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Stop hurting yourself, stop fantasizing, stop playing games, stop swearing, stop eating soft rice, stop pleasing other people.

Don't stay up late, don't indulge in games, don't try to please others, don't fantasize, don't stay in the past, don't do these things, otherwise it will affect the rest of your life.

We must stop contaminating some bad habits, stop getting to know some bad people, stop hurting ourselves, stop staying up late, and stop not caring for our bodies.

J: "I feel like life stops at the age of thirty. ”

Me: "Why?" ”

J: "Thirty is a huge chasm, friends have families of their own, and gradually, we have no friends. I've been away from Singapore for a few years and I don't really have any friends on the coast now. ”

Me: "Thirty is a big watershed, but I think it's just the beginning of our lives. I don't have many friends on the **coast now, on the one hand, I don't have a driver's license, I can't drive, the traffic is inconvenient, on the other hand, I don't like to return late, so I don't go out much for entertainment .

J: "Why do many people say that life at the age of 30 is just beginning? ”

Me: "Before the age of 30, most of the time we lived in the expectations of others, the expectations of parents, the expectations of relatives and friends, and the expectations of teachers......We studied hard according to the plan of our elders, found a stable job, and then started a family ......After the age of thirty, we can really live for ourselves, know our own preferences, know how to reject what we don't like, know how to choose what we like, or develop in the direction we want, the process may be long, but watching ourselves break through and grow little by little, isn't it a kind of harvest? ”

J: "Hmm. ”

Me: "Before I was thirty years old, I never thought that I would live alone in a strange country after the age of thirty; I never thought that I would choose to study a completely different field from the domestic selling cover; I didn't expect that I would start learning to ride a bicycle and not drive a car during ......my studiesAlthough the speed is a little slower, and it takes a little more time and energy, I keep trying, keep challenging, and I feel that life has really just begun! ”

I guess there are a lot of people who learned to ride a bike from a young age, or who have already learned to drive as soon as they graduated, but so what? These are just just skills that anyone can learn, as long as they are given time. The most important thing in life is to recognize yourself, know what you want and what you don't want, and then live according to what you want, and age is always just a number, how about thirty?

What about sixty? What about ninety? At any time, at any age, you can choose to start over!

1.Get insurance. We never know which will come first, tomorrow or the unexpected. Insurance minimizes the extent of damage.

2.Exercising the body, the body is the capital of the revolution, and only a good body can lead the second half of life.

Fitness, reading, skin care, and participate in public welfare activities.

People say that thirty is standing. When people reach the age of 30, they should start a family, find a good life partner for themselves, and start a family. There should be a career. Can support a family. You should exercise well. Let yourself have the capital to support your family and live a good life.

After the age of 30, people must do a good job in maintenance and body management. A person who is better can get everyone's attention, and a woman with particularly good body management can maintain her figure and will not gain weight easily.