', and they will not force themselves, but only want to arrange their lives to be relaxed and comfortable.
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At least from an individual point of view, this cannot be called an optimal choice based on the individual's existing structure and wealth.
1.Recognize the self-limitation of insufficient resources. The world is so big, I want to go and see it, but unfortunately there is no money.
2.It's a character with low desires.,In the case of sufficient basic material security.,Just want to live a Buddhist life.。 -Some people have this kind of life, and they enjoy it a lot.
3.There is a gap between dreams and self-positioning, and a lack of self-awareness, which leads to too much hope and too much disappointment. - Insufficient assessment of their own ability and resource level, always feeling that they can do more, and later being beaten by society, the psychological gap is large, and the indignation can only suppress the inner desire.
4.The current comfort zone is really comfortable, the Internet has increased young people's understanding of life, and many people are in a kind of 'go to **count** mentality to live. - Buddhism goes with the flow, and wants beautiful things, but now that I can live my life, I still say that it is in the past, and I can basically satisfy what I want to buy and eat.
However, if you add 'mortgage, car loan, wife and children' to this kind of life, it may rapidly reduce the quality of life. Under the trade-off, seeing that everyone is not in a hurry, I would rather live a day more than the current high-quality life.
5.I don't want to be overly involved in the life of leeks, and I don't want my children to continue to repeat this life. -The days of looking at the end at a glance are almost visible to young people nowadays, and since they are not living as they wish, then don't be bitter about the children.
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