I can t put it down, but it s not suitable to be together, what should I do?

If you can already see with certainty that you are not suitable together, it is a sign that you have withdrawn and all you want is encouragement to leave him.

Actually, as you described, I would also advise you not to continue. He said, "You knew it wasn't appropriate from the start," and if you were arguing and saying a few words once in a while, it could be angry. But if such language often appears, then you really have to wonder if he chased you because he loved you in the first place.

But either way, it's up to the two of you. Do you love him or not, will you be particularly sad if you leave him, and will it have an impact on your future love? And whether he loves you or not, that's the key.

Either way, it's better to ask others than yourself. Your own heart is the most important thing. Although the authorities are fascinated, the onlookers are always spectators, and it is impossible to fully feel your hearts.

I think you'd better not hesitate, you just have to do two things, one is to ask yourself, and the other is to ask him... Then, you always have to be ruthless in making a decision. Anyway, remember four words and leave no regrets.

There's nothing you can't put down. He said, "But I just can't put it down."

The monk told him to hold a teacup, and then poured hot water into it until it overflowed. The sufferer was so hot that he immediately let go of his hand. The monk said

There is nothing in this world that you can't let go, and when it hurts, you will naturally let go.

Feelings, don't listen to what others say, or look at your own feelings, if you like it, find the reason for the contradiction between the two, and say goodbye if you don't like it.

Be decisive, if you feel that it is really inappropriate, it is more rational to break early, after all, time is precious for everyone, after all, youth is short.

His purpose has been achieved, and it is doubtful that he intended it in the first place.

That's the man ... In fact, it's all the same, he sees you as beautiful or has a good impression of you, there will be a possessiveness that men will have, and what you can't get will be the best, and when he is not with you, he will chase with rhetoric and wait for him to catch up, and he will satisfy his possessiveness, so there is no need to be as good to you as before Because he doesn't really like you anyway, and it doesn't make sense to be good to you, and there is no need to waste feelings for him "It's not worth it" Someone is chasing you It also depends on whether he is worth your feelings for him Maybe others think you're not worth it, but you think it's worth it, so it's up to you whether you say yes or not, and others can't control it.

Friend! Cherish the happiness in front of you! Feelings require constant consideration and understanding from both parties! Do you dare to guarantee that the next relationship will be better!

Find the right one for the other person and you're leaving.

Let go of obsessions, sooner or later there will be one who will let go, and the one who is injured always refuses to let go. Most of life is that I met a person who was not very right at the right time, and after I had marriage and moral constraints, I found that I met a person who was sure to be right at the wrong time, so I fell in love but couldn't love.

Maybe the person who was guarding was the right person, but he didn't know how to walk and he became not so right, and at this time another person who was very right appeared, the same wrong time, the same pain and suffering.

Falling in love with someone who can't be together, many people know that the best ending is to let go of their love for him, love doesn't have to be together, as long as he can be happy, it's enough, but few people can do it willingly, and the heart that wants but can't get it is always in turmoil.

Two people really love each other, and can't be together, for this feeling can not let go, I personally think it is better to relax the mind, do not have to think too much about what to do later, first enjoy the beauty of this relationship now, after all, not all feelings can be rewarded and results in the end, couples in love are often difficult to grasp rationally for this feeling, for young people to experience a certain amount of sentimentality is not necessarily a bad thing, this to a certain extent will also make their hearts continue to be strong, At the same time, I will not leave regrets in my life.

1. Recognize the reality, put the consequences in front of you, and kill all your fantasies.

If you can't let go, then list the realistic situation, let yourself recognize the real situation, and know that the final one who is together and not together has no good consequences, when the reality is torn off the veil of fantasy, you will be sober, and you will know how to weigh the pros and cons with reason.

2 Accept in your heart the fact that you want to let go of this person, and let yourself understand that separation is the best ending.

When you think about letting go, accept the fact that the other party is separated from him, you will understand more and more that separation is good for him and himself, and it will not only be painful but can slowly calm down after the pain. Accept the facts and stay away from obsessions.

The more I recall, the more I can't let go of many things, put my empty and lost heart into some other things, such as reading books, traveling, meeting with good friends, talking and laughing to let myself forget him unconsciously, don't think about it, be less nostalgic, pay attention elsewhere, have other things to do, don't have to be entangled in pain, and slowly fade the love with that person.

4. Constantly build yourself and use a better life to let yourself see the real direction of life.

For a certain period of time, we may be obsessed, but when we continue to improve our life realm and circumstances, when our life rises to another level with our own efforts, we will find that the feelings and people that plagued us before have disappeared in the history of the years, and it is no longer worth wasting our efforts, because there is a better life waiting for us. When our hearts are rich enough, we will find that the previous obsession is even a little ridiculous.

I think no matter how much you love someone, you can definitely dilute everything with time, you are very much in love with your heart now, but you won't think like this after a year, two or three years, people are in love when they are very sober, although you can't let go of him at the moment, but the two of you can't be together for various reasons, I think it's still necessary to fight for the opportunity for two people to be together, Because happiness and fate are in your own hands, no matter what other reasons, you just pursue it for your love, if there is really no way to give up, then there is only courage to love, if the two of you can try to really not be together, then there is really no way,

People have feelings, and feelings are generated through communication.

