How to deal with bad neighborhood relations?

Hello subject, as the saying goes: distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. The quality of neighborly relations is directly related to one's own quality of life. In ordinary life, pay attention to these four points, and the neighborhood relationship is not bad.

1. "Etiquette" is the first thing to communicate. It is especially important to be polite in neighborly interactions. To take the initiative to say hello, start with the first greeting.

2. There are many benefits to helping your neighbors. Don't worry about it in life, and take the initiative to help if you have difficulties.

3. Distance produces beauty. Neighbors should keep a certain distance from each other and do not interfere in the internal affairs of the family.

4. Harmony is precious. If there are opinions, misunderstandings, and problems, we must take the initiative to communicate and resolve them, and turn anger into peace.

If the neighbor is not a good neighbor, there is no need, you don't offend me, I don't offend you.

If it's a good neighbor, you can start by saying hello, then you give him a little fruit or something, and then observe whether he wants to be a good neighbor with you

If this happens, the neighbor's insect disease is unhygienic, and it affects your quality of life, at this time you should first communicate with the neighbor, if the neighbor is a reasonable person, you should understand, but if the other party does not listen to the advice and insists on going his own way, then you should also take measures, not blindly tolerate.

1.Communicate face-to-face.

Isn't it often said that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors", neighborhood harmony is very important, so when you find that the neighbor's dog is urinating on the wall of your house, you must communicate with the neighbor as soon as possible, hoping that the dog owner can manage his dog.

2.Seek help from property management.

If several times of communication have no effect, you can go to the property management to explain the situation and ask the property management to come forward and find a neighbor to deal with it with you.

3.Coordinate and resolve the issue through the neighborhood committee.

If the property management comes forward, the neighbor still ignores it, then go to the neighborhood committee or the neighborhood office, or even the police station of the place of residence for communication and negotiation.

Therefore, I think that when encountering conflicts between neighbors, first of all, we should use the method of communication and exchange, and try to solve them, because once the contradiction is not good to deal with, it also affects the daily interaction with neighbors, so it has a great impact on future life, so try to solve the contradiction through communication and exchange, for the problem of unhygienic pets, no one may endure, so on this issue, once the communication can not be solved, then do not compromise, you should assert your rights, Use legal means to protect their own interests.

Everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, and if the other party doesn't want to ignore you, then you don't have to please him, just don't get along, but get along with your neighbors. Of course, most of the neighbors are still very qualified, and even if there is a conflict, they can resolve it. Don't think about going to the other party, asking the other party to give an explanation, or being angry and wanting to go to the other party to comment on Jinqing, these are all manifestations of impulsiveness, it is best to be able to sort out the cause of the matter first and see what is going on.

Communicate well with the other party, communication is the only way to solve the problem, in order to be able to better solve the problem of socks, it is best to be able to sit down and talk. People will not have a bad relationship with each other for no reason, there must be something unpleasant happening, and many trivial things gather together to become a big contradiction, and it is necessary to find the root of the contradiction.

After finding the root cause of the conflict, it is necessary to actively communicate and resolve it sincerely. Let's see if we can turn big things into small things, small things into nothing, and many things are not so serious. Resolve conflicts in a timely manner.

If you encounter a conflict with your neighbors, you should strike while the iron is hot, and you can ignore it if you don't get excited, which will cause an embarrassing situation in the future process.

Think more from the other side's point of view.

What would you do if you were them, and see if your approach makes sense. If it is your own fault, you should apologize in time, and you can't let the conflict intensify.

It is necessary to analyze the problem calmly. Even if it is the other party's fault, we must not act in a righteous manner and make mistakes with mistakes. Find someone you can trust both parties to convince and resolve the conflict.

Now living in the city, there are indeed some neighbors who prefer to keep pets, but some neighbors have some extremely unhygienic behaviors when raising pets, which will cause trouble to other neighbors, and I have encountered a similar situation.