Since we can't be together, we have to let go.

If you want to let go, then block all messages, you can't see it, you can't touch it, and time will make you forget it.

Why can't love be together? Let's try to be together!

Look at the point, no one can live, you can try to divert your attention, go to travel, find friends to play, go shopping, in short, go out for a walk, time is the best medicine, and it will be forgotten after a long time.

Hello. Both of you are still young, and you still have a lot of opportunities to find what you like, don't give up all your opportunities for the sake of being alone. If you really like him, you have to work hard to change yourself and make yourself better, so that he will see your change.

It's not suitable for the two of you to be together, it's because you're not good enough, so he will leave you, it's a very real problem, you have to work hard to make yourself excellent, so that you will have a greater chance, and more people will like you. Good luck.

If you can't be together but you can't let go, then you have to find a reason for not being able to be together.

If it is because of objective reasons, such as the distance between the two parties, you can't live together, then it depends on whether the relationship is worth it for you or the other party to give up the original life, circle of friends, and start a new life in the other party's city.

If it is a subjective reason, such as the other party can let go of your relationship even if he is not with you, then it proves that the relationship is not worth your effort. For example, if your parents don't agree, try to convince them that they are sincere, and of course you can't take extreme measures.

In the end, if you work hard and still can't be together, then let it go, there is no one in this world who can't live without anyone. In addition to him, you have your parents, and you have your family.

The most painful thing in life is this, two people who love each other obviously love each other very much, but they can't be together, and they can't let go, this kind of emotional experience is really painful. So leave it all to time, and time is the best medicine.

Because I had this experience too, and I felt that the sky was all gray. Because he moved and went to live in another city with his parents, and we could only watch the distance getting farther and farther away, it was too unrealistic to be together, we succumbed to reality, and we all cried the day he left, and the heart-rending pain is still fresh in my memory.

Now that I think about it, it's still a nice feeling, at least I once had it, and I don't regret it.

Don't force yourself to let go.

Instead of forcing yourself to forget, it's better to go with the flow, miss when you should miss it, and be sad when you should be sad. When the emotional backlog is too long and cannot be vented, there is always a window of output, and when you vent your feelings and doubts in your heart in your own way, the miss will slowly fade away.

2.Facing up to that unforgettable past, sometimes letting go of a person doesn't need to be forgotten.

Escaping and resisting will not solve the problem, but will only make it more prominent. If you want to forget a past, you must first face up to that past.

I've tried, at least I won't regret it.

When you are really sure that you can't let go of this relationship, and you like him very much, then as a person's subjective initiative, you must give full play to it, because only when you fight for it yourself, this relationship will become very meaningful, and you can also redeem it, so you have to find a way to create conditions to be together.

Like you said, it's really love, but you can't be together, he's like a lot of romances, I think you should let go of what you should let go, if all the burdens are on your back, you will crush yourself, because of love, you can't be together, then bury this feeling deep in your heart, don't let it surface, live your own day, find someone who suits you, and pass this feeling to the person you love.

Now that I know that two people can't be together. If you can't put it down, you have to force yourself to put it down. Otherwise, you will be the one who will be hurt.

You should want to open up on everything. Loving someone doesn't have to be together. Keep this love in your heart.

Silently bless each other. It's also a sweet feeling.

It's easy to put down after a long time.

I love someone very much, but I can't be together.

It shows that the relationship is finally defeated by reality, and it can only be so, for example, the opposition of parents, the inconsistency of their respective life directions, the instability of the actual conditions, etc., in other words, in layman's terms, there are elements of discord in reality, so that feelings have nowhere to hide.

Since there is no way to be together, just look away, you just can't fall in love with him, and it's not that you won't be able to see each other in the future, you can be an ordinary friend, or you can open your heart and accept another love, what really has fate is not just the same as the rest of him can make you excited.

I think if you love each other very much and the other party loves you, then it is recommended that you take the initiative to communicate with the other party at this time and try to win back the other party.

If the other party already likes someone else at this time, or has already had a partner, it is recommended not to bother at this time, bless each other, and wish you happiness!

It should be put in the bottom of my heart. Because there is no result, you can't be together, in this case, you should put it in your heart, hide it in your heart, don't show it, don't affect your life.

If you can't let go, you have to let go, if you really love, then you must let go, the reason is that loving a person does not mean having it, the other is guarding, as long as the other party is happy, it is a manifestation of love.

I think no matter how much you love someone, you can definitely dilute everything with time, you are very much in love with your heart now, but you won't think like this after a year, two or three years, people are in love when they are very sober, although you can't let go of him at the moment, but the two of you can't be together for various reasons, I think it's still necessary to fight for the opportunity for two people to be together, Because happiness and fate are in your own hands, no matter what other reasons, you just pursue it for your love, if there is really no way to give up, then there is only courage to love, if the two of you can try to really not be together, then there is really no way,