That is after I graduated from college to choose an old residential community to rent a house to live, because at that time only considered the rent cheap, from the place where I worked, close and did not consider too many other factors, when I chose a house, after really living down, only to find a problem, it turned out that my neighbor next door had a lot of pet dogs, but these pet dogs are locked in cages, maybe because he raised too much, not enough energy, So these pet dogs he has will emit a bad smell that permeates the entire corridor, and I really can't stand this.

So I found the landlord first, but the landlord's attitude on the surface promised to communicate with him, but in fact there has been no follow-up, no way, I had to find the neighbor on the door, but the other party's attitude was very unfriendly, saying that I was like this and this for so many years no one raised an opinion, thinking that I was too hypocritical, there was no way, I found the aunt of the community neighborhood committee, the aunt of the community neighborhood committee said, he also had no way, not only I reflected the other residents upstairs, but also reflected, But such people have always been their own way, so after seeing this situation, soon my house reached the lease period, I immediately did not renew the contract and chose to change a house, and then change the living environment, I also paid special attention to this aspect to confirm, there is no problem before choosing to rent a house, I want to say, for those neighbors who breed pets extremely unhygienic behavior, in fact, not only affects themselves, but also affects the environment of the entire unit, they should still be able to pay attention to this.

In the face of the noise of the neighbors, let's deal with it first in a peaceful way, and Qi regret suggested the following ways for going too far.

1: Collect evidence to communicate.

First of all, use the recording method to record the noise of the neighbors, often like this, you take the evidence to communicate with the neighbors in the past, and now in general, the quality of the whole people has improved a lot, and he is good to theorize, I believe that most people will understand each other. If he doesn't believe it, you can show him the "evidence" we prepared in advance.

2: Find an intermediary to help negotiate.

If the continuous noise affects your daily life and you don't want to solve it directly with your neighbors, you can talk to the property and ask the property to help negotiate. If it is a decoration or something, if the construction unit is making noise during normal working hours, you can only accommodate yourself first, buy a good headset with sound insulation effect or something to rest or study.

3: I can't bear it, and if the negotiation fails, I will call the police to solve it.

If the negotiation result is not ideal, the other party's attitude is arrogant and unreasonable, you can directly call the police to deal with it, ** If the effect is not great, you can only go to court to sue, but before that, all the evidence must be prepared in advance. After all, if you go to court, it will be laborious and costly. It is still very rare to encounter such unreasonable strange neighbors, and generally speaking, the above two can basically solve things.

4: If you are unfortunate enough to encounter this kind of strange neighbor, we can only "fight violence with violence", so that neighbors can also experience the impact of noise on life. Buy a stupid grinding subwoofer speaker,Put it up every day,It's really a helpless move,Not every high-end person can do empathy,You talk to him about quality,He doesn't care。

5: No more, I can only make my house soundproof. Renovated his home.

After all, I have lived for a long time, and it is not worth getting angry because of these things every day, so I can only spend some money to improve the current environment in order to have a better living environment. If you are a tenant, you will move if you report to the landlord that it is really not possible.

For the vast majority of people living in the city, they will be more or less affected by some noise in their daily lives, and the vast majority of these noises are generated by the upstairs neighbors, then, when the noise of the neighbors affects their lives, I often take the following ways and methods to communicate with the upstairs neighbors, or take the following means to deal with them.

First of all, if the noise of the upstairs neighbor's house is not very large, and this noise only occurs occasionally, then in this case, I will still be more understanding and tolerant, after all, in daily life, no one can avoid creating all kinds of noise, since the choice of living in the city should have more tolerant attitude in this aspect of life, the other party may just be unintentional, there is no need to worry about such a trivial matter, which affects the relationship between neighbors. It's just that the gains outweigh the losses.

But if the upstairs neighbor's noise is particularly loud, then in this case, I will take the initiative to find the upstairs neighbor, in a gentle tone to the upstairs neighbor put forward their own suggestions, hoping that the upstairs neighbor can control the noise as much as possible, if in this polite communication, the other party is still deaf, then in this case, I will call the property of my own community, by the property side to communicate and mediate, if the property can not be solved or there is no property in the community, then in this case, I will turn to the community neighborhood committee to intervene, if it is difficult for the community neighborhood committee to really solve this problem, then for me, I can only make two choices, either through the court to collect relevant evidence and the upstairs neighbor to the end, or if I can't bear it, completely change the living environment.

In the face of such a situation, as a neighbor, it is incumbent upon us to stand up and theorize about this matter, and communication can solve the problem more than quarreling.

In the summer, flies buzz, swill wander around, and even worse, flatulence is scurrying, and other people passing by only cover their noses, and as neighbors, they are even more miserable, which has seriously affected their daily lives. If the neighbor puts the garbage at the door and does not deliberately get along with people, the habit in the countryside is to dump the garbage on the backyard dung heap, a matter of a few steps, all life after entering the city is not used to it.

Notes and important things to know for neighbors:

Taking into account the neighbors' schedules, many people think that no one else can control what they do at home, singing K in the middle of the night, or walking around in high heels at home, or playing ball at home, but ignoring whether the neighbors next door or upstairs and downstairs are resting. It's easy to make your neighbors unhappy with you.

Don't get the garbage at your door to the door of your neighbor's house, maybe the garbage at your door is not thrown by you, even if you see it, don't kick or sweep it to the door of the neighbor's house, so that not only the neighbor will be unhappy, maybe they will sweep back to your door, back and forth and finally it is inevitable to have a big fight, so obediently sweep the garbage to the trash can.

Just know the gossip between neighbors, don't go around talking about right and wrong, the fastest rumor is the community, and if you spread ten or ten hundred words, you will inevitably be hated by others in the future; When you see a neighbor lifting or lifting heavy objects, you should take the initiative to give way, not grab up and grab or squeeze up and down, but also take the initiative to ask if you need help; When you encounter an elderly person going up and down the stairs, you should go up and help them.

The above content reference: Encyclopedia - Neighbors.

You should try to get your neighbors together, talk to each other, get together with each other, eat right away, maybe the relationship will be good, right? Isn't it the New Year soon? You can invite him to your house for Chinese New Year's Eve, maybe this may make you a good friend.

Every year, there are many people who fight because of the problem of "neighborhood noise". There are mainly upstairs and downstairs because of noise problems to install vibrators; There are community square dances where the volume is too loud to affect children's rest and learning, resulting in verbal quarrels and even physical conflicts.

My child fell asleep in the square dancing class almost every night until he was one year old. The window of my house is facing the community square, and there is a lane in the middle, and you can see the dancing aunts. As long as it doesn't rain, those aunts report on time at 7 o'clock every night and end at 9 o'clock in the evening.

Once, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I shouted at the window to make the voice quieter, and then the volume was lowered a little; But the next day, I relapsed, I persisted for 2 days, found the property, asked the property to mediate, and told the property that it could not be solved, so I could only call the police. The property didn't want to call the police, so I found the aunts in the square that night to solve the problem, the volume improved a lot, and the time was adjusted to 8:30 p.m.

1. Negotiation and mediation.

Usually, the noise of neighbors is mostly the noise of life, such as dogs barking and cats barking, singing late at night, playing sparrows, and so on. At this time, negotiate with the neighbor amicably, explain the situation, and after the neighbor realizes the problem, he will pay attention to reducing the noise, after all, the convenience with others is the convenience with himself.

The best way is to negotiate and solve, as much as possible to let the neighbors understand the impact of noise on your life In general, our neighbors can be reasonable, try not to affect the lives of others, so negotiation can solve most of the conflicts between neighbors, so usually you should also deal with the relationship with the neighbors, so that when you solve the problem, the other party is more likely to accept your demands